so, is it just a myth or actually attainable? is there a girl on that actually orgasmed only form penetration? did it feel different from a clitoral orgasm?
i need to know cause if it is possible i want it.
It's pretty rare, but it is a thing. It happens for my current gf once in a while.
Before her, I'd never had sex with a girl that came that way, always had to stimulate the clit with my hand or mouth. But the first time it happened, afterward, I had to stop mid-thrust and ask her if she had just cum. She said yes. Blew my mind.
I'm lucky in that I can cum both ways.
On top and missionary are the only two ways I've been able to cum from penetration. Cumming from that feels... deeper, and it completely takes my breath away. I usually can't move and my muscles go limp right after.
are you able to cum easily otherwise?
i can imagine that it feels even more like surrendering. and i'm kind of bad at that. might be why i never experienced a penetrative orgasm yet.
I am the same, but doggy is what feels best for me. I guess it depends on the curvature of my bf. I also need a lot of foreplay and to be really in the mood to come from penetration. Also, if he makes me edge with oral and then we have sex, I come from penetration way more easily.
Haha, not gonna lie, it makes you feel pretty alpha, even though it's probably more just a lucky roll of the biological dice.
I wouldn't worry about it if it doesn't happen for you. Like I said, it doesn't happen for her very often, it never happened for any other girl I've fucked, nor have I heard any other girl I know talk about it (whereas I have heard reference to clitoral orgasm.) So it seems like a very rare thing.
I do cum pretty easily. Once I'm comfortable with someone and they know me I can cum really quickly. I WILL say though that I'm like a guy- I need at least an hour before I can go for round two. Multiple orgasms simply aren't a reality for me, nor do I really want them to be. All the horny drains from my body the instant I cum, haha.
I agree 100% about everything but doggy style. I've cum from that maaaaaaybe one time. I just like it because the guy usually likes it.
>All the horny drains from my body the instant I cum
oh yeah i know that feel. it's not a very good idea to get me off first, my enthusiasm will be over the moment i cum. i cant help it.
so what's YOUR fav position to cum?
>I agree 100% about everything but doggy style.
I know it's pretty rare! My boyfriend is very happy about it tho.
Upwards! He has a "banana dick".
He makes me come in missionary too, but we're both way more into it and enjoy it when we're in doggy.
hm, my bf's dick is straight. i'll probably try playing with angles.
do you think this has anything to do with the ominous "g-spot"? i mean, i can feel a small rugged area inside the upper wall of my vagina and i gues it's supposed to be my g-spot. it just doesn't give me any pleasure to stimualte that spot.
>I know it's pretty rare! My boyfriend is very happy about it tho.
can you pls describe how it feel when you get near a vaginal orgasm? i feel like i might be at the edge sometimes but aren't able to pinpoint it cause i never got to the point of no return yet.
Gf cums from penetration every time. She was a virgin that never masturbated. She told me she came 4 times once. 3 times a handful of times and twice usually half the time. Otherwise I just make her cum and then make myself cum.
Easiest way is to hit her g spot. If missionary I just push the base of my dick up against her in a way that makes my penis point up. Prone bone makes her cum because I'm on top thrusting straight down. This other positiion that starts off doggy style but I grab her upper body and hold it close to me. Kind of like we're both sitting upright but I'm fucking from behind. After our sessions she's satisfied and ready for a nap.
My current fuckbuddy rarely cums from penetration. I'd say about 1/2 the time. I usually give her a hand and give her a reach about to make her cum
>I just push the base of my dick up against her in a way that makes my penis point up. Prone bone makes her cum because I'm on top thrusting straight down
i feel like this is the key. now i need to somehow explain to my bf how to do this
Oh, probably. I had just one partner so I don't have much experience with different curvatures.
I can't exactly describe it. I can really feel it building up, it's like a clit orgasm every time he thrusts.
>clit orgasm every time he thrusts
why the hell doesn my bf have to be out of town for a week. god fucking damn. atleas i know what i'm doing with him when he's back again
can you confirm that prone bone is a good position or does this not make you cum?
My girlfriend orgasms easily with me.
She actually told me she doesnt like having her clit touched and she doesnt masturbate.
Main thing women need to understand is if you masturbate a lot with your clit, there is a chance you wont be able to orgasm piv.
I think he means if a girl gets used to the clit stimulation above everything and before everything else; it'll be hard for her to adapt her pleasure to piv
Not always the case but it's true. More like a psychological thing than anything
I had ED and this is what I got from the doctor.
>Orgasming is largely mental and you train yourself what to expect when you masturbate. If you masturbate in a way that doesnt mimic sex then your less likely to orgasm during sex
I dont know. Maybe you have sex which involves violent rubbing of the clit. I went to the doctor because I didnt come no matter how many hours I was banging my gf and she finally broke down and said going that long was too uncomfortable for me not to get off.
It wasnt death gripping btw since thats all women seem to think guys do.
I'm 32, and hung like a porn star.
I've been with my fair share of women, and only one failed to cum solely from PIV.
Both girls I did the LTR with would come as soon as I wanted them to, and foreplay is never to be underrated. Learn your dick, curve, which positions work best for her, and your refractory period; even in my 30s, with the right amount of protein, I can go for round two in a few minutes.
If PIV doesn't work, some women just can't cum from that alone.
Totally possible. I came the first time I was penetrated. Theres' this thing called the "g spot" on or near the cervix and when I hard dick is banging on it it's like x.
It feels different from a clitoral orgasm. All I can say is that clitoral orgasms are more 'generalized" whereas cervical orgasms are more intense and all-over.
Those are 2 different positions. The prone bone is easy. You just lay on your stomach and he gets on top and thrusts. Helps if he has a big dick because your buttcheeks will act as bumpers and make it a long reach.
The other one... Well its hard to explain. It helps if you have a pillow under you to have your vag elevated. He's not going to thrust but rock his hips in a motion that runs your anterior pelvic wall. He has to use your posterior cat opening as leverage though. So it'll be like a motion that looks like he's trying to rub his balls on your asshole. Lol
No it was just something weird but it worked. Basically to fix it I just had to spend 3 weeks forcing myself to masturbate in some way similar to sex and bam, no more problem. I still dont masturbate in the conventional way because it doesnt make sense to me but doc said its fine as long as the vagina can replicate it.
They actually assumed I had used death grip or prone at first but said it didnt matter since they all have the same problems (I was too shy to tell them what I actually did at first). Assuming you havent damaged your penis though because there are some guys who apparently get off to hitting their penis. There are a surprisingly large amount of ways guys can masturbate wrong which made me feel better when the doctor told me this.
Prone is apparently one of the easier ones to fix since its so different you basically have a clean slate.
I cant quite remember, but I think the damage done is only if you use hard objects and not inherent to any masturbation method. Like there are seriously guys who hit their penis with sticks.
Yeah. My same reaction when the doctor said that. Its basically starts from not being able to get hard when you want so you hit your dick until it does. And now youve trained yourself to find pleasure in that and it just escalates from that.
Or at least thats the path the doctor told me.
I think I can come more easily from penetration, because a clitoral orgasm takes more effort. A vibrator works well because stimulation is constant, but otherwise I get too sensitive quickly, which makes touching my clit tickly or even painful.
I don't know which one I prefer, it both feels good but with the right build-up a vaginal orgasm is definitely (a lot more) more intense!
>rub clit to orgasm
>wonder why you cant orgasm when clit isnt rubbed
Gee I wonder why.
You may not realize what you are actually sexually attracted too, my wife always organism if she's on top, and cowgirls my dick, but other positions just don't turn her on as much. So sometimes it's a matter of
And women wonder why they cant get off during sex lol.
Doesnt really matter. I have the same stance the medical community has. The female orgasm isnt necessary. Do whatever you want since it doesnt change anything.
The penis shaft in male anatomically correlates to clitoris in female, not the vaginal wall, hence why most women need clit simulation.
Normally when I have sex with my wife I touched her clit until she's about to come, then started penetrating her while she rubs her clit herself. We then time it so we cum together, always feel amazing
My ex girl I'm still having sex with atm only has orgasms when she fucks with me (she has at least 4 other guys fucking her too currently = slut, why I left her emotionally), hence, why we still have sex (that and I have an open relationship).
Sometimes I make her cum only by inserting my dick in her, slowly, until balls deep and she twitches internally and climaxes (i have the impression that it's the identical thing as those guys cumming within 30secs in the vag).
It also depends on the partners; i.e. my current girlfriend cums about 30 - 40 times per fucking session (whenever we fuck, it's about 6h) and I cum about 6 times on average (in that time). Also there is a difference for men when it comes to ejaculation vs orgasm. Me, I can orgasm without having an ejaculation and can ejaculate without orgasm.
Also jelqing is a shit, don't do it. :)
>The penis shaft in male anatomically correlates to clitoris in female, not the vaginal wall, hence why most women need clit simulation.
Wow. People are even lying now.
The clit is the penis head. the vagina is the shaft. I never touch my head while masturbating.
My bfs dick is straight too. My favorite positions are missionary with a pillow under my butt (also works with ankles on shoulders) or when I lay on my stomach and he straddles me.
Are you shitting me? Ive had sex exactly one time and I couldnt cum, I assumed it was due to the fact that I had a wank that morning and I was quite drunk when fucking
But before that I had just masturbated exclusively for like 8 years... So thats why I couldnt cum? Sex wasnt doing it for me because I had 7 years of programming in me telling me to cum when I wanked the way I was used to?
Tell me theres a way to reset my dick
Should I go cold turkey for a few weeks?
Prone bone is THE best. I had a bf with this great dick and he was the first to do me that way. He fucked me for hours and I came like a hundred times. Geez I miss that guy. Well, him not so much but I miss his dick.
Never been able to get the missus off with fingering or oral.
Me on top and I can get her to squirt.
She rides the dick and she can orgasm and squirt.
If I pound her anus she cums as well, she's always on top for that though.
She says the anal orgasm isn't as intense as the vaginal orgasm. She seems to accidentally have the anal one, whereas the vaginal one often takes some cocentration on her part.