That's rough.. I know that feel. Me and my QT talk about kissing, and cuddling all the time. Well, I asked her the other day if we could go official. And she said that she doesn't want a relationship at all and all this shit. I was really hurt, then she said this
it's crazy how we can care so much for each other. But she doesn't want a actual relationship.
I forgave her, and accept we are just friends. But I still care a ton about her, and we plan to meet again soon
I read her message. Seems like she was the type that was indecisive. Many girls out there will take you for what you did with her. A woman wants to get pampered so it's good to have some cash for your dates to get a bite and drink and just walk and talk.
It just sucks because i really enjoy this girl. I'm 26 and this is the first time I've ever had feelings for anyone. She's the first girl who has ever cared about me that I liked. But we won't date. It's frustrating. Whenever what we have ends, I'm going to quit girls
Hey man I'm 25 and learned that life is a big numbers games. Don't quit after losing! Better yourself for the next round. There's all types of girls. You just gotta go out there with a positive attitude and go up to a girl you like and make her laugh. Once she laughs, use that opportunity to introduce yourself. She will remember you for that entire day.
This may sound whack but going to the gym helps. Makes you more focused especially if you listen to your favorite songs.
it just doesn't seem worth it. To open yourself up to someone. Then it go to waste. I don't want this to happen again. I've been a very closed off person all my life. But this girl opened me up. I don't want this again if I can't have her. I think I can be content with never having sex again and dying alone
>>16756015 This feels like its taken way out of context with no explanation at all about what really is going on. I guess you had a falling out, I guess you tried to make amends, I guess she really sees you for the person she thinks you are, and I guess you just want to make sure she cant back down after she accepted your relationship request on Facebook.
Ive been on the same boat, She never wanted to change it either. In the end, I found out she didnt actually love me, she only had me around because she was lonely. She wanted a friend and I wanted more. She didnt want to hurt me but she tore my heart into pieces.
Well anon, dont F this up. If you really do think she is the girl for you then do everything in your power to lock her down, without looking desperate. Also, dont hold stuff against each other. Honesty and communication is key in LDR's. If you have things on your mind that need to be said then say them. Holding in feelings especially anger and sorrow really destroys the relationship from the inside.
I'm a Vietnamese singer/rapper that makes about 54k a year at a small office 3 minutes away from where I live. I'm 25. Have my own place with views of the city and a Lexus convertible. I didn't go to college and graduated hs with a 1.9gpa. (Drugs took over my hs days) I told her there's no point in having a boss and the things I will do will be reminded in our next next next family generations. (We talked about kids and she wants 3) I'm starting my company this year and bought a domain for $1700.00. It's a hot domain (not gonna share) but it's gonna be arts and entertainment for everyone around the globe.
I don't have any liabilities nor attachments since I've been doing this by myself for quite some time now. (Been to jail before and it was a reality check)
>>16756015 >>16756030 on one hand, yes a facebook relationship status is a fucking joke, but what it shows you about her is really what's the underlying issue here. I personally do not give a shit about relationship statuses on facebook, because it's the girl's actions that really show you if she will be faithful or not. However, her unwillingness to change it for you after you ask is showing that she generally has something to hide because something as little as changing a facebook status to in a relationship shouldn't really cause waves at all. it is ridiculous that such a menial request would be denied unless she has some side dick where she is living right now. she is clearly too comfortable with you and knows you won't leave so maybe you turn the tables on her and show her how it feels and maybe then she will confess as to what she is really doing or just give in and see things your way. it's worked for me before
>>16758258 There are two wants a women must have fulfilled, emotional and physical.
LDR only works for girls. They thrive on emotion of texting a guy. Meanwhile they receive physical fulfillment from other men. I would suggest you stop wasting your time on this energy vampire and find yourself a girlfriend who you can spend your time with. A real girl will bring you down to earth, all of this online shit just drags your emotions through the dirt, meanwhile your girlfriend thrives on the fact that some man is fawning over her somewhere out in the world.
>>16758252 That also strikes me as odd, but some people are really like that. My current boyfriend barely uses his phone and hardly texts anyone. It dies a lot just because he forgets to charge it. This used to bother me a lot until I got to know him and saw just how he was.
Depending on how long you guys have been in a relationship, it's not odd at all for her to change her status. If she still doesn't want to, that's definitely a red flag.
>>16756022 >girl talks like you're dating >won't date you Bruh Dunk that bitch like Jordan on Robitussin. She does not give a fuck about you, she's using you as an emotional crutch and validation source. It's not even a long distance thing. A few years back I had a real face-to-face relationship with a girl just like this that ended so badly it put me into a 6 month spiral of depression.
Now I'm in a long distance relationship with a girl who would absolutely kill to be within a hundred feet of me and I have no trust issues, never even comes to my mind.
>>16758282 Tell her to change her status, and explain how you cannot trust her if she cannot do something so fucking trivial; it is a red flag that she is hiding something.
Why does she refuse after four months? You are at a point in which you both know what you want from each other, and are attempting an LDR for fucks sake.
Honestly, I would end it. LDRs are difficult enough, if you cannot see one another at least once every week or two, and absolutely require communication, honesty, and trust. There are issues relating to all three, obviously, and you need to explain this to her.
I have little hope for you. Who usually travels to the other, and how much distance is there?
>>16756022 Reading that, she seems to be more about how you make her feel, opposed to actually having strong feeling toward you. You are aware of the difference, I hope? She seems to have little experience, and she may be getting caught up in the excitement of it all...
She has issues on various levels, is enjoying her new-found freedom, and is hung up on her ex despite whatever she may say. Anything with a label is obviously off the table, but the FWB arrangement is working? Are you actually sleeping with each other? If not, well, good luck.
This girl is going to hurt you. Badly. You need to distance yourself slightly, move at her pace, react, and play it at a James Dean level of cool.
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