Tell her you think they're gross. If she gets one anyway, that's a sign of a fundamental problem on her side. No good gf would make themselves gross to their SO. Then after, don't touch her if her shirt is off. Stop in the middle of sex when you see her bb ring. Stop initiating sex. Either she'll get the message or break up with you, either way problem solved and you can be with someone who wants to actually try.
>>16725862 Yeah, I know that, that's why I am not telling her she cant, I would just her rather not and am looking for a way to express that to her in a way that doesnt make her angry. Like I said if she gets one I am not going to be angry I will just accept it, but I would just rather her not get one.
>>16725871 Pretty sure I dont want to break up with her over this or anything, but I see your point that it might be the sign of a problem if she was willing to make herself look gross to me for a belly button ring. Will consider carefully mate.
>>16725883 Maybe I will just have to get used to it... I definitely value are relationship more than a belly ring. Besides, her with a belly ring is still a lot hotter than 99% of girls without a belly ring for me. I do love her very much.
if your expressed distaste alone can't stop your gf from making an alteration to her body that will result in you being less attracted to her, then you sure as hell won't be able to stop her from jumping on another cock when the opportunity arises either.
trust me bro, the relationship is over. I'm 24 with a long dating history and I've seen it again and again and again. Your gf getting more piercings, tattoos, or dying her hair is a dead give away that shes not getting gina tingles from you anymore. subconsciously, she wants to peacock her appearance to attract new dick.
you'll find out that I'm right in within the span of a few months max.
>>16725792 It's really not that big of a deal/difference man.
If she's loyal and cares about you and yadda yadda, then this is a tiny tiny issue. You're very lucky to have her if the above is true, because most people FUCKIN SUCK.
It's stupid, but no need to belittle it or say it makes her sluttier. It's a dumbass bit of jewelry, and if it makes her happy- fuck it. Think of her liking your hair long and you wanting to buzz it. It wouldn't be cool for her to be so up in arms about it.
>>16725792 OP where do you live? Because its goddamn winter in the northern hemisphere! There's over a foot of snow outside my house. Unless you live south the equator or near it, you're not seeing that thing for half a year outside of sex. Hell there's a good chance, as long as she's not into midriffs, you will never see it outside of sex . And for sex all you have to ask is if she'll take it out. Maybe she'll want to do it with it sometimes but you can just remind her you respected her decision to get it so it would mean a lot if she respected your request for sex without it. She probably won't sleep with it in too. Let her do her thing. Won't bother you at all.
"Sweetie, obviously it's your body, not mine, and you can do what you like. I just want to be clear that I find piercings like that pretty unattractive. Like ... they seriously gross me out. It'll weird me out every time I see yours. I know this is probably an unusually strong reaction to them but it's not something I can help. But like I said, it's your choice and I'm not telling you not to get one, just telling you how it'll make me feel."
Be honest and direct without being confrontational or demanding. Don't bring up anything else, like, "it makes me feel like you're trying to impress other guys" or "but hygiene!" It'll weaken your position. Talk to her like an adult.
Speak with her about the meaning of the body modification. Liken it to some tatoos that have mystic and spiritual significance and then she will wander about the internet for a few days trying to think up a spiritual reason. When she discovers that it means nothing other than she is a whore her little dream wil go pop.
Other than that show her that pic and others like it *barf*
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