I know either one is not very attractive, but which is the lesser of two evils? Are skinny guys really as repulsive to women as fat chicks are to guys? I'm skinny-fat, but not that fat. I have a hard time gaining muscle but I'm tall. 6’1" weighing about 163. Strong for my slim frame and not so big arms though, I move heavy shit around every day at work, so I could probably lift a non fat girl up and fuck her against the wall. That's what counts right?
Women want men who possess true confidence.
Men who can approach a woman without being needy and give her what she desires and still can leave her without investing too much.
Sounds cringey, but it is true.
So, be selfish, but also be good to others.
Also, the more you invest in yourself, the more quality women you will meet in your surrounding.
So chase your dreams or your goals instead some women who you put on the pedestal and dethrone your own life.
how about somebody that takes care of their body?
other than that, i can find either one appealing. but i strongly take personality into consideration when starting to find somebody attractive, so there's that.
you don't have to be ripped, just not skinnyfat or flabby. skinnyfat is kinda a bummer, flab is kinda gross. skinny with some effort can be sexy ottermode, and stocky or even somewhat fat guys who are pretty solid are like giant teddybears. as long as you look like you get up out of your chair and do something, whether it's lifting or biking or whatever, if you look at least somewhat fit you will attract girls.
all that being said: all girls will notice a ripped guy. I do not personally prefer ripped guys as a whole package and they don't usually get my panties soaked, but I do notice them and appreciate them aesthetically. I love my husband's arms when he's been doing physical labour. not gonna lie, I think henry rollins is hot - but mainly because he can both do the bodybuilding thing and also be a prolific writer and speaker about topics other than muh gainz.
yep. my bf is heavily into lifting and fits the classical aesthetics. big, broad, manly. but that would be nothing if he wouldn't also have his personality to accompany his looks.
it kinda depends on the girl, and also a bit on you. some people look better skinny. some people look better with a little bit of meat (like chubby, not fat).
generally speaking smaller guys look better skinny, but of course you need a girl who is into short skinny guys. chubbed guys look better if they are tall cuz it just give sthe impression that they are massive.
neither is really ideal to the average woman. what most people dont realize is that you dont need to be SHREDDED to have a nice body. you dont need rock hard abs or huge fucking muscles.
you just need to have a very basic level of fitness to your self, one that can generally be maintained by basic exercise. if you refuse to go to the gym do p90x or some shit. it will make your body nicer even if you arent ripped. when you get to a comfortable looking place just go into maintenaince, which is just push ups, pulls, etc. every other day to maintain yourself.