I'm 20 years old and still a virgin. It's starting to piss me off and I'm looking to get laid but I jave trouble starting conversations with girls and escalating things. I go to college so I see plenty of them. Advice?
I don't have any advice but that. I failed so I could only tell you what not to do.
Im pretty sure you won't find the answer here and your time would be better spent outside with people tho.
Hey OP, have you considered actually interacting with those girls you see all over campus? "I have trouble starting conversations" is usually code for "I'm just a big blubbering coward if a vagina comes within 5 feet of me."
If you are interacting, where does it all go so terribly wrong? You being a stuttering faggot? Always saying the wrong thing? Sweating like a sumo at a Mongolian barbecue?
Stop being a pussy? Girls are no different than guys. They're horny, just as often as men, and they're lonely just as often as men.
Start saying hi to 20 women a day, everyday. Just make eye contact, wish them a good day while you hold a door, thank them for a coffee etc. Be genuine and you'll be rolling around the sheets with them in no time.
This was me until 27 years old, sex is just sex. get over yourself and your predetermination of what you think people say about you and pull the trigger. Just put yourself out there and take chances, if that doesn't work go get a hooker. Looking back I wish I had fucked a pro at your age, would have saved me a lot bullshit and I probably would have fucked a lot more girls then I have.
Once you realize that girls want to fuck you just as much as you want to fuck them, it gets a lot easier.
Go after it man. Go out and flirt with women. Be aggressive, take chances. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 25 even though I'm a handsome Chad because I'm a sperg and didn't even try being social. Once I just said fuck it and started going for it, it finally happened. Don't put any girl on a pedestal. They're all replaceable. If one isn't interested, move on to the next.
>Wahh I was born in 1996 and I haven't had sex, my life has no meaning!
Truly this world has gone to the dogs. Why do you place so much value in having sex when you don't even have a career yet?
Do you think sex will magically fix all your problems and that you'll become a new man if you stick your penis into a crusty vagina?
I'm surprised only one person has brought this up. Seriously the whole "I'm 20 and haven't gotten laid" shit is just stupid. It's not like you're the 40 year old Virgin or some shit. People shouldn't care so much.
Sex couldn't matter as much. It's being a kissless virgin that probably hurts the most.
To me I see myself as this person hasnt had any connection to other person in his life yet. What does this say about the rest of his life? How the hell am I suppose to adjust into a long term relationship if I've never had one ever?
>KV hurts the most?
Met a girl at con, everything went well we kissed she fall in love with me insta and so did i.
It was my first kiss she probably knew it.
Well it was obv what we wanted to do but was no place to do it.
She didn't wanted long distance relationship 400km. It was when i was 20.
Since then i had nobody.My last crush at the uni rejected me.
Once you experience how good it feels that somebody actually loved you or cared about you it's over u want to experience it again and u want to hold somebody.
23 still got my v card, i wish i could give it to that girl it was the happiest moment of my life yet is my biggest regret