Social retard here. I'm supposed to be meeting with a Ukrainian girl tomorrow to go Iceskating near my place in London, she's up for me and will meet me. Im travelling the followig day and i finish work at 5pm the day we're supposed to meet, so I suggested she meets me at my place because I need to change and we go from there, however she didnt
reply. I dont want to come off as needy so i'm going to next her again tomorrow afternoon however im wondering if I made any stupid mistakes? I started talking to her a couple days ago so yeah
Have you ever met her in person before?
Kind of one of the first rules of safety when it comes to anything to do with meeting strangers over the net, pick a public place for your first meet.
That way you can safely back out if you pick up any axe-murderer vibes.
You may have scared her off.
No, I've never met her, but plently of girls have come over to place and fucked without meeting in person... This girl would send me 6 messages in a row so I think either she didnt see I asked a question (her English isnt amazing) or something
dunno man I just want some advice
kek i don't know
If you still haven't had a reply it is worrying.
>She's probably worried about stranger danger.
Quick save I can think of.
Text her again tomorrow morning saying something along the lines of;
>Change of plan, I'm going to have to meet you at the ice rink now instead of mine, does Xpm work for you?
Then if she replies, let her know you can't wait to see her etc etc.
His/her advice is the best route, remember that meeting people via online dating is already sketchy and uncomfortable enough for a lot of people and meeting someone at their place the first time is/can be pretty dangerous
> I suggested she meets me at my place
> have a drink
You just met her a couple of days ago and already you're trying to get her back to your place and slip her a date rape drug?
And that lame ass excuse about how you have to "change." Any woman over 16 knows that trick. You go into your bedroom to change and walk out naked with your boner in your hand.
You fucked up, bro. You might as well have the word "rapist" tattoo'ed on your forehead. That's what she will tell all of her friends.
UPDATE guys so I sent her a final text telling her that I don't add people often, I'm not looking for sex and that im looking for someone who will be as committed as I am, and that if we can't meet tomorrow then I can't continue .etc I then deleted her number. 5 minutes later I get a string of replies, essentially she said that her female friend from Japan, who she hasn't seen in years, is visiting in the evening and she didn't know what to say to me. because she had to cancel. She then said that she really wants to meet me and wants to reschedule. Unfortunately I'm travelling so I can only meet her next week. So yeah apparently it's all good