I need help guys, it seems like no matter how hard I try I can't get over one of my exs. It's been a good 3 1/2 - 4 years sense we were together yet she is still on my mind almost constantly. I am currently in a relationship that's lasted for 3 years yet I feel guilty for still being emotionally attached to my ex.
How do I get her off my mind?
Some facts about my ex
Long distance relationship
She stops all communication suddenly without warning
Randomly out of the blue she asks if I want to spend the week with her
After the week all communication ends once again
No she removed herself from my friends list a long time ago, I don't have anything of hers not even a picture, and the only time I talk about her is when I post for advice on how to deal with her. Every night I dream the same dream of her, when I went to spend the week with her and we laid in bed talking with her resting her face on my chest. I'm going insane
The fucked up thing is even if she decided to talk to me, my current gf would flip the fuck out, he'll she's jealous that I had a relationship before her
She will be back in a hour once she is if she caught me posting on here ww3 would break out
She dropped communication twice, after the first time She told me that she didn't want to bring me down, no reason for the second time, and to make matters worse when I spent that week with her she randomly one morning kissed me, which completely fucked with my emotions sense I knew she had no intention of keeping contact. Stupidly I got suckered into hoping tho
We were together about 4 months till she cut contact the first time then about a month went by and she started talking again for about 2 months then cut all contact for around 4 months then asked me to stay with her for a week haven't heard from her sense
She played you like a fiddle buddy, damn and you only knew her for 6 months and she's been on your mind for 3 or 4 years damn. You're pathetic OP i see why she treated you like crap, you have no self-respect, have some damn dignity, you had the pain coming buddy, you were asking for it big time. Letting her in and out your life. Stop wearing your heart on your sleeve faggot. Respect comes absolutely first in a relationship, no respect, no love.