Why do I still feel like shit? I have a beautiful gf, just starting college, a p big circle of good real friends, my family loves me, etc. There is literally nothing wrong in my life and I still feel empty as fuck. How the fuck do I appreciate my life?
Someone once wrote that in the black of their blood some people are warriors and this posing the question what happens when there are no wars left to fight ? The point is perhaps you are unfulfilled as everything is too easy. Take up something soul crushingly challenging and then you might be more fulfilled
Or have a wank, cheers me right up
Well i was feeling like this few years back, and then i became sick and had to be operated on. Getting back on my feet was a really eye opening experience for me.
Since then, i appreciate little things more, like being able to do whatevver the fuck i want.
If its all natural to you, you cant really appreciate it. only when you experience the absence of said thing, will you begin to realize what its worth.
What does he have anon?
he has nothing.
The girlfriends, they come and go, but they always take their pound of flesh first.
College, OP, enjoy making nothing and accumulating debt for years.
Big circle of friends, all snakes in the grass, waiting for op to slip up so they can strike
and his family, yeah, but a lot of people have family. Nothing special
Anon, girlfriend is a bad thing to have.
You always feel sadder when it ends than you did when you were single, and guess what, you're single.
The college is largely irrelevant- smart people will make money if they go to college or not, and stupid people will get nowhere, college or not.
Friends are only friends if they are still your friends when being friends with you hampers them in some way
It's all bullshit and traps anon the only thing you should treasure is your MONEY
That's just because I've been around anon.
When I was 18, you know, I loved people, wanted to be friends with everyone,
I gave everybody, one chance you know, to show me that they weren't a good person, or I would assume that they were you know, good people.
Then over the years, enough people disappointing me, letting me down, stabbing me in the back, and I'm over it.
People can only hurt you if you get attached to them, or you leave yourself vulnerable.
All you need in life is money, and to not be attached to anyone, and nothing can hurt you.
Just live in the moment OP. Don't think about ifs and whens. Just focus on what you two do when you're together.
And I would hold off on texting each other on a daily basis. Maybe at night or in the morning to start or finish the day, but never carry on a conversation with her when you two aren't there.
Trust me. I did that with my last relationship. It's all temporary. And I wish I had cherished the moments I DID spend time with her. Rather than building up the relationship mostly through text.