How do you go about having a gf when you're poor as fuck? I live with my parents and the house is beat to shit and there's ripped up carpet that doesn't cover the whole floor, my parents painted some of the rooms a rediculous pink color, the windows are all 200 years old and broke to shit, there's water damage everywhere every room is a shitty disaster. What do I do?
Priorities. Get money first. Get an apartment first. Then worry about friends and bitches.
In the meantime not worrying so much about friends will probably make you a bit less anxious and maybe a bit more appealing to people.
I'm not trying to buy a local apartment im saving to move far away and I'm not going to just be alone that's literally retarded should I just have been alone through high school? Shut up and fuck off
not everyone can be rich anon, maybe she's not a millionaire either if she is maybe she wasn't always
I'm going to say get a job and move out, but I know it's not that simple; just do what you can on that front
if she cares, she cares; no point trying to hide it
being poor isn't anything to be ashamed of
I was poor, eating tinned beans for weeks and sleeping in parks
I wasn't ashamed because I was working my way up
Yeah I told her I wanna hang out at her house but I was being pushy and I feel like a dick. I was thinking of hanging out at a neutral location but we can't do that forever plus it's cold as fuck outside so that pretty much limits it to movies and food
to some extent that's normal, don't beat yourself up about it
I've got to ask, is the house a mess or do messed up things happen in it?
the only thing I can really say is
A. make sure her people know you're a good guy, it's unpleasant but there is a general assumption that people down on their luck are tarnished
if you're well mannered and are actually an honest person it'l only be a brief period of wariness
B. don't push her into being at your place, I doubt you' do that but it's worth saying
C. if it's not safe there, let her know that; it might be unpleasant but just say "there are some crazy people who live nearby, please don't come her by yourself"
D. don't beat yourself up, bad things; good people man
Yeah the house is kind of a wreck because there's no upkeep but not really anything messed up happening and I try to keep it clean. We live in a poor as fuck area so the presumption is that everyone is poor but this is just bad
lots of people with bad houses keep them clean
it's not so bad man, you have a house; some people have to live with extended junkie families
good luck with the girl, beat the hood anon