I've been trying to act alpha for few months at new school, not flirting with girls, just harmless non-needy chatting etc, but I heard there have been rumours around me that I am gay.
Why? What should I do? Should I start being more flirty?
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Again, this is not tough. You are not acting tough if you associate the word harmless with yourself.
You don't need threaten anyone, but you don't need to give off an 'innocent and sweet' vibe wherever you go.
Alright, I will start doing that. How should I treat girls there? I didn't "accidentally" touch them as you should do, I just ignored them. Maybe that's why they have me for a fag?
Yeah I do, but the thing is that if I approach a girl and it fails and then go for another one, I will be known as needy manwhore, that's why I don't wanna risk a lot.
Hmm I guess I didn't really express myself well, but I am not mysterious, I am just friendly with people but never approach them first.
Women just assume you're gay if you're not asking women out. I had that happen to me in middle and high school: people would think I was gay because I didn't talk to girls. Granted, I hardly talked to anyone, but if you interact with girls in a way that's not some sort of flirting, they think there's something wrong with you.
> I don't want to risk a lot.
Being alpha is about taking risks. You cannot pretend to be alpha. You can only be alpha. Pretend is beta.
You have been putting on an act the whole time. People who are in the closet do this as well.
Just act like yourself and don't try to be something you're not. A lot of people think I'm gay, but it doesn't bother me because I don't really care what someone might think of me.
I avoid flirting (or talking in general) with girls because I have mild speech problems (stuttering, slurred speech). Not OP, though.
this op don't fall for the shaming tactics. women don't like being rejected so they will turn it around to make it seem like they are doing the rejection by calling you gay. Women need to get off their fucking high horse for thinking ever men wants to fuck them and are obligated to flirt with them.