dont come out unless necessary. it is not a 'freeing' thing, it just changes the way people look at you. even if someone considers themselves the most open minded person in the world and is still loves you to death after coming out, it can change the dynamic of the relationship entirely.
for example, i have two friends. one knows im gay. one doesnt. if i go to the public restroom with the friend who doesnt know im gay, he has no problem walking up to the urinal next to mine and taking a whiz while chatting.
the friend who KNOWS im gay will be like >hey need to go to the restroom? >me: not really? >him: you sure? its a long drive home >me: fine ill go now >he suddenly realizes this means he will have to pee with me at the urinals >him: i dont have to go anymore
tl;dr dont come out of the closet unless its relevant.
nah. i mean if im at a gay bar and thats the mood i will, but im really hardcore on male bonding in the platonic sense, so not looking at the penis is more fulfilling for me then looking at it. i know that sounds dumb but its true. i put too big an emphasis on friendship in general
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