im really afraid i could have exposed myself to herpes, by seeing an escort that gave me fellatio. I dont know how im ever going to have sex with my girlfriend again! its only been a few days, but just knowing that shes probably sucked a million dicks and knowing that you can spread herpes without having any symptoms its kinda depressing.
should i ask the escort to get tested?
Did you see a cold sore? Because if not don't worry about it.
Don't sweat it, bud. Many escorts have sucked my dick, and ironically the first time I ever caught something was with my girlfriend.
How I remained clean as a whistle until that point..... I have no idea.
Just go to YOUR doctor and get tested. Don't worry about the escort.
at the very least you probably got a strain of hpv. you should have covered blowjobs instead. i know it's stupid, but it's better to be protected than not in these sort of things.
the good news for you is that hpv for men doesn't mean shit. so you're fine. also why are you cheating on your girlfriend?
It's simple: break up with your gf! She doesn't get your herp and she won't spread around what a cheating scumbag you are because she won't know.
>b-b-but I love her
Right. That's why you spent time and money going round her back to get your dick sucked, out of love
You fucking cucked yourself
my girlfriend is an A cup, and i just wanted to get a titjob from a DD. I wasnt expecting to get a bj, but she did it out of nowhere, and she did it really well. so i let her keep going. I wasnt raelly thinking.
im pretty fucked up when it comes to sex and sexuality. Ive got some sexual trauma that causes me to act impulsively.
Agree with OP & this anon.
I have a fucked up sexual past myself, but that's not how I justify seeing escorts. I see them to get the load off once or twice a year, and then I get back to work (I'm a workaholic and don't make time for relationships). There's my "excuse", but it's not at the expense of a potential partner.
Be upfront with your girl man.
Anyway, hope the tit job was good! Lol.
PS: Everyone's been saying it, but get that blood work done. Seriously, for your sake.
Its not for my sake, its for my girlfriend, if theres anything i do. If i act stupidly, i need to make sure im the only one that has consequences. But she would just die if i said "i cant fuck you without a condom from here on out because i got a blowjob from an escort". she probably wont even know what an escort is, ill have to explain it to her.
It was only this passed monday. ive got a long time to go before i can get tested. Im just dreading the idea of having herpes on my dick. the guilt is making me feel physically sick.
Here anon, how did you find this escort anyway? How much did you pay? There's always a chance you won't get herpes on your dick, so don't completely lose your head over this. Higher class escorts sometimes run checks on their clientele.
As for your guilt... what do you suppose will make it go away? Are you opposed to honestly telling your gf what happened?
:) I once got an unprotected blowjob from an escort and just forgot about it for hmm 2 years. no herpes. Got tested eventually and I am still clean. as George Carlin once said "dont sweat the petty things and don't pet the sweaty things."
she loves me, but i really dont want to tell her this. It would just kill me to see her hurt from something like this.
I paid 120 for a half hour. i found her on the backpages. she was in a hotel that she lived in for 6 months.
i didnt want a blowjob. but she gave it to me, so i just let her do it.
>Just go to YOUR doctor and get tested.
If you do this you specifically have to ask to be tested for herpes. Standard STD tests don't include herpes tests. There's a 3-4 month period you have to wait to be able to detect the virus.
Man it's not sounding easier for you......
>she loves me
Do you love her? Does honesty mean anything to your relationship? I get that you'd be sad to see her hurt, but you already did the action that would have hurt her. That was on you, and you're not taking personal accountability for it.
>120 for half hour
Holy fuck man you should've just had sex!!!!
>I didn't want a blowjob. but she gave it to me, so i just let her do it.
The second part of that sentence nullifies the first part. C'mon now my man. Let's take some responsibilirruu.