Help me /adv/ I need advice
>around my 14th birthday, brother starts sexually abusing me
>I'm spineless so I don't tell anyone and just let it happen
>eventually I start to enjoy it
>I'm fucked up and hate myself
>More recently I start hanging out with my brother's best friend
>Please don't fall in love
>I can't tell if he's interested in me or not
>I want to stop my brother from having sex with me but I'm scared he'll get violent
>Brother's friend would probably hate me if he found out
>He's started hanging out with some blonde bimbo, but I can't tell if they're going out or not
What do I do?
Just fucking do it!
At the very least talk to your parents.
Or else just move away from home if you are so afraid of confrontation, but you know that there is only one thing that stops this, and that is your rapist brother behind bars.
You could also set him up. Make your phone record your room (or whereever you have sex). Resist his advances. He will force you or threaten you right? BAM, there is the evidence.
You go to the police, and they pick him up with 3 hours with such strong video material, and he will NEVER EVER be able to touch you again.
DON'T FEEL GUILTY! THAT'S WHAT HE WANTS YOU TO DO. HE WILL SAY YOU WANTED IT, HE WILL SAY YOU BEGGED FOR IT, HE WILL SAY YOU SEDUCED HIM.
AND IT IS LIES!
He is the fucking criminal, and he deserves jail
Call the police! Please do it, I had a gf who hid her sexual abuse (she was sexually assaulted by her cousin), and it really fucked up her head. If you don't report this now, this WILL cripple your life. It WILL hold you back, and you need to report it now. I'm not joking, my ex gf was forced to suck her cousins dick, which is really bad, but you are being forced to have sex, which is more traumatic. You really need to turn him in, for the sake of yourself.
Honey, you have to do this. This will seriously mess you up for life if you never talk about it or report it. I lost a lot making my gf talk to the police and her parents about her cousin sexually assaulting her (she broke up with me 2 days later, and stopped talking to me completely), but I still don't regret it, because I got her the help she needed for the future. You have to get help femanon. The sooner you report your brother, the sooner you can get help. You'd be surprised how many people are sympathetic towards sexual assault victims in the US.
She's not scared.
OP confirmed for sick fuck slut who enjoys having sex with her brother.
There's no abuse, you're giving consent from how I see it. You're not making clear you don't want it.
Stop being an attention whore and do whatever.
Most Western countries are sympathetic to rape victims. Could you also tell us how this all started and why it continued? This could change the legal consequences your brother might face, and it'll help you relieve some stress as you can get this off your chest. My ex gf did this before talking to her parents, and it helped her come out and get it off her chest more easily.
It's a long story, but my brother has always been selfish. When we were younger he'd hit me and roughhouse. I guess it was a natural progression. He started by making me use my hand, then my mouth. Eventually he knew he could just have me do whatever he wanted because I was too scared to stop him.
Okay, OP, if this still happens to this day, you have to report it. Like I said, my ex gf was sexually assaulted by her cousin, and she has a fucked up family to go with it, so please report this before you end up insane like my ex.
If he's a good person, he won't view you in a negative way if you tell the police ahout this. Now, I don't know the conditions of your relationship with him right now, but you can always try asking him out yourself if he might be interested. Just be careful, he might try to take advantage of you.
Look hon, your brothers friend isn't the issue right now. Please remove yourself from this position asap, call the cops tell parents do something. Your body's physiological reaction to external stimulus doesn't mean that you're psychologically enjoying it. It's not the same thing. Please for yourself get some help. It is NOT your fault
I'm a senior (I'm 18 so mods please do not ban). And last time was a week ago. Lately I've been less than willing to go along with him because I have feelings for someone and I think he's noticed.
Do it for her. Stop him before he hurts her too Cherry. He won't stop with you. He will hurt anyone he is in a relationship with. Unless you put an end to it before it can begin.
Sorry I was unclear I mean my brother's friend might have feelings for her. Also I shouldn't have called her a bimbo I was just upset. She's nice.
this was me but I forgot my tripcode.
Honest question, Does he know you feel like this? or even think you don't enjoy it?
>eventually I start to enjoy it
It's not that I like doing it but my body reacts on its on whether I want it to or not. And he holds it over my head and taunts me for it.
Thank you for your kind words. I'll see if I can try what you suggested to me.
her family might be failing her in this scenario.
hey, op, you are damaged in a way that is not letting you see that you have your priorities mixed up, and i don't think your family will be able to help you deal with this.
you don't see that your basing your decision on stopping physical assaults on your person because you're irrationally worried about someone elses view of you whom you don't currently have any attachments to anyways.
normally i'd say you were just a young dumb kid.
but since the physical assault is sexual, and perpetrated by a family member, i'm telling you your senses on this are broken and need to be rebuilt form the ground up.
this guy, friend of your rapist brother, is inconsequential in the scheme of things in your life, and he definitely wont be the last chance to find someone nice to have in your life.
go to the police, separate yourself from this immediate family.
You called her a bimbo out of jealousy, which isn't unreasonable, and then feel sorry?
You seem like a really sweet girl. Don't let people drag you down, especially not your brother. Wish I could help you but the only one who can help you is yourself, you have to get out of the situation with your brother, best way is to report him.
Good luck OP
You should stab your brother the next time he rapes you. And that's what he's doing, raping you, even if it's been going on so long that you've let denial fuck up your thinking.
Either stab him or cut his throat after.