How do you know a girl is shy?
Don't worry she'll tell you.
But really though mfw this bitch unironically said she was shy, then admitted to loving clubbing and having "a lot" of male friends.
How the fuck do females rationalize this much?
Shy grill here. I love clubbing without the sex and drugs and for the music and I have no male friends. Shy doesn't mean you're socially retarded or super anxious all the time. I'm completely fine unless I have to speak with strangers or publicly.
I don't think you all are shy
shy doesn't mean timid.
Being shy is when you have a general avoidance of opening up and interacting with others, usually due to a lack of interest.
timid is when something scares you, or causes anxiety, so you avoid it.
If you love clubbing, but are shy "meeting new people" then you're just timid and scared of new people, not shy.
A shy person will be shy well after you meet them.
90% a female says they're shy it's to lure in a sucker who believes they're really old fashion homebodies or have few friends. Shy to a female these days mean they don't talk about the nasty things they do.
>shy doesn't mean timid.
being reserved or having or showing nervousness or timidity in the company of other people.
Stop being a dumbass arguing that other people's semantics aren't your own.
Hey I used to be a complete shutin but I refuse to let my shyness keep me from things anymore. Also I'm there more like a bystander and someone who watched others and takes in the atmosphere. I don't talk to strangers or make friends.
Like I said, I'm fine out and about as long as no one is bothering me. I just don't feel comfortable sharing personal stuff with people I hardly know. I have some close friends and that's it.
>Implying most males aren't faking it
>Stop being a dumbass arguing that other people's semantics aren't your own
>How dare you question my exaggeration to make myself seem like "not like other gurlz XD"
Being reserved around people is being shy
but they aren't, because they go clubbing, which is not being reserved.
The "timid" part is also usually a separate definition entirely, referring to someone who is easily frightened
If they meant the same thing, people wouldn't use them together, saying they are "shy and timid" would they?
You guys need to contain this autism
>I just don't feel comfortable sharing personal stuff with people I hardly know
That's a different thing entirely.
Some of the most outgoing people I know are like that.
Private info is private. That's not being shy.
Being shy would be not talking to people about other subjects, like the weather, or tv shows, or whatever until you get super comfortable around them.
a generation ago, no one shared personal stuff with strangers.
Except its exactly what sluts like yourself do kek
Going to a club and sitting quietly at the bar isn't what people mean when they "got clubbing"
Just like going to a bar and having a beer and some pretzels while you watch the game isn't "going drinking" and getting in your car to drive to the gas station isn't "going for a drive"
If you really are shy, you just did a bad job o describing why at the start (which I guess I can't blame you for, cause shy people dont get a lot of practice talking to strangers)
well then here's my reply
My point is:
You are either not nearly as shy as you think you are, you just have warped views of what is "normal" because of social groups these days, or you really are shy, and just sounded like you were saying you were a lot more sociable than you were, by accident.
Well you've got me there. What I do is a mix of what people consider clubbing and quietly sitting. Basically I just mind my own business, people watch and enjoy the music. The point is that you don't have to be a complete hermit to be shy.
shy is a wide spectrum?
You can feel uncomfortable around people without necessarily collecting your piss in bottles
What's the point of getting upset with how people define themselves? Do you feel entitled to the word shy?
It's not my business what it's designed to facilitate. I don't partake. I've never even been drunk cause again, too reserved to even toy with the idea of letting loose around people.
your shyness seems more likely to stem from a mental issue (not illness) than simply a personality issue.
you probably should get just a little tipsy more often and learn to relax.
No one date rapes a tipsy girl. They target the girls just shy of blackout drunk
Unless you're bill cosby
I am not a neckbeard shut in. I have some friends but I am definitely on the shy side-I will actively avoid social contact etc.
Yes it does piss me off when cunts on here literally say things like I go clubbing but I'm shy xDD or think they're fa since they haven't got a text in 15 mins. I don't have a single female friend and haven't been on a date in 7 years.
Goddamnit you idiotic fucking whore, if you go to a social gathering place like a club, one of the most extroverted place son earth, YOU ARE NOT FUCKING SHY.
Do you wish you weren't so shy? You seem to be projecting a lot of anger, for something so innocuous.
You understand that you could go to a club too? You probably wouldn't enjoy it, but there is literally nothing stopping you.
If you were to step foot inside of a club, would you magically feel comfortable around people? Or would you still call yourself shy
I don't know, I'm not psychic
I'll use my sister as an example
In highschool, few people talked to her, and everyone thought she was shy (and she was) but it wasn't because she was timid or scared. She gave zero fucks about how people would react. she just had low self esteem due to an abusive relationship and so she just assumed nothing she could say would matter to anyone, so why bother.
She's grown out of that as she got her confidence back, since the guy is out of the picture.
That's just one way a mental issue (maybe hangup is a better word) can make you shy in effect, but not really as part of your true personality.
Why wouldn't I get mad about women twisting shit to make themselves out to be the victim? Imagine if you were me and you heard this cunt
saying she is le shy xDD
You wouldn't get upset?
It's an insult you nigger
Clubbing has literally never appealed to me for a variety of reasons-drunks everywhere, moral reasons, huge crowds of swag fags
I can definitely argue about thins but I wouldn't say I'm boring. I'm pretty accomplished d.esu but I don't want to brag on 4chan to offer evidence. Like I said I have several very close friends.
what's clubbing like where you come from? I'm from brazil and around here it's simply an excuse to get drunk and get girls. everything is shitty funk or sertanejo, there are almost no good shows where I live, and last time I was in a rock concert the place was empty.
>Goddamnit you idiotic fucking whore, if you go to a social gathering place like a club, one of the most extroverted place son earth, YOU ARE NOT FUCKING SHY.
That's like saying by going to School (gradeschool/college/university/whatever), one of the most educated and knowledge driven places on earth, you are not fucking stupid.
Clearly not the case.
A less antagonistic example, despite what many would claim on forms if asked, just taking a nap once a week in church, doesn't make you a devout Catholic.
>Why wouldn't I get mad about women twisting shit to make themselves out to be the victim?
Why would you? Does it affect you in any way?
Do you view women as the reason for your shyness? Do you see this as a case of the perp posing as the victim?
First of all, introversion is not the same as shy and vice versa. They go together often, but it isn't necessary. Secondly, who are you to tell what people enjoy and what they don't? An open/extroverted/loud person can enjoy things like hiking alone, and shy people can enjoy social things. Just because you don't like it/people there don't like you, doesn't mean that's the rule.
>Clubbing has literally never appealed to me for a variety of reasons
And yet there is nothing physically stopping you from entering
In fact, an insecure person might go against their better judgement, if they feel that a friendship is contingent on this.
Do you struggle with basic critical thinking?
I guess somewhat envious of the fact that a 4/10 girl and up has guys falling over to date her and still claims to be shy or fa. But mainly it's the principle of the thing, believe it or not.
Why would I willing violate my morals? Dumbass.
Still missing the point queerbait
Some stem from childhood.
I had a scientist for a father, so I was always over-explaining myself to people, since I had to have a solid reason for everything I did at home.
I still do it sometimes, but far, far less than I used to.
You sound a bit like an angsty teen judging other people for their depression. Ohh anon laughed twice, his depression must be a lie, only I experience The Real Depression And Suffering™.
It's not a fucking competition, and you can't judge a full person with only your small observation. Maybe she only talk with friends while she's there. Maybe she stays home for days after because she's so exhausted from it but still had a great time.
This isGods truth here anon. Why wouldn't I get mad?
>But mainly it's the principle of the thing, believe it or not.
Just so we're clear, the principles by which you live your life are
>I know the full circumstances of everybody I meet
>I know whether or not they deserve to call themselves shy
>Whenever people contradict my interpretation of them, they must be lying for ulterior purposes
>Why would I willing violate my morals?
Is dancing against your morals. You a Mormon, brah?
No it's not you fuck, introversion means you get energy from being alone/from yourself and feel drained when people are around, extroversion means you get energy from being around people and being by yourself makes you tired.
Read some Jung, faggot
>Just trying to make these spoiled cunts realize they aren't shy
Do you think your method is effective? How many women have you "converted" with insulting greentext? Do you have different methods in real life?
It seems like there's no real benefit to you, and it's obviously making you very angry.
do you like being angry?
You really sound like you haven't left your room since you finished highschool and am still mad because you got rejected/wasn't interesting for girls. Plottwist it's not because you're shy, is be cause you're a narcissistic wanker.
I've never been to a club, but I want to go. I know I'd probably just end up drinking and standing around like I do at parties, but sometimes it's nice to leave the house and feel like part of a group, even if I don't interact and just watch people and wish I was bold enough to dance
>how do you know what happens at a football game if you've never been there?
Apply some critical thinking. They teach you the rules of football in most mandatory gym classes. Has anybody ever ever taught you Dance Club procedure?
no they don't faggot women are extremely privilege in society and almost every male will throw resources at her just for having a vagina and because evolution favors young eggs.
you are full of shit. I know your type who likes to get constant validation from hundreds of friends on facebook and likes to dance with strangers at clubs. also you make horrible mothers because you neglect your kids because you rather go cubing and drinking instead of being a respectable mothers.
well this society has no empathy for males because males are disposable. you can repopulate this world with just a bottle of sperm. also this is why you see this imbalance because her eggs alone give her all the value she needs in society. so to answer your question no I don't even expect you to feel bad.
this is true but male disposability still exist and women are still favor in society. the only way for it to be true equality is to completely remove reproduction or create asexuality production.
without males we would have no society
Women are valued, but its more like the value that you would give to a child.
Neither are particularly useful, but you need them to give birth/grow up for there to be men about.
Your disbosability theory is kind of silly
>shy girls dont exist
neither do intelligent men. having anonymity is like being alone, but there's more of a rush. i can't see why an introvert WOULDN'T go to a club and dance amongst the nameless and faceless. it's a better release than sitting on the couch all day, eating cheetohs
yes men do have some value but that has to be earn while women are born with it. the whole point that I am trying to say is that women are more valuable then men. the only way to change this unfair deal is to remove the need to reproduce and create something like artificial wombs. boys are condition to be disposable from an early age and are told to "man up" while young girls seem to be the most pamper.
I wouldn't hit a kid or my dog either
I don't get people who get angry at women for receiving preferential treatment
Do you get mad when kids get a lollipop at the doctor's office?
you've got it backwards. white men are prized and pampered in society, mostly their egos and ideology. white women get pampered through having their emotions tolerated.
literally every other race (male and female) have to earn societal value and work like dogs. white men should be told to "man up"; literally everyone has it worse than them but they complain the most
well as an introvert I did it once but only because I wanted to step out of my comfort zone for once. also I had to be drag in to the club. I found them incredibility boring and something that I would never do again. I much prefer solitude activities like fishing, camping, computer time,etc.
no white men are not the boogeyman. maybe they just have the right IQ and Dominance to be on top of society. sure white men use to be assholes back in the day when they had control in parts of Africa but we have the things like human rights now and many white men like bill gates are spending their money to invent new technology that will help the people of Africa.
You are a fucking dumbass who thinks basic tautology is clever. Dying, unlike clubbing, is out of our control. And unlike doing something potentially unpleasant like ecercise, it brings no lasting benefits.
>lol u thought i came to /adv/ for advice haha
so did you come here to shitpost?