I'm a 29y/o male. I've had 14 sexual partners, most friends with benefits NSA type deals. I've never paid for sex but once got a happy ending at a massage parlor.
On a Tindr like app a local chick hit me up and we both showed mutual "likes" whatever but I told her I'm just looking for friends not trying to date or be a part of any kids lives, ya know, cause I'm an asshole. So she's like she just wants someone to get drunk with and fuck and have some money thrown her way. I mean I've heard of old guys buying girls drinks and then just dropping cash for a blowjob and it's a go. I never experienced it and I'm kinda conflicted. Also I think I'm the settler and she's the reacher so as a settler the idea of paying seems bogus
dont go for it then. in my experience (as a hooker) when i say 'a little cash thrown my way' i mean at least 100 dollars.
if you're settling dont pay, but keep in mind as you get older casual sex gets harder.
Yes. I do appreciate your 1st hand knowledge. it has been a few years for me and she asked that aswell. I didn't think about her trying to hustle me because I e never been confronted by money before. Dinner, dates etc sure.
I think I'll take your advice and not go through with it. As much as I want to slap her big titties around with my cock I think after it's over I'd just feel as unsatisfied and out whatever untold bill is looming over the bed. I mean I've had a chick better looking then her hop in her car, drive a couple hours, bring me weed, get me high for free, suck a mean dick and leave. multiple times. So any amount of money exchange seems like a poor power position.
>not for me
exceptions exist for every rule. however just becuase you started late does not mean its eaiser now than when you were younger.
there's also the 'donut hole' effect where its harder when you're younger cuz people have high standards, then you hit those middle years where everyone just wnats to bang, then you get older and gets harder.
trust me its harder to have casual sex at the age of 40 than it is at 29.
>and have some money thrown her way
what's the old saying? Give em an inch and they'll take a mile? Never deal with gold diggers, especially the shameless ones. Zero tolerance policy.
>I'm the settler she's the reacher
not if you're paying you're not. If you were really the settler, she wouldn't have suggested it