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how do i improve my wit and impromptu speaking? not looking for self-help books or any of that bullshit. i'm looking more for mental exercises and techniques to get my mind thinking differently
when i was a teen i was very quiet and never spoke to anyone outside my family. now that i'm 22 and have a job, i've completely dropped my social anxiety, however my social skills are way behind. there are many times when my mind goes blank during a conversation. i can barely hold my own when bantering, and i fail almost every shit-test a woman gives me.
ive started listening to a lot of comedy, which has helped a bit
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mental exercises wont do shit. you gotta set out to practice. that is literally the mental exercise.
go out and talk to strangers. talk to friends. think a little about what you want to say in advance and lead them to what you want when you prethink something witty. it sticks in time.,
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Literally by talking more.
Neural plasticity allows any mental task to become easier the more it's done.
So the more you have to access a certain pathway when talking on the fly, the more your brain reinforces it.
Just do it now instead of later. That shit gets harder as time goes on.
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