Insecurity, having a female dominate you means that she on some level desires you and that appeals to the side of people where you like to feel wanted and loved. Plus the fact that most people here are virgins and having somebody else take control removes a lot of the performance stress.
This reminds me of Cool Devices, where they had one episode of a girl training others to be a sex slaves, then during the second episode they turn it around on her.
That was fun.
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Pain and pleasure are like love and hate. They are two polarities of a similar extreme, so if an anime girl cares enough about you to beat you to a pulp, then this is how the person who has only known abuses and disappointment gets their kicks. Psychology, m8.
This is silly, I've never been abused. Dom/sub stuff isn't about that.
I don't know about femdom, but I like seeing girls beat the shit out of other people. I like seeing girls get beaten too. I just like fighting in general.
But you have, anon.
Tell me, what was your childhood like?
Spoiled. I could have anything I wanted. No, the root of my twisted libido is in fact in a cartoon I saw. The protagonist had two women competing for his affections, the bland heroine with no personality or agency who never did anything apart from whining, getting saved and longing for the MC. She won. The loser was the main villain's daughter who fell in love with the MC and saved his life numerous times, risking her own. She was never rewarded for this and her efforts were never acknowledged. This annoyed me greatly. The girl I liked was prettier and more interesting than the one who won. The cartoon was Flash Gordon, and the girl I fell for was Aura.
So you see, the woman who was by cultural standards more "womanly" was deemed, perhaps correctly, by you to be 'bland'. She needed to be saved, she whined, and her personality was typical according the standards of feminine. I bet that the villian's daughter had a side to her that was more interesting, more assertive. If you extrapolate the contradictory qualities, you can get to a point where assertiveness = interesting = dominating = please whip me in the ass my goddess.
Her carrying around a riding crop and using energy beams to silence men who talked back at her - never the MC though - also helped.
But yes, you're on the right track. Aura did things. Whatshername did not. Aura was interesting. Aura had a personality. She was a good guy who got treated by the good guys like she was a bad guy. This was also interesting.
She hunted people with her amazonian warrior friends, too, and always caught their prey, even if it was the heroes. This made her awesome.
I think I know just the girl for you.
Absolutely fucking disgusting, and I think most of /a/ agrees.
If you actually want a girl to beat the shit out of you while spitting in your mouth and calling you worthless you're pathetic.
Pretty much this. I feel no shame.
I also like strong women, whether that be physically strong or the independent type. It doesn't really matter.
So they all kinda go together.
I met a dom girl once.
She insisted I be the dom and I said no.
Nothing happened as a result but we watched shit movies so it was okay in the end
she wondered what it was like to be a sub for once and i dont have any dominance in me.
i told her i can refer her to a guy i know though.
alternatively she was a switch and just dint wanna say she wants to be a sub
>i told her i can refer her to a guy i know though.
And you were in a relationship with this girl
Looking for a domme on bdsm sites is bad idea, too many wankers and fantasy roleplayers. If you can handle 3DPD go to meatspace munches. Befriend people, doms, subs, kinksters of every gender, not only girly. Also don't jump at every dom girl, it annoys them when they get approached with the "I'm sub, I have a penis, you're dominant owner of vagina, we were made for each other". Sow friendship first, reap kink compatibility and benefits later.
With all the strength of a great typhoon?
You can't refuse to try. Just give it to her like she wants. If she wants you to fucking choke her, choke her. Otherwise you'll continue to be a cuck the rest of your life. Just step even if you don't think you'll do well. Either she will like it and like you more, she won't and she might leave you, or she didn't like it but likes you enough to help you improve
> but he wants it much harsher
dont jump too far. progressively get more aggressive about it til you find where he likes it most then stop there.
could take a bit but build up how hard you handle the boy.
hell mine bled once (more than once) but he still wanted it harder. eventually we settled at a point where blood stains wont be a common thing.
trial and error
Don't make assumptions anon, talk to him about it instead of assuming he doesn't notice. Chances are he appreciates it more than you think, and you might just need some encouragement by hearing it from him. On another note, if you really don't like doing something then you need to draw the line, if you are incompatible sexually then that's just how it is, and it's nobody's fault. If you think you can keep it up though then you got the right idea, take steps at a rate you feel comfortable with.
>You can't refuse to try. Just give it to her like she wants.
I dont have that level of power in me.
>If she wants you to fucking choke her, choke her
i dont roll that way. my strength is my biggest weakness and i cant hurt anyone anymore.
> Either she will like it and like you more, she won't and she might leave you, or she didn't like it but likes you enough to help you improve
I wouldnt tap it if she wants me to dom. ive changed from those days. i wont go back
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Well, there goes that.
he's said he's not into pegging, actually. he's like 9? inches taller than me and bigger so it's a weird thing to think about.
thanks for the advice. he's not much of a communicator so i guess i should just be vocal about it. i can't tell if he's ever seriously disappointed or just jokes about it. i think both? oh well, guess it's worth talking about...
>all the insecure faggots that always pop up in femdom threads to state how people liking femdom aren't alpha male hunter predators like them
I would laugh if it wasn't so sad and pathetic.
Also fuck off with the blogposting 3DPD crap, get out.
>When it comes to down right fear of women /a/ has all boards beat because we're the only board that has a culture of anons to refuse women after being unablr to get one and run to drawings and animations made by japanese gooks. Its your personal hugbox bitch
Maybe 5 years ago but right now /a/ is the most normalfag board on 4chan. I mean just look at this thread, absolute fucking filth.
Post the latest good femdom works you've read.
>he tries to appear alpha and cool on an ANONYMOUS image board about Chinese cartoons
Anon please, you're less alpha than the male feminists donating money to professional internet victims.
I just want to be dominated by a little girl, is that too much to ask?
>You will never be dominated by a 2D qt wearing a nazi uniform.
First, do some spanking. No blood, of course, but hit him or her in hiden places (like torso).
If he liked it, start to make some marks in visable places, to ser how much he's a sub.
If some bruises is not enough, try something more kinky.
People who aren't into it often have funny ideas about it. This is why 50 Shades has ruined everything forever.
It is nice to be wanted. This is also the appeal of yanderes.
Nobody is saying that though? Spanking, inflicting pain and humiliation are all aspects of domination though, so of course it's going to get brought up a lot. Contain your autism kiddo.
Someone please translate his one.
>femdom with a possessive yandere
Same as anything else.
There's the really vocal minority who actually have it as a fetish and then there's the tons of retards who pretend to like it so they can bait others into replies.
Seems true enough with a glance but
>Insecurity, having a female dominate you means that she on some level desires you
Wouldnt the fact that she sucks your dick for free make this also true?
Dom-sub stuff takes way more effort than regular sex though, especially for the dom. Having them put in the effort on your relationship means they care.
You wouldn't an albino dominatrix who can't grow pubic hair, would you?
But you're not sub enough to become a toy to fujos, are you?
I'm extremely lazy, as are probably the majority of /a/. Being with a girl who's always submissive is extremely tiresome, you have to do all the work. It's nice to have someone who takes over and puts effort in sometimes.
It would yes, but that would also depend on the manner of which the dick sucking occurs in. Is she actively pursuing your D or are you the one telling her to do it, "making" her do it if you wish. I find the first option to be more indicative of her desire for you since she's actively going for it. This doesn't even have to be dom/sub stuff though, there are a lot of variables in it. Her submitting to your will is of course one way to show desire as well, but it's more passive and not as obvious, you can't always tell at a glance what she wants, but if she's taking action and grabbing your dick on her own accord then it's obvious that she wants you.