Holy fuck /adv/.. I tried not masturbating for the entire month of January and I just couldn't do it. I am just too lonely to NOT masturbate. Nothing can quite fill the void of masturbation properly. The only thing that could probably sate the urge is to obviously have sex but I am a 25 year old virgin, I am in no position to have sex. I also don't like the whole "hooking up" thing which I guess limits my options.
What makes me mad is that the onyl reason I masturbate so much(5 times a day usually) is because I am bored and lonely.
I spend a lot of time surfing okcupid PRAYING a girl will message me back too.
I feel like I spend a lot of time hoping that RNG will finally run in my favor. I feel almost helpless to trigger things myself or "make" things happen. I feel as if I have to hope and pray for WHATEVER POWERS THAT BE to swing in my favor.
Is no fap just bullshit? How do they expect dudes like me, with no female prospects or options.. to survive a whole month NOT FAPPING OR LOOKING AT PORN.
I look at porn regularly too because it helps calm that loneliness feeling.
Dude, you need to find things to do other than fucking yourself 5 times a day. If you can't offer anything for anyone, why would they want to meet you? You are just going to be disappointed even if you get a date to try to fuck.
Havent fapped all of january so far. Longest Ive gone no fap is a year.
I find it hard to tell myself not to fap. Like its entertaining and feels good. When Im bored why would I not want to be entertained.
But in these 2 weeks my minds cleared a bit. My erection quality has improved, and I get horny from seeing girls in bras again.
really the reason why I do this is because there are things that say that you store more fat on your cheeks when fapping too much and other health things. I dont know if it is real or not, but during those 2 periods of no fap, they were the only periods in which Ive had girls come on to me.
Having sex will only hold you over for awhile anyway, not really the answer your looking for. You need to exercise and find something with meaning you like doing, 5 times a day is not just boredom, your trying to fill a void in your life, like loneliness.
Perhaps even try looking for a new friend (pref female) to hang out with and fill the gap, combined with a little physical exercise you will be surprised how you won't need to whack yourself every few hours.
Sometimes just a little company is all we need to find the balance within ourselves.
And finding girlfriends and love comes easier when your not so desperately searching for it.
>the onyl reason I masturbate so much(5 times a day usually) is because I am bored and lonely.
Well you found your solution here didn't you buddy? You fap cause you've nothing better to do. You can choose to fill that time by doing something productive like working out, going for a walk, reading a book, learning a new skill.
>How do they expect dudes like me, with no female prospects or options
Wahh wahh wahh you're now just making excuses. Your ancestors didn't have internet porn and they got by just fine, it's not impossible, you're making it sound impossible cause you're just addicted to it. It has nothing to do with loneliness and more to do with the lies you've told yourself.