Does that poor girl know you are a virgin (at 29!!! kek)? It doesn't matter if you see a hooker or not, you'll still lack skills. Normal people enter sexual relationships at 16-18, at 29 they should have considerable skills, you are at least 10 years late. So of course you will suck and I truly feel for this girl, she's gonna get the worst sex of her life and have arguable pleasure of 'deflowering' 29 yo guy.
Uh. Why don't you just fuck your girlfriend, dude? Does she seem like the type that would breakup with you over being a virgin? If not, just tell her before you fuck. Otherwise shut the fuck up and when she asks why you were so bad tell her that it's been awhile.
I fell anxiety of failing when around her and doing that shit for the first time
but also feel like im cheating on her or wont have the same feeling for her after the hooker
also I know the hooker is just a tool to get me more self confidence
Just tell her your nervous and haven't had sex in a while. You don't have to tell her you're a virgin. There's a difference between being honest vs. an open book. YOU HAVE A GF, sheesh.
Relationships are built on trust, understanding, and communication. If you're lying to her right out of the gate, that's really not a good sign.
Just tell her you're a virgin. It's not that big of a deal. You can also spin it to your benefit. Tell her something about how you want your first time to be with her, or build up how you've been waiting all this time for someone like her or something, you know her better than us.
But the fact that you're asking us if you should cheat on your girlfriend with a hooker just makes me think this is bait anyways.
Experience builds confidence :^) also you simply learn what women like, what works them well, you learn all that bed etiquette. Starting at 30 is tough shit, because when a guy at that age is clumsy/awkward/clueless in bed it's pathetic and revolting rather than cute. OP is fucked and first 2-3 times will inevitably suck for the (poor) girl.
true that but I told her Im not a virgin also im never goin to tell anyone that Iam
so I need to know how to have sex before getting it going with her
so I'll go for the hooker
I hope it won't destroy my relationship to her
thats what im going to to but I want at least to know some about how to get in in to not make it to obvious
>Should I cheat on my gf with a hooker?
>Thread almost unanimously says no
>I'll go for the hooker
What the fuck?
>im never goin to tell anyone that Iam
Why not? It's truly not a big deal. If you cheat on your girlfriend with a hooker, that's so much fucking worse than just coming clean about being embarrassed to tell her. What do you think you're going to learn from a hooker? You're still going to be bad at sex and now you'll have also cheated.
Guaranteed fucking bait. 4/10, I replied.
its not bait Im desperate. If Im not even knowing how to get my dick in or start fucking her
If I go for the hooker I'll at least have done it once
man im gonna hero its easier
If she asks your last time was 2 years ago while drunk in a 1 night stand. Otherwise don't say anything and don't ask her either.
First times with new partners are never amazing.
My gf was 27 and I was 26, still a virgin. Our first time was amazing and she was absolutely baffled and wouldn't believe me that it was my first time. Watching porn can surprisingly give you a lot of experience
It's not fucking rocket science, dude. I understand you don't have experience, but the bare basics of inserting something into a vagina are very easy to grasp. Watching a porn will give you experience in how to get your dick in. Then you just rhythmically take it in and out.
You're probably going to fumble around whether or not you get a hooker. Just communicate with your girlfriend, bro. Don't fucking cheat on her.
Look moron, I remember one time I had sex for the first time. I got it in somehow, can't rember how, and I didn't need any experience for us both to enjoy it, I probably lasted about half an hour, because I usually go between that and 90 minutes, can't remember if I came, but sure as hell know that she did (I always make sure,) can't remember if she helped me get it in or not, but even now, 14 years later, I sometimes miss. The last time I fucked a chick was Wednesday last week, and she grabbed my dick and placed it at the right spot herself, because of awkward angle, standing up in the shower.
Virgin guys walk around anxious for no reason. There's nobody there giving you grades for how well you do, if you mess up you should both just laugh it off and continue, just take your time, go down on her first, explore and enjoy her body, there's no rush.
But don't believe for a second that fucking a hooker will do anything other than help you bust your nut. Save it for your girlfriend.
Alternatively, break up with her, find a new girlfriend to fuck, then break up with her and go back to you girlfriend with more "experience", since you're set on not losing your virginity to her.
>Got a GF now
>should I visit a hooker
You're asking if you should cheat on your girlfriend because she isn't a virgin? Of course not. This doesn't justify cheating.
Just tell her already. If she likes you enough to be your girlfriend, you're already past the point where your virginity has any chance of scaring her off.
Mah nigga you have a girlfriend that would be cheating.