I'm not sure you know what "nightmare" means, OP, even though you seem to use the word yourself sometimes. Maybe you've got your own issues with being literate enough to not be read to by an ex-partner?
Absolutely nothing. That's a complete exchange itself. I assume you don't want more of a conversation because she brought up her ex and that's off-putting. Well she's either unaware of why that would put you off or it's intentional. Neither of those bode well for your future.
That's a big faux pas on her part, agreed. If I said something like that I'd have enough empathy to follow with something reassuring like "which is weird because he was dumb as shit" or, "the nightmare part was that it wasn't you" and so on.
She shat a turd of a sentence and then left it hanging there for open interpretation.
>>16684932 well, well. if she really had that dream she could have considered op's feelings and kept it to herself. nobody likes to be reminded that the person they love once thought somebody else is the one. period.
>>16684966 yeah. you probably are one of those "oh, i'm just honest" people that don't even know when it would be the better thing to shut your mouth for once. and then you are surprised when people don't like you.
He clearly isn't, but that girl sucks at it too. In one sentence she
>mentions ex bf >shows no interest to find out what her bf obviously wanted to share >gave no good way to follow the conversation >didn't add anything to defuse it like laughing at it or adding some smiley
It's just eh through and through. I wouldn't ignore for a day or two but certainly wouldn't follow it up immediately because that's no way to have a conversation.
No. I've actually got social skills, I'm sorry. We're probably not from the same culture, anyway.
You can lead your own relationship how you want, but if you're failing to be able to face realities so basic as that your partner, if they were not a certified virgin, might have had partners before you, that's simply excessive. It's like denying that people have to take a shit or that you're going to die some day. Facts are nothing to take personally.
It's not useful to use a conversation as a means to punish another if they don't act in the way you expect of them. People speak differently. Not everyone may engage the other like they'd wish they'd be engaged. If I wanted to tell someone about my nightmare, I'd do so no matter if they gave me a "HOW FUCKING INTERESTING, DO GO ON". It's silly to try to give people conversation hooks and then wait until they bite.
>>16685012 i haven't said that you should denie it. my partner knows the basic things about my previous realtionships. but there is absolutely no need to remind him about an ex in everyday life. that's just dumb.
what culture would that be exactly?
are you telling me that you believe it's ok to frequently bring up your exes in everyday situations? that should be a healthy realtionship? oh my...
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