Men ask me out left and right.
How do I tell them no and still be a nice person?
"Thank you, but |I'm not dating right now@
"Thank you, but I'm seeing some one."
"Thank you, but this is a very busy time for me right now and I have to focus all my energies on school/work/family"
"Thank you, but I don't think your wife would approve."
> No thank you.
> We make better friends I think
> You are such a sweet person, you will make a woman very lucky some day
> Thanks for being there for me and letting me cry on your shoulder when my asshole boyfriend that objectively is a low quality human being starts being mean to me. My father left me when I was a little girl so I have no ability to relate to a positive male role model and this in turn affects my self esteem such that I only feel comfortable being treated in the fashion that I feel about myself. I dare not be happy at the cost of not being comfortable.
Say absolutely. Then spend the whole day with him, convince him to buy you something special, then tell him for your next date you want to go to a fancy restaurant. Tell him to get ready and make the reservation. Text him all excited and cute all before you say you're ready to go. Tell him to go and meet you there with the reservation because you "don't like waiting" and say you want to remember this date years from now and it will be all romantic.
Then when he arrives and is waiting for you, send him a picture with someone's cock in your mouth. Then block his number completely and don't respond to him in any way at all.
Repeat this for literally every single man you ever meet.
Not really... this post was made tongue in cheek. A satirical mockery of a ridiculously self aware beta orbiter.
To give you a more serious response, if somebody accuses you of not being nice because you turned down an advance then that is not a person you should care about in any fashion.
Know that you are a nice person and act accordingly.
telling someone that you aren't interested in dating them does not make you a mean person and anyone who disagrees with that is not worth speaking to.
like that sounds mean but they aren't entitled to anything other than a yes or no
Good list of examples.
If a guy takes offense to being shut down like that, there's not much else you could have done.
Don't think too much of it. 90% of the time its just in your head.
>No I have a boyfriend
Girls will say this to get rid of you or to test your intentions. If a guy stops talking to a girl cause she said, "I have a boyfriend" then it's pretty damn clear that the guy wanted nothing more than a quick hook up. A girl tells me this line and I'll still get their number, it literally means nothing.