I have a really attractive girlfriend, she is the world to me, treats me like a king, beautiful, we are best friends aswell, and she was a virgin when we met and I took her virginity, she's been loyal to me for 4 years now, she's conventionally very beautiful and the sex is satisfying.
Recently, I've had the urge to sleep with a member of the same sex out of curiosity and I found a transgendered person online.
He/she looks quite passable and is honestly very beautiful and we get along great, and he/she fills my niche. He/she's invited me over for some fun but I feel incredibly guilty about betraying my girlfriend, she's absolutely sweet and innocent.
But at the same time, I'd love to experience something new and exciting with the trans.
how open is your gf about stuff like this?
it would be way, WAY better do try stuff like thaz with her knowing.
i mean, i wouldn't blame my bf for wanting some excitement after being loyal for 4 years (you were loyal, RIGHT?)
but i would prefer to make such experiences as a couple.
you'll probably regret it either way.
you could try talking to her about it, though. maybe she'd want to do a threesome or something.
or you could break up with her to explore other things.
I think you know she has to know.
Cheating is never ok.
All of 4chan would behead you for cheating on a virgin.
Open the relationship or kiss your non monogamous intrests goodbye.
>Recently, I've had the urge to sleep with a member of the same sex out of curiosity and I found a transgendered person online.
What the fuck is wrong with people nowadays?
I hope your girlfriend wises up and dumps your gay ass.
Before my current gf let me took her virginity I had a fuck buddy girl on the side. When with my ex I tried a dude out of curiosity. Cheating is bad blah blah blah but I'm a sex addict. I don't really see what's so bad about it if it's just to get off and you found someone safe to fulfill that need when the gf can't.
I say to go with it, don't tell the gf. Make sure the tranny don't get any feelings for you. If it was anything like me, it was alright until I came. Then I noped out of there.
Absolutely not, she's religious and old fashioned, shit like that would absolutely repulse her and the fact that I cheated would utterly crush her.
I know, I keep resisting but my mind keeps wandering.
I'm about to move in with her and everytime I'm with her, my gay thoughts go away. Hopefully, it will stay that way.
But in the back of my mind, this idea will keep growimng.
Cheating is morally corrupt when you desire monogamy.
Stop desiring monogamy if you don't want to be monogamous. You shouldn't lie to a girl and promise monogamy when you don't want to.
With the guy, how did it feel like?
I don't want to kiss the tranny because my lips are reserved for my girl but anything else is fair game though.
I figure, I'll experience it and then cross it off my bucket list for good, never doing it again, just getting it out of my system.
Somewhat in regards to your trip name...you follow life by the rules you just get ran over. OP wants a little life experience that the gf can't provide. Makes no sense at all to bottle up that fantasy nor break up with her when this experience only requires like an hour tops to complete.
Well I just wanted someone to fuck. I figured a holes a hole. But nah, I hated how hairy he was, whiskers are scratchy, he lubed up his ass so much there was no feeling. A passable tranny I might do but yeah after cumming I wanted to leave asap lol. My current gf does anal and I really don't care for it period it turns out.
>you follow life by the rules you just get ran over.
Because risking everything and getting a STD for something that you don't even know if you will enjoy is totally the safe thing to do? Are you legitimately retarded? Or are you suggesting that you are going to get fucked over either way so you might as well be the one to do it? Why not just go ahead and kill yourself then if it is inevitable anyways?