Should I kill myself?
I lost my gf of almost 5 years, I don't have any hope. I don't see the point in living. Love isn't even real. Any suggestions? Pic v related
You gained the opportunity to get new girlfriends. And I meant to use the plural.
You'll want other when you figure out that she's sucking other cocks and not giving a fuck.
Women have a much easier time at getting over it. As a matter of fact she probably got over it before she even left you. They're just like that, it's nature. They're evolved at getting over heartache in order to survive.
It's not even about her that much, I wanna die because I don't see anything after this. I feel like I woke up from a dream that is this world we all know and now I'm in the real sick sad world. Ya know
Ok, that's much better. Was in your shoes years ago and it took me a long time to figure out that my ex was helping me mask my depression. I don't know if that's your case, but it wouldn't hurt to explore the possibility. And I know what you mean, I still struggle with the same thought, but you can still get glimpses of authenticity and real beauty, you just sometimes have to wait out all the other shit. But hopefully you wont have to wait that long. Why wait it out when you can get help? Anyway, good luck.
I had the same problem. I tried to kill myself 2 times so my parents took me to a psychotherapist. She actually helped me. It turned out that the problems were not related to that guy or my relationship, but were some family problems from childhood: lack of attention, doing things only for others, having an authoritarian father and so on.. All of these generated some kind of a butterfly effect in my perception about life and my behavior. She told me to do the things I used to do before being with my ex-boyfriend. Especially to do them in "another way", only for my good. So I did, and it kinda helped me. But I only could get out of depression after I've found out that my ex cheated on me. I can help you only by telling you to try the psychotherapy way. Wish you the best stuff! (Sorry for my bad english.)
Where did you lose her?
Really, I was with a girl for longer and I got over it, so have many others and so will you. Give it time. If you didn't have hope you wouldn't have bothered being here.