The last episode is like a splinter in my heart. It flat out tells me that I will never be truly happy as a loner, but what am I supposed to do? There aren't women who are that kind and kawaii in the real world. My only hope is virtual reality and extremely advanced AI, but I was probably born too early for that. ;___;
>>118257121 >there arent women that kind and kawaii in the real world There absolutely are but the sad reality is that you don't have the right kind of personality to not scare them away or make them want to stay and there is no easy way to fix that
>>118258502 Because you're selfish and too busy looking in the wrong spots and not willing to put in the work. Relationships grow over time and they take a lot of work and effort and struggle and pain to get there.
And, again, you scare off decent people by being an asshole or depressing and saying shit like that all the time. No nice person who is happy wants to associate with a pessimistic downer, and if you sound like one people are going to assume you are one.
That sounds like the "you don't experience God's love because you closed your heart" argument. If there are such nice girls, then why can't I see their good qualities from afar? You're kinda putting the cart before the horse when you're suggesting that I first have to be in a loving relationship with someone in order to realize that the person is actually lovable. Surely one is able to love somebody AND be rejected.
I will never marry anyone because unfortunately I'm ugly as sin, and I'm not going to be somebody's last option. I'll continue to spend time working on my personality, staying /fit/ and whatever else, but life doesn't work like muh animes.
I've already confirmed that I'm as stubborn as they come, so I doubt I'll cave at any point.
>>118259569 How does it feel that the escorts may be hotter than you, more popular than you, have more friends than you, but at the end of the day, you have more MONEY and that in the Western world means you are superior to them in every way, shape, and form, and you're technically ahead of them in their worthless consumerist rat race.
Don't ever think yourself as inferior to an escort. They're literally human trash.
I don't have low self-esteem though, I'm pretty proud of who I am currently which is why I find it hard to drop the standards I expect from a partner. I'm pretty intelligent, confident, outgoing and whatever else.
>>118258165 A modern western woman is only good for the latter. Go Asian, Muslim, maybe hardline Christian, or bust. Women only marry for themselves these days. Don't even live with a woman if you can avoid it, particularly in Europe or Canada.
>>118259850 >But I don't want to be raped ten times within a second. Relax anon, that's impossible. This phrase is just the password to get your total compliance to what's going to happen, specifically taylored so you can't accidentally refuse
>>118259900 With an escort you are paying someone for an experience where they make you feel good.
The experience isn't even remotely the same with a woman or girlfriend. Dating is essentially convincing a girl you are worth their time. If you're looking for sex it's not too bad and even the clumsiest most awkward cunt will get it in the end but anything longer it's just a world of hurt. All women know men want them, and men know it too, and have to fight for it. Escorts skip the fighting.
Do you think someone you're paying will complain you're not confident enough? Or about anything you do that isn't outright awful?
>>118260076 I think if I had enough money for escorts, I would just resort to buyfagging for merchandise and technology. Material things will last much longer and make you happier in the long run than a fleeting experience of a fake girlfriend for a night.
Escorts sound awesome, but I wonder how good the average escort's acting is. I would feel uncomfortable if it's totally obvious the entire time that she is not into me at all but forces herself to be nice for the money. Of course I know that this is what is happening, but if she acts good enough, then my suspension of disbelief can do the rest and I would've a good time.
But since I'm constantly broke it doesn't really matter anyway.
Nah dude. I used to think that too, but it's not true. What you remember are the experiences you made. All that other stuff just turns into garbage sooner or later. These days, I spend all my money for good experiences rather than material things and I feel much better. A nice massage; visiting and amusement park; a short vacation with the car; visiting folk festivals or markets or conventions - it's totally worth it.
>>118258818 >why cant i see their good qualities from afar Because you are looking in the wrong place. You're expecting to find a perfect ojou-sama-hime-imouto when this is real life and you don't live in Japan. Real people have more depth than that, and part of that depth is pretty often being an aloof, stand-offish person to a larger audience but a really great person to people they are close to (there's actually evidence to support this argument, look up Milgram Experiment and related experiments).
>suggesting that I first have to be in a loving relationship with someone in order to realize that the person is actually lovable I said nothing of the kind. I said building a great relationship takes effort. You can turn a shitty relationship into a functioning one or a good relationship into an ideal one with effort.
You also entirely missed the point where your shitty, negative attitude drives decent people away. Nice, happy people do not like to associate with pessimistic assholes because it's socially draining to put up with your shit. It's one of the reason why "victims" and people with persecution complexes don't get any sympathy and why people who are visibly struggling but do their best to stay strong get tons of sympathy and help.
The biggest problem is that people who think and act like you and this idiot >>118259907 are too dumb to realize that your attitudes are the problem. Your fear of interacting with people or the illogical, douche-baggey insistence that all women (or women of a particular brand) are all bad is why you can't get a qt 3D gf to do nice things to your penis and even nicer things to your heart And that's the worst part, is that you don't realize YOU are the reason no good women are in your life.
>>118262057 >only women think about women This is the shit I'm talking about, you giant faggot. I'm a fucking guy, and there's a reason I'm happily married to a great woman. If I listened to you idiots, it's obviously because I'm a total asshole with a nice car and loads of money, nice guys finish last amirite guys?
>>118261833 >You're expecting to find a perfect ojou-sama-hime-imouto when this is real life and you don't live in Japan.
I'm not expecting to find anybody. As I said, I have yet to see any evidence that there are such nice girls. I don't necessarily have to meet them personally. Even a recording of them would be enough. But I don't see lovable girls. The more I see a 3D girl or get to know her, the more she disgusts me. As long as they shut up and just stand around, I can at least imagine that there is a kind soul behind the facade, but when they do something that reveals their personality, I'm appalled. Only fantasies live up to my standards. I obviously have expectations these 3D whores can't satisfy.
>I said building a great relationship takes effort.
But first there has to be somebody you WANT a great relationship with. Climbing Everest also takes effort, but if you don't care about standing on Everest's summit to begin with, then why bother?
>your shitty, negative attitude drives decent people away
I'm not telling 3D people the things I'm telling you. I'm only honest when I'm online.
I think it's both. The show is basically telling you "Hey it's ok when you don't find somebody who is perfect for you. You don't want to die alone, do you? So find a husband/wife as soon as possible! Doesn't matter if he is a loser of if she doesn't really get you."
>>118262466 I think more of the point is to find someone who you are happy with. Your post overlooks the fact that they love each other, and do get each other, and makes it seem as though their marriage is an unhappy one where' they're only together not to be alone.
>>118262608 It's all surgery anon. From my experience going to a school with a majority asian population, Filipina girls are the cutest. Not the brown ones, of course. Also there was one girl who was filipina and japanese mixed, and she was really cute.
>>118261833 Although I agree with most of your stuff, you refuse to acknowledge there's a real problem for the taste of the average poster here: The process of developing something worthwhile is usually made through wasteful spending of money and time, unbearably boring small talk and forcing yourself to care about someone that you really (still) don't.
I'm always in favor of simply getting female friends and let something develop over time. Worked wonders for the awkward shut-ins that I know (including me).
>>118262826 When did this "blogging" accusation start on /a/? In the past tangents like this happened all the time and the word blogging wasn't thrown around so much, people just had fun. Maybe I can find out from the archive.
>>118262930 Average I assume. Maybe in the same way Tomoko is, but if they were actually average or ugly no one would watch the show.
>>118262981 >When did this "blogging" accusation start on /a/?
When tryhard autists decided that they're /a/'s official thought-police. They're the same ones who get incredibly assmad about the latest ebin maymays and redirect anyone using them to other boards, until too many /a/nons start using them and the autists give up.
>>118263281 Tried to get into it, but wasn't too engaging. I think the shitty screen and system and everything made it so unengaging.
I wish there was a real waifu simulator. One where you could customize her personality and looks and everything and just live with her as husband and wife and do husband and wife things. I guess that's somewhat possible with The Sims, but the sims is ugly and western, and the games are getting shittier.
>>118263377 NDS waifu simulator also theres one for the 3DS
>I wish there was a real waifu simulator. One where you could customize her personality and looks and everything and just live with her as husband and wife and do husband and wife things. >mfw this becomes possible in a few years and anons everywhere drive their waifus away anyway
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