Solitude or suffer?

You probably shouldn't. Shitty people are great at taking advantage of the inexperienced and naive. You simply don't have a reference point to understand how warped this person is.

OP, if she is really this much of a drain on you, you're better off not talking to her.

Does she realize that she's being a downer? Maybe you could talk to her about it.

youre such a shitty person, do her a favor and cut contact.

>>16647424
Ignore this guy, OP. It sounds like you're currently her shoulder to cry on, and she is using you for support. This can either be a good or bad thing. It means that she likes and trusts you.

"she is using"
lmao, yea because people who need comfort are such users, that's not at all what friends are for.
fuck you

>>16647415
No, and yeah I've told her and another guy has.
She's said that she's still fun and truth be told she's been through a lot of other shit, but it's depressing as fuck to hear it all the damn time.

>>16647424
Thanks, at least I tried to be there for her.
>>16647437
I know she likes and trusts me and that's why I'm asking you guys if I should cut contact.
I've got my own shit to deal with, I don't want to also have to do that and constantly worry and be saddened by what's going on in her life.

>>16647453
I never really had a friend before, I don't know what I'm supposed to be like.

>>16647453
I didn't mean "using" in the sense of her taking advantage of him. I might have worded it weird, but I just meant that at the moment, she is his shoulder to cry on.

>>16647485
Do you think it's possible that she may just be doing it for attention then?

>>16647492
She has also told another person before me, also she barely actually spoke me over the holidays.
This is the first time I've seen her.

>>16647500
This has crossed my mind, first time I met her she lied her tits off about anything and everything.
I've also caught her off guard and she's said she likes playing mind games so it might be that.

I realize that I'm fairly easy mark due to my dependency on her for company...so it could just be a mind game.

>>16647508
Well that's definitely a red flag. You can make better friends than this, OP. And you deserve better. She's taken your kindness and used it for her own personal gain rather than considering your feelings.

>>16647516
How, I know it sounds like a ridiculous question because you've probably had friends before but I haven't. At all.
I don't know HOW to make friends, I only ever started talking to her because I had gotten high after...some bad stuff and I was down in a field and she came over.