How am I supposed to cope with knowing that I'm completely unattractive and will never experience a gf or friends?
I.E. how do I not kill myself and enjoy life and not feel lonely despite being forced to live alone for however long I choose to live?
I can understand the gf thing over not being attractive (and even then that's debatable); but no friends over not being attractive? WTF? Do you want to be friends only with gay guys or what?
I doubt you're THAT disfigured. As long as you take care of your self hygienically most people who are looking for true friends won't bail on you.
Work on your personality and find a super ugly disfigured girl and make little mutant babies.
Choose to live forever
>acquire sluts anyway then
>have a fundamental epiphany somewhere along the way and realize you were wrong about some important stuff, meeting true love along the way
Absolutely nothing horrific or particularly appealing. You look like you could be a background extra in everything ever made.
Do you KNOW what actual ugly looks like? Unfixable, unfuckable UGLY?? Jesus, once again, a delusional one.
No I'm not.
Average people have redeemable attributes friendo.
Chicks don't care if you play guitar if you're not even 1/10
It's not even possible for you to be more unattractive than I am.
>Chicks love guys who have dogs and play the guitar.
no they don't, they love attractive, outgoing, successful guys who have dogs and play the guitar
they also love attractive outgoing successful guys who have a goldfish and spend all their free time on the internet.
You rarely see people below 3s and 4s to begin with. There are VERY few truly ugly people. And yes, I see them with friends and girlfriends. Try going outside once in a while, fresh air is good for you.
>Average people have redeemable attributes friendo.
I don't even know what that means. Do you think I'm lying to you? Do you think I'd bother? You have no idea who I am, and I'm telling you, you're not unfuckably ugly. You are "meh" looking. Get a grip. I'm a decent looking chick, and if you were older I definitely wouldn't turn you down based on your attractiveness.
You've got to stop blaming your looks for your lack of friends/gf. That's not the only thing holding you back.
i didnt see it cuz i have soc filtered out. that being said if its really OP (i doubt it) hes not even that ugly weight loss would fix it all
haha ok, well listen.
I see goofy looking dudes with hot chicks all the time. And not even ones with money. I wouldn't say you need to accept never getting a gf or friends.
What you DO have to accept is how you look. Listen man, I'm a decent looking female. But I'm 27. My stock is rapidly declining as we speak, and there's nothing I can do about it. Trust me when I say losing your looks sucks more for women than it does for men, and I won't be goodlooking for much longer. But I'm smart(ish), I'm funny, I'm kind, and I'm always down for an adventure, and I'm not too picky when it comes to looks in the least. That's what you've got to focus on, and stop resolving to being alone forever.
Sorry shit sucks, it IS hard to find quality people regardless. But give yourself a little more credit- you're no ogre.
Plenty of girls are superficial, but there are quite a lot that are attracted to skills, brains, charm and the all-important confidence.
As for friends.. Looks don't really matter if you can bring something relevant to the table and aren't clingy or a total pushover
You sound like a great person. Way too kind
funny you chose that word since I look almost exactly like shrek
Yeah. Well I don't really have any of those things either
OP if this is really a pic of you I hope you're fucking joking. You are literally a 5/10. Average as fuck. Loose the excess weight, or build some muscle, and an easy 7.
I remember one day about a decade ago, I was 15 in highschool. First girl I thought I every had a chance with, and being naive, I put all my eggs in one basket. Long story short, she was just a flirt and dropped me for a more attractive man.
It was a clear, cloudless day, and I was sluggishly helping my grandparents around their house for some spare cash. My grand father was a perceptive, quiet man, who watched everything without usually saying a word.
That day, he noticed my pitiful attitude. We were standing at a window facing the lake his house was built beside, and said aloud to himself,"Men these days are hopeless romantics. Focus on yourself, better yourself. Good things will come."
He looked at me, lastly said,"quit being a pussy." Those words changed my perspective.
There's two kinds of attractive men that I see: strong jaw aesthetic men, or grizzly and rough manly men. If you can't be aesthetic like those male models, focus on being a man.
TL;DR: quit being a pussy
I did make an okcupid but no one ever talked to me on it.
Tried tinder too, got no matches even though I swiped right on everyone.
idk if that's true
I've had my fair share of acne. I've even had cysts before.
I tried but psych people just lie to me ;-;
I am though
probably just a hunk
meh, well I'm too naive and sweet for Tinder myself. I'd be eaten alive. Do you honestly think people are nice enough to lie to you? They're not...
But if you ever move to VA or NYC I'll take you for a drink at least. But I'd force you to drop the sadsack attitude first. kik?