So I got myself a gf and today and we talk about everything in a really relaxed style. So today we've been talking about me finishing on her face /in her mouth after she'll be giving me a bj and she told me that she really wouldn't want to take it that way. What should I do because I think it's really hot like that. She's never done it before so idk :/
Comprimise tell her it turns you on and if she is a good girlfriend she will at least try it if not then dump her because she is a selfish bitch and this is only the start of it.
The first rule of sex: Never do anything unless both parties are enthusiastically into it.
The second rule of sex: Insisting your partner does something he/she doesn't want, just to please you, is a direct expression of disrespect for him/her.
The umpteenth rule of sex: coming on your girlfriend's face (unless she's really into it herself) is directly and unambiguously an expression of antagonism toward her
are you fucking stupid? so your saying in a relationship you don't try and make your S/O happy by sucking it up one time? I feel bad for anyone in a relationship with you if they want to try something new.
>so your saying in a relationship you don't try and make your S/O happy by sucking it up one time?
I want to kill my girlfriend and then fuck her cold, dead body. I keep trying to get her to try it, just once, but she won't let me. I knew she was being a selfish bitch.
>your girl doesn't practically beg for you to mouth-rape her and shoot your semen down her throat choking her with it to the point it becomes a near-death experience
you're with the wrong girl anon, and she is with the wrong boy.
^^pretty much this, OP.
>The first rule of sex: Never do anything unless both parties are enthusiastically into it.
>The second rule of sex: Insisting your partner does something he/she doesn't want, just to please you, is a direct expression of disrespect for him/her.
I like these rules.
I have been on the receiving end of slightly being forced into things, its unpleasant. I have been on the giving end of slightly forcing a party into doing something.
The only thing I would change is enthusiastic. I think neutrality is ok. People can get into it, but if it's starting at the level of disgust it will only get worse.
That's pushing it.
You've watched too much porn anon. Jizzing all over her face is pretty degrading unless she's into that kind of thing, but not that many girls irl are. If she honestly says she wouldn't want to do it like that, you shouldn't try and push it.
if she won't let you cum on her face ask if she'd be okay with you cumming on her titties. just explain to her that it's a huge turn on, reassure her that you're not trying to degrade her but find the thought of her enjoying your semen a huge turn on
My general operating principle is that when I'm getting a blowjob I let the girl know when I'm close to coming. She can decide herself where it's gonna go.
I don't like jizzing on someone's face. That's just some dumb porn shit, and it's gonna sting and suck a lot if she gets it in her eye.
Women without much of a gag reflex can just deep throat and swallow without having to taste it. But I don't really care if she wants it in her mouth and then spits spits it out, I don't get the whole "I want a girl to swallow" shit.
Don't be obtuse. Dominance and antagonism aren't the same thing, especially sexually. Somebody can be very protective and benevolent and yet dominant -- in fact, many people find that kind of behavior/roleplaying to be a turn-on.
That's me with my GF and she loves it. I'm the cuddly, romantic type shit kind of guy who gives her for head kisses but will also bend her over and fuck her till she can't walk right. Most girls are into that.
OP here again.
She's like really shy in general and doesn't wanna rush anything since we both are pretty new to stuff like this. I think I'll just go by what we'll feel comfortable with when it comes to her giving me head and yeah.. Really don't wanna make her mad
No but this is like my first gf since I'm a major introvert and shy af and I'm only her second bf since she's almost the same about things like that. All of this is just really new to me, that's why