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how do I get a bf
do I have to wear makeup and nice clothing
do guys like girls that play video games and watches anime
>tfw your a massive weeb and has never had a in real life relationship before
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My friend's a quiet, semi-autistic introverted Pokemon nerd who never wears makeup and lives in jeans and tshirts, and she has a boyfriend.
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>>16722399
>be female
>get bf
It's literally that easy.
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>>16722399
So, do you eat right and work out?
Do you live by yourself or with parents/roommates?
Are you in high school or college or do you have a job?
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>>16722399
I'll be your bf.
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>>16722412
I don't work out but I don't eat a lot of junk food
Im in highschool and Il be getting a job
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Are you super skinny or super obese?
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>>16722426
Invite a cute guy over to your house to study and do whatever. Am I missing something?
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>>16722463
but I don't know many guys in real life...
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>>16722484
Please be in
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>>16722454
im normal weight
65kg
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>>16722484
I mean, if you go to class, you'll end up sitting next to a guy at some point. Ask them for help with this worksheet and that homework and once you get comfortable, invite them to study at your home.
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>>16722486
Can somebody please explain
T H I S
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-- that fucking bullshit?

I know you were probably doing it ironically, but it's so fucking annoying. I see it all the time now.
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>>16722399

Yes
No

Be social and go out on weekends.
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>>16722517
It's an ironic meme of desperation. It grabs attention when scrolling through a sausagefest.
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>do guys like girls that play video games and watches anime

yes, in fact girls like you are in high demand

there is way more guys who are into videogames and anime than girls, you are basically their dream girl
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where are you from OP?
I'll be your boyfrendo
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>>16722517
word filters
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>>16722564
L O N D O N
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Has nothing to do with word filters.
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>>16722517
is a evolution for an old meme from /fit/ when some girl posted there someone would reply "please be in london?"
now is just
L O N D O N
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which pretty much means the same thing.
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>>16722554
its hard because all the guys at my school hate me besides like 1
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>>16722574
Why would they hate you?
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>>16722577
because im weird
my nickname is hentai at school
and everyone knows I have a body pillow
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how often do you go out OP?
I don't mean parties, I mean hanging out for friends or do anything else beside watching anime and playing vidya?
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>>16722568

Is this because all the L O N D O N weebs are to shy to fuck me?
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>>16722589
if you are in london then give me your contact info and I'll fuck you.
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>>16722585
Damn it, OP, now you're just playing with us.
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You sound like my kind of girl, OP! There are plenty of guys out there who share my taste in girls, although they're more common in some places than in others. Protip: you'll never be happy if you're with somebody who thinks you're someone else. If you decide that you want to change yourself (even if it's just your physical appearance), make sure you're not doing it for anyone other than you. In other words, don't change yourself if you're only doing it because you think it'll get you a boyfriend.
Keep in mind, however, this doesn't mean that you don't need to look approachable. No guy who is interested in you will ever want to talk to a girl who gives off a vibe that says, "stay away from me!" Smile whenever you're talking to someone. Try not to isolate yourself from everyone else. And please, PLEASE, don't wear earphones unless you're in a situation where casually approaching someone is frowned upon (e.g. at work or in a library).
That's the best I can do for now. I could give you more tips if I knew more about you and your living situation, but I'm not gonna ask you to divulge that. If nothing seems to be doing the trick, try OKCupid or Tinder if you haven't already.
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>>16722587
eh well I guess I mean sometimes like since its school break id say once or twice a week (usually with my mum ) maybe less and ive never been to a party so lol
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>>16722603
what about friends?
do you have any?
or are you the kind of girl that only hang outs with her family?
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>>16722399
depends on what type of guy you're going for
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>>16722595
Are you legit? and what gender, not that I even care about ender anymore....
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>>16722601
living situation? hm I guess I can answer that if its not too personal
I really really want someone to like me that's pathetic I know
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>>16722616
I like guys with similar interests to me
( anime vidya history ) things like that >>16722613 I have a few close friends. most of my friends are online though
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>>16722617
also: where in LDN?
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>>16722585
People in high school are jerks.
And there's nothing wrong with a body pillow as long as nothing's printed on it. Do these idiots point at every banana and cucumber they see too?

You can check out your local YMCA or join a church (pretend to be religious). Guys tend to be nicer there. You could also see if you could move to a different high school and get a fresh start.
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>>16722624

The thing is that the guys that aren't autistic to ask girls out don't spend their time online.
Try going out more and get friends, they will eventually lead to a bf.
That's it if you want a irl bf, if you are fine with a ldr then just wait until one of your efriends ask you out.
how old are you btw?
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>>16722637
I cant say my age because reasons
but im in highschool >>16722636 and im afraid there is something printed on it
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>>16722585
Hating someone for liking anime and having a body pillow? Jeez, I hope this judgmental attitude isn't something that everybody in your community shares. If so, it sounds like a lousy place to live and I suggest you move away as soon as you can. You'll probably have better luck in a society that's more accepting of personality quirks like yours.
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>>16722707
ah yeah I know but I just cant move. all my relationships have been online which is sucky
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>>16722399
>falling easy mode this hard
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>>16722698
If you don't want to give out your age, then I guess it's safe to say you're not interested in letting us see a picture of you, huh? Any chance you could tell us what's on that body pillow, though? I'm curious.
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>all these autists telling OP she's absolutely normal and there's no reason people shouldn't like her for having a body pillow
Sometimes I forget how fucked up people here are.
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>>16722768
oh just just kagamine len on one side and katio on the other
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>>16722698
If it's a naked anime girl/guy in a seductive pose, then it's probably worth getting a cover for it when anyone comes over. Porn on display can be a bit intimidating for a first impression. Still not a big deal.

YMCA, church, comic-con, intramural. All valid places to meet people.
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>>16722817
im sorry if I sound picky but I kind of want a guy that's like me...
I don't really mind about his looks ( I would like a decent looking guy though) so kind of in the middle. chad looking guys are not the best anyway
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>>16722817
Theres a playing card store near my house. should I try that?
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>>16722773
Dude, it's a piece of fabric stuffed with feathers. Do you form your opinions of people based on the size of the pillows they buy?
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>>16722773
No one ever said she was normal, and just because she has a body pillow doesn't mean she deserves to "die alone" or whatever it is you think she deserves.
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>>16722832
>tfw no weeb waifu
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>>16722835
Absolutely. Ask people for advice on assembling a deck, mention that you don't really know many people that play, and ask for contact info so that you can play sometime.
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>>16722399
>how do I get a bf

Find someone you think looks nice and start talking to them
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>>16722832
Now, you're just being picky, bitch. Get off your high horse. If you want a guy that likes you, (/adv/), you're gonna have to forget about decent looking. All you're gonna get is ridiculously retarded and mentally challenged weebs. Similar to the ones on this board. The same ones kissing your ass right now, hentai. They ain't prettt. Get ready, because it's gonna be an aspie trip for you.
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M I N N E S O T A
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???
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>>16722832
You don't know what a guy's like until you've talked to him and gotten to know him. It's pretty likely that a guy could be christian or do sports and like anime. Why limit yourself?
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>>16722399
>how do I get a bf
talk to guys
>do I have to wear makeup and nice clothing
not
>do guys like girls that play video games and watches anime
sure
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You need to put yourself out there at least a little bit. It's pretty easy for girls in that all you really have to do is look pretty and be able to make basic conversation. Eventually some guy will ask you out.
Wearing makeup and nice clothing is definitely a bonus.
Video games and anime are find hobbies, and a lot of guys will be happy to have them in common with you. However, you should pick up other things as well. Reading and some kind of craft or art are good.
Other than that just exercise, stay in shape, and don't eat like shit.
Everything will follow into place.
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>>16723104
*fine
*fall
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>>16722910
Bumping for this
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>>16722566

Bumping this.

Come one LANDAHN.
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>>16722627
>Got ignored
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_1qXQRpF08E
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>>16723249
Hurt. Bro.
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Amazing
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>>16722399

>do you need those things.

No not really but you should go on a lot of dates rather than have a bf right now, its WAY more lonely/desperate men than there are women out there, don't let a guy so easily into your life.
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>>16723249
i was joking, I'm at the other side of the pond.T
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you'll become a whore like any other one once you hit college.
Enjoy your innocence while it last.
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>>16722399
Hot. So freakin cool, i think. I deal with "10/10" girls all the time. I just want a dork who is happy being herself. Watching Anime together or smash bros. For some reason girls in my circle are really shallow. They talk about pointless shit all the time. I dont care for sex, i just want a bff who can turn into an awesome wife.
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>>16722406
Minus the autism that sounds like my girlfriend.

>>16722399
You're in the same position as weebshit guys. You can find someone with your interests, but you need to leave the house for that to happen. If you go to college make some friends and join clubs and you'll eventually find someone with the same tastes in hentai and what have you.
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>saying theyd like to have a weeb GF
>only if the girl is some 10/10 or have a pretty face

fuck off
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>>16722832
>>16722892
I've been wondering this for a long time; I know there are plenty of women like OP that also spend most of their time on the internet, but what I want to know is how men and women like this can meet each other if they never have any point of contact? It seems kind of tragic that people who could get along great won't ever meet because their mutual preferences preclude it.
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>>16725844
It's a weird conundrum honestly. Other then weight problems there's not a lot people can do about their looks. People have different tastes but there is obviously a gravity towards the common conceptions of beauty.

But anyway, that doesn't actually describe the conundrum. I think people want a "weeb wife" because they want someone with hobbies they can relate to. But then reality strikes and people realize there's a certain value to physical attraction all along, and it's hard to stay with someone you're not attracted to, so people just nope out of there right away.
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>>16722568
>Spoonfeeding newfags

Fuck off
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>>saying theyd like to have a weeb GF
>>only if the girl is some 10/10 or have a pretty face
>fuck off
it's worked for me, you fuck off. being picky is only bad if you can't do without.
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>>16722488
lose some weight
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>>16722399
everyone has different preferences. some wont be into you, some will. i, for instance, would be content with a girl that vidya'd a lot, because i also do quite a bit of that. some, however, some would view such habits as undesirable. i prefer no makeup on a woman, others are into the painted-up-monstrosity kind of thing, or somewhere in between. the point is- everyone is different. the only way to find a compatible person is to sift through a fair amount of prospects.
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>do I have to wear makeup and nice clothing
It certainly helps.

>do guys like girls that play video games and watches anime
I mean, it would pretty cool to have someone close to play with but it won't make or break anything.

There's no real magic trick to this. Get out, meet people, do things. Flirt, go on some dates, then maybe become official. Or you could take a stab at online dating I guess. You probably won't meet anyone if you don't leave your comfort zone.

>>16725867
>but what I want to know is how men and women like this can meet each other if they never have any point of contact?
Honestly most of the turbo weebs couples I know mainly met online. Sometimes through forums, sometimes online dating.
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>>16726737
Hide your boner man
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ARIZONA
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ARIZONA

???
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>>16722568
>spoonfeeding newfags and not even fully describing it
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bait alert guys. Keep your dicks down.
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>>16722399
I could be your bf, provided you are non manipulative and want to work on your problems instead to project your insecurities on me.
I think that after getting your shit sorted out, we can talk about wether you want to stay with me or upgrade.
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>>16722488
How is that normal weight? How tall are you?
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>>16728853
How is that not normal weight for anyone that's not a midget?
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>>16728953
Girls are usually midgets.
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>>16728965
She needs to be just above 160 cm to be considered normal weight. That's not too much to ask for a woman.
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>>16722399
Post tits
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>>16722399
add me on skype, I'm lonely and I could use a friend like you
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>>16728985
Yeah but she'd be borderline overweight
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Do girls like op really exist? I've convinced myself that they don't, but this thread is making me feel like I could be wrong.
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>>16729066
Yeah but everything over that brings her down to skinnier. Maybe I'm just used to taller girls.

And being on the upper limit of normal weight is better than being on the lower limit. At least in my opinion. I'll much rather have someone that might have a bit of extra weight here and there than someone who's borderline anorexic and feels like she's going to break as soon as you touch her.
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>>16729068
Yeah, they do exist. Go to literally any anime convention and there are tons of them. You may have to settle for a fat one that doesn't know how to take care of herself though. But it's definitely more than possible.
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>>16729125
Do you even know what anorexia means?
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>>16729188
Yes. Is there something that you don't understand in the reference? Yeah anorexia doesn't have to mean that someone is a hungry hungry skellington but it's heavily implied. And yeah it's an illness not just being skinny but you've gotta be pretty autistic to not understand what I meant there.
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If you are a real weeb go to a freaking anime con.
Any guy who doesn't have a bf would be your gf
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>>16722517
fucking newfags
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