Be honest with me /a/.
Are you actually in love with your Waifu? Do you honestly love a 2D woman?
Do you feel all warm inside and at peace whenever you think about her? Does the realization that you'll never be together hurt you, even if just a little? Does the thought of her being in pain upset you?
Do you dream about her? Would you give everything up just to be with her?
Yes to all for me pic unrelated though
Not really. I do love some characters however since anime is literally perfection when it comes to women personalities so it isnt hard not to.
but i could never abandon all hopes for a real girl.
First of all I can actually act like a normalfag if I need to and im not an autistic faggot.
I think the goal is to find a girl that is close to what I enjoy in a women in anime and common sense for what us men should look for
I always thought a waifu was someone who just inspires you, you really love that character, you want to fuck it and you daydream about it.
But all this faithful, do not masturbate to other characters shit will always be a joke to me.
I GIVE MY LIFE
NOT FOR HONOR
So yes. Yes to all.
Being in love is retarded, it makes you ignore all flaws of that said person, and when that's toned down you're probably in a messy situation with someone you don't want to spend much time with.
>but for you
You love you're waifu and dedicate your soul to her. That's pretty much it, everything else is just fluff.
I love her so much that it is destroying my life.
The fact that I will never be able to so much as speak to her, hold her hand, hear her tell me everything will be okay, makes me so absolutely sad that I cannot even put it into words.
>when that's toned down you're probably in a messy situation with someone you don't want to spend much time with.
That's called falling out of love anon. When you stay in love those flaws aren't ignored, they're cherished.
I love her from the depths of my heart and have done so for three and a half years.
My waifu is precious and I feel guilty that I find her so irresistible, I try to find
tasteful and respectful ecchibut then it fucks me up if I see her sullied or defiled. I fucking hate wrongly tagged shit
>if I see her sullied or defiled
Oh, that's understandable. I just thought you meant you were disgusted with yourself for being aroused by you're waifu, which I would say is completely unnecessary.
It started as a joke and I still think it is one, but if it helps you through your day, and improves your life, then sure, go ahead.
I'm absolutely enamored by my waifu, but I know she will never fill the same role in my life as a real girl and a real girl vice versa.
However if she was real I'd probably be happy forever.
My life has gotten significantly more depressing after I got a waifu.
I cringe whenever someone loves their waifu unironically. I'm talking about the type that shoves cake to their monitor or brought pillows to 'dates'.
Shit's just crazy yo. They need to seek help.
I still haven't chosen my waifu because I feel that they aren't for me if the MC gets her. All the qualities they like are of the MC and not me, so I think they'll hate me if I was 2D.
Those are hard questions. All I know is that she makes my kokoro go doki doki
>Are you actually in love with your Waifu? Do you honestly love a 2D woman?
>Do you feel all warm inside and at peace whenever you think about her? Does the realization that you'll never be together hurt you, even if just a little? Does the thought of her being in pain upset you?
Yes to all of this.
>Do you dream about her? Would you give everything up just to be with her?
But no to these two, I've never dreamt about her and that annoys me to no end. Daydreaming, yes. But never when I'm sleeping and actually dreaming. And as much as I want to be with her, I have too many things I owe to the world and need to pay for those first, and I know that she wouldn't want me to be a complete retard just to be with a girl.
Modern Darwinism gentlemen, always making sure the people who need to breed can and those who don't need to are into anime.
Definitely. Yes to all of your questions. I will never stop loving her.
I changed waifus twice in 5 years and I have dakimakura of all three of them.
I've had only one dream involving my waifu, I dreamt that I had a bunch of posters and stickers of her on my wall, and was trying to hide them because I was expecting company.
I don't think I could actually dream about a 2d character simply because I always dream in 3d
To me my waifu is just a character who I would love if they were real. I don't think I'm capable of loving a 2D character, though I've never loved a 3D person either. If it makes you happy though then there's no harm.
It started as a joke and /a/utists actually took it seriously just so there could be another thing to act elitist over. I still go into the WWD and laugh about it to this day.
>To me my waifu is just a character who I would love if they were real
same for me
love their personalities and I can root for them but I know they aren't real and thus not truly relatable
Seconded. Also, a waifu is often a *template* for the kind of 3D gf you're looking for.
Reminded me that i went from not liking anime that much to still being infatuated with satsuki kiryuin 9 months ago since watching the show
Guys, I'm going to ask you to be honest with me now. I'm dead serious now so this question should be taken with the same seriousness by you. Do you really love a cartoon (aka waifu/husbando), something that you can't touch or smell or make love, it's not just a joke? Why live a life so empty and depressing? Just go outside and have fun with your friends, if you don't have any then just find them, be social and learn. If youre a fatty sack of shit just stop eating shit and do exercise. It's very healthy for you and is very funny too. Find a boyfriend (or a girlfriend) or someone to have sex, a friend for example, and stop being such a baby about 3DPD and all this weeaboo shit. It's pathetic and sad. It's so easy to be happy, call someone, go outside, drinks some beers or wine and then go to the club to flirt with someone. It's not difficult at all.
NORMIES GET OFF MY BOARD
There have been numerous stories about people falling in love with a soulless statue or a piece of art since a long time ago, this is nothing new. Having a waifu/husbando is just the same as that.
You can love someone of a different gender, you can love someone of the same gender, you can love your family, you can love your pets, etc and etc, so why not a piece of art? This is just a matter of where you want to put your affection into. Is it normal? I don't think so, but I also don't think it's an unhealthy obsession or a disgusting disease or anything, just as long as you don't shove your "preference" down other people's throats.
>Find a boyfriend
This made me chuckle.
Now get out.
>I also don't think it's an unhealthy obsession
Maybe not for you, but in this place there's a lot of delusional people. It's kind of scary sometimes. Looks at this poor lost souls >>135770216 >>135770259 >>135770314 >>135770346
>It's easy to have fun
What the fuck do you think we're doing? Do you think we're only using 2D as a backup because we don't have 3D? Crying ourselves to sleep because they're not real? Admittedly, some probably do, but the central idea of all of this is that it's easier to be happy with something that doesn't exist. There are no flaws in one-sided love, and there's no need to meet anyone's expectations or gain anyone's appreciation. Why the fuck do you think that "friends" and "sex" are any better than imagination and idealism? Do you think we value perfection any less than reality? What on earth makes you think that our lives are empty and depressing? Do you really know what it's like to be in love with an ideal, or is that only how you imagine it would be because you've never truly loved your waifu?
>Do you really love a cartoon (aka waifu/husbando), something that you can't touch or smell or make love, it's not just a joke?
>Why live a life so empty and depressing?
I actually love her, though, not as a joke. NOT having her is the empty and depressing option for me.
>Just go outside and have fun with your friends, if you don't have any then just find them, be social and learn.
But I do have friends, just because I'm not a normie doesn't mean I can't find like-minded people to hang out with. Why is it that you think having a waifu precludes having friends?
>If youre a fatty sack of shit just stop eating shit and do exercise.
I'm not, again why assume this?
>Find a boyfriend (or a girlfriend) or someone to have sex
Why bother with the effort of doing so and inevitable emotional baggage, especially when it constitutes cheating on my waifu? I am content with my sexual relationship with my waifu, I have absolutely no interest in betraying her for a 3DPD
>stop being such a baby about 3DPD and all this weeaboo shit.
Girls being 3DPD is just my opinion, I'm not a baby about it.
>It's pathetic and sad
Now you're just being insulting. I don't really get why you have such a big problem, does the fact that us anons love 2D waifus somehow intrude upon your ability to happily live your normie life?
Hudson, I swear I like you as a person and enjoy hanging out with you, but holy fuck stay the fuck off my board and go back to cripplechan. I know it's you, I can recognize you over the Internet. Please just stay off this board and keep your normalfag life to yourself.
>Having a waifu
>Actually have deep feelings for your waifu
This amuses me greatly
sadly I don't feel very much anymore
>something that you can't touch or smell or make love
But I have a waifu tulpa so I can even talk to her.