Hey guys I'm just trying to get some advice I saw a really cute cashier at a food store and I just thought she was really gorgeous but idk how to approach her and not come on to strong to get her number and see where it goes from there any advise will be greatly appreciated thanks in advance :)
Don't think about it tooo much. The next time you see her, give her a compliment and gauge her response
If its bad, you best move the fuck on.
If its average, keep on talking but keep your options with other girls in life. Don't be an orbiter to a girl who isn't super excited interacting with you.
If its good, obviously fuck her right on the counter. No, but say "mind if we continue talking? What's your number?"
Ask her name. If she's wearing a name tag "so your name is..." tell her it's a very pretty name. Ask her what shes doing after her shift. Depending on what she says invite her somewhere casual and very public.
I work the night shift in a service station. Do yourself a favour and ask one of the other members of staff - preferably male - if she already has a boyfriend.
For fuck's sake don't lay it on her without knowing whether or not this is a thing. You don't want to be just another ego-boost.
Ill share my experience. I fucked up with a cashier girl :/ we were both smiling at each other really hard at one point when it was apparent we were both into each other, but it got super awkward when I took too long to ask for her number and admitted to her that I was awkward. Can never go back there again ; . ;
I made my first signals to her when my friend and I were in line. I was commenting to him how cute the cashier was and that was when the snowball started rolling. By that time, we've proly seen each other 4 or 5 times
>it got super awkward when I took too long to ask for her number and admitted to her that I was awkward
I can guarantee you that you 'taking too long' was not the issue. If that explanation makes you feel better, by all means, stick with it, but I'm telling you that it was not the reason your experience didn't go well
Literally go up to her and say "hi I know you're at work right now but my name is Edgar and I think you're one of the prettiest girls I've ever seen in my life, can I have your number? I'd really like to know you more"
That's it! Crazy right???
I agree. This man is right to label that "pussy-move". Don't do that. Be direct too at some point too, and get that god damn number when you see her cheesing. Saves you time too, lets you know if you need move on or not.
Don't be me
>Just go there regularly
Top kek, no the first chance you get you go for the kill. Going there and stalking her and paying at her stall so that she can be familiar with you is literally the biggest pussy move imaginable. Next time OP goes to the store, he should literally ask her out and so what if she says no? At least you tried!
M8 I fucking work night-shift with girls all the fucking time. If you're saying I don't understand then you are quite frankly a fucking moron.
The first thing you have to do whenever you talk to a girl is swallow your fucking pride. If you can't do that you don't stand a chance.
Again, still doubt you'd understand. I bet you live and work in a pretty safe area with entitled white girls. It's hostile in deep bronx.
But I agree with you on swallowing pride.
I asked one of mine what he did with his ex-wife the other day. Told me he's hiding her under his floorboards. We smiled and laughed and I gave him free coffee. Gotta keep the regulars sweet after all.
I don't need to take this shit, other business would gladly take my money and tip.
Have fun with your plate of penises, everybody. Especially you OP, we know its your favorite
M8 at least you're actually being honest now instead of just insulting people indirectly like a immature idiot.
At least you've got some small amount of fucking backbone you pussy.
>Only if she overtly shows interest should you ever try anything with a cashier/waitress.
And how in the world is a cashier going to show interest in the 5 seconds in wish she's handing you back your change?
Why do people gotta be such pussies? Girls don't bite, unless you want them to but we're pretty far from that stage if you have to wait for them to "overtly show interest" whatever that's supposed to mean, is she supposed to seductively lick the dollar bill while handing it back to you?