Okay, you guys give me your honest opinion
>Meet pink haired girl in coffee shop
>She is cute, very fiesty.
>We chat and have a deep amazing conversation.
>Exchange phone numbers and text.
>Meet for netflix and chill. Have sex.
>Meet her out on the city one night.
>She introduces me to her bf.
>He is the nicest person ever, buys me a beer.
>Get separated and meet up with just her.
>She come over to my place and we end up in bed again.
>Afterwards we talk about it, I don't remember the details of the conversation, but I remember some of her phrases that made an impact on me.
>"I'm my own person, he doesn't own me"
>"He likes giving me things, he gave me an iphone"
>"Sexuality and feelings are two different things" We have two very different words for this in our language, this isn't translated directly.
>"Well, I'm a lot of woman to handle"
Still talk to her a lot, do you think she would do the same thing to me if I was her bf? She is an amazing person.
Yes, your the type of a guy she wants. A guy who thinks she's cute, likes her and has zero morals when it comes to pussy. She'd walk all over you if you were her boyfriend bro.
I'd still fuck her a few more times but get that relationship out of your head unless you want to end up like boyfriend.
It really isn't worth the risk, if you can get her to fuck you I'm confident that you can find a higher quality woman to date who didn't fuck around on her nice boyfriend with you kek. I mean really bro, can't turn a ho into a housewife.
but we have these amazing conversations that I've never had with anyone else in my life. Like, the first time after just fifteen minutes we were talking about when you sleep in during weekends and have those really intricate dreams that just seem to last for hours. And I told her secrets about my life, like how I had a break down my first year away from home, and she was just like "What was that like" and really listened. She isn't just a random slut.
Any bitch will listen to me talk about anything if I give her my attention and she wants it. She just likes the attention and is engaging because of it
She likes you now and wants your attention now, but I bet her and her man started the same way before he became a cuck because " she gets him"
She's a super slut. Pretty sure there's a 3rd guy involved.
>She isn't just a random slut.
she is but she makes you believe she's not. I could go with pink hair, even tho it yells 'I'm a special snowflake and an easy slut in one!", but her shady morality when it comes to sex and relationship... She doesn't respect her boyfriend, who gives her expensive gifts and apparently cares for her, she won't respect you either. All her knowledge and catchy pseudo intelligent phrases like
>>"I'm my own person, he doesn't own me"
>"Sexuality and feelings are two different things"
reek of tumblr. She's a good manipulator and she knows it, and you are an easy catch. Of course she's gonna play understanding, deep dream girl for you. She wants you to like her because that feeds her self esteem. Shitty thing is she'll dump you in the blink of an eye and leave you std ridden.
People can be fun to talk to without being loyal. Sorry. She sounds like amazing FWB material, but very poor girlfriend material.
She literally told you to your face that she doesn't believe in sexual fidelity. What the fuck do you think -- that she'd just rearrange her whole life philosophy for the privilege of dating you? That's insane.
>She sounds like amazing FWB material, but very poor girlfriend material.
This. She is telling you, very clearly, that she has no intention of being monogamous. If you're ok with that, go for it. If you try to convince her not to fuck anyone but you, it will not end well for you.
You sound like a guy who gets attached way to easy. It might be possible for someone with more control over himself to fug her and keep it at that, but that won't work for you, OP. She will fuck you over and break your fragile little nerd heart.
Well, I kinda felt that when she basicly said that she was a tough woman, that her current boyfried wasn't man enough for her, but she ends up going home with me. Maybe it's one of those things were a girl wants to be in a new relationship before she breaks up, to be comfy. I get the feeling that she doens't have sex with her boyfriend, the way she said "I'm a lot of woman to handle" Was really friendly, like we are two of a kind and can get a long, but her bf is inferior to people like us and I could be the guy she needs.
well that's just pathetic, you are projecting as fuck
so she's just staying with her bf not because she loves him, or is sexually attracted to him, but because it's 'comfy' and she gets expensive gifts...
>Maybe it's one of those things were a girl wants to be in a new relationship before she breaks up, to be comfy.
only girls, only people doing that, are literal trash. Do not delude yourself that you can be 'a guy she needs', the moment she'll find a better option, she'll jump on that superior dick leaving you behind as she doesn with her bf now.
>instead ending a dead end relationship chooses to cheat and keep sucking her naive bf's wallet dry
Literally no dignity whatsoever
Yeah, it is a fucked up situation. And I for one would never allow her to do what she is doing. But she isn't my gf. But really, we have amazing conversation, and she is so smart. We had this conversation about parallell universes, that was so good it could have been written by Tarantino. We laid in bed and talked about just random stuff that fell into our mind, like how the star dust of the universe imitates the neural pathways of the brain, somehow from that we talked about DNA and how staircases shaped like that in houses were used to destilate alchohol when you burn it at home. I've never met any girl who talks like that, perhaps some really fat ones who wants to get in my pants talk like that when they try to seduce me, but never cute girls. She likes videogames and anime too. She even told me she fuck her boyfriend with a strap-on. She is really kinky, but I don't think I'll ever meet a girl this intresting again.
Dude. She's not going to remain faithful to you, or to the next guy she dates if it's not you. It's incredibly obvious. If I'm being generous, I'd say she's got a radically different outlook on relationships than you do. If I'm not being so generous, I'd just cal her immature.
You've gotten your advice. It's been literally unanimous: do not date her if you want her to remain faithful to you. Nothing you've said has convinced anybody otherwise. Now make your choice.
>only girls, only people doing that, are literal trash. Do not delude yourself that you can be 'a guy she needs', the moment she'll find a better option, she'll jump on that superior dick leaving you behind as she doesn with her bf now.
So if you had a average, but decent gf who bought you things, then the hottest girl in the class showed intrest in you and had sex with you... You wouldn't find a way to justify letting go and trade up to the 10/10 gf?
I know, I know, I want to keep her around, perhaps have some more sex because it's pretty hot. But I find myself just cutting off other girls, because they're not as interesting, and I'm not as motivated as flirting with other girls that I used to be. To be honest I just want to take her along and run away, from everything.
Then I would break up with my gf first, that's what mature and nontrashy people do. Are you seriously trying to justify cheating? It's literally that simple, you break up with a one person and THEN slut it up with the next one.
Well, it's a straight patch towards cuckdoom-
>OP gets excited at the idea of a girl fucking anally a guy with a plastic dick
nevermind then, you are a literal cuck
>To be honest I just want to take her along and run away, from everything.
KEK, OP is 14, apparently
You're in the honeymoon stage of a fucked up relationship. Everything sounds nice because it's brand new, and for her it's the thrill of having a side boy.
But this isn't going to last. Eventually you two will get bored of each other, and you'll be clinging onto the memory of her while she finds a new guy to fuck.
Accept that she's a good fwb and move on, boy. I know it's hard to find other girls attractive, but you'll snap out of it soon.
She literally isn't, because "random sluts" aren't s thing. Every single one of them is a person with hopes and dreams.
This girl sounds great, and she's fucking you and her boyfriend at the same time. You aren't going to make that stop. She told you that in a very direct way.
Do you have any reason to suspect that this is "cheating" as opposed to "open relationship"? Because there's a HUGE difference there.
Although honestly if she's not interested in monogamy now, I'm not sure how you're going to convince her otherwise in the future (absent her changing her mind herself)
So what does OP want? For us to justify him falling in love with some trash? You're already going to do what you want despite our advice. Fuck off with your slut now and come back when she dumps you or cucks you and you're trying to find some closure
Fucking dropped. I wouldn't talk to anyone with any colored hair if I were you. She would be a reflection of you in a relationship and an embarrassment to introduce to anyone important in your life.
" Look ma, I brought home a special snowflake"
Wow the voice of maturity and life experience has spoken.
This girl's attitude is quite modern and she's obviously intelligent. Separating love from sex is something many people do as they mature and it was one of the cornerstones of "free love" in the hippy culture of the sixties and seventies.
Frankly I'd enjoy her company, enjoy the sex and see where this heads. If it's not what you want then you've been lucky to have lived an experience most of these basement dwelling virgin losers will only read about on /adv.
That's dumb. Nothing in the post says she is intelligent.
What it does say, is she has fucking mental issues.
Any woman that says "I'm a lot of woman to handle" means they are highly emotionally unstable, and are giving you warning.
If you think women and men handle sex the same, you're a double secret idiot.
Consensual Polyamory is fine. If he knows, and is cool with it, and you know, and are cool with it, I see no problem. I don't think he knows. That's a problem. She'll do it the fuck again. No anon. Do not.
Jesus, are you 17 or just incredibly uncultured? That would explain how easily impressed you ate, and the retarded bullshit you're writing.
Everyone OP, EVERYONE has met "that unconventional girl" with the cool ideas and shit, and believe me, they're as shallow as any other person.
I'm a 28 yo that just got accepted in Neurology. I'm not a sports kinda guy, but I'm cultured enough to somewhat impress girls.
I love sex, but I miss the magic of falling hard for someone.
Wow OP they sound like such deep conversations. Her simply listening to you to keep her pussy satisfied also sounds very amazing, and her talking about dreams is just so philosophical, intellectual, and engaging... Because no one else in this world talks about their dreams here and there, I forgot that it's a very esoteric and taboo subject to even go near. SOo Deep XD x)
Maybe it's time you wake up from the dream you're in instead OP, this women will more than likely chew you up and spit you out without feeling a thing, she introduced you to her boyfriend without feeling any shame or guilt, and that is not a good sign. She just sounds lost.
Any person with any kind of intelligence and an inquisitive mind has spoken about similar subjects or will in the future. There's plenty of people out there and if you haven't yet spoken to someone willing to discuss such things, you could introduce these thoughts and ideas to them I can guarantee it would create a dialogue with some kind of depth or substance, if they were up for talking about it anyway, and had some background knowledge. She's one in many but if you think she's the one have fun getting cheated on and sucked dry, OP.
>I'm going to shoot/kill a guy for assaulting me even tho I am knowingly fucking his girlfriend and am 100% at fault for getting my ass kicked in the first place.
You're such a charm