>That person who was one of your closest friends, now they

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>that person you went to highschool with that fucking died

all my closest friends, i know irl

not sure what to say, OP

Shane

>being underage

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>>11574654
It's my fault because I rarely message anyone first
Loneliness makes me feel sick but I can't fix it

>>11574654
mom

>>11574660
Damn

>>11574659
also pls reply

>>11574656
This

>>11574659
hi

>>11574664
hi

>>11574654
Me because I fucking hate you. Stop trying to be my friend

>>11574665
besides lonely, how have you been?

>>390471590
>one of my best friends said that if anyone supported trump they didnt need to be in his life
>never talked about my views with him
>we're still friends
DEVILISH

>>11574654
Michael, he just went off the grid. Dropped out of college, removed us all from his friends list and completely lost contact with everyone.

>>390472176
Better than the satanic child killing pedophile bitch

Buttkiller1993

>>11574667
ok i guess
it's just that some days i feel like shit when I have nothing to keep my mind busy

>>11574654
what did you do op? Kind of in the same boat. been a hell of a year

>>11574672
same. but I typically have something I should be doing.
are you in higher education right now?

Amber
I can't even ask her what went wrong

>>11574654
>What's their name?
Hacker known as 4chan.

>>11574659
he problem is you roneryfags never have an excuse or a premise to socialize. You just want to yak at somebody out of the blue, and that's what chicks do. Find something to do, like PLAY A VIDEO GAME for example, invite them (not like some faggoty anime character either like "w-would you like to play a video game with me sempai...") and then don't be making lion faces and talk about your fucking feels and shit all the time

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PTidDRR8Scg

JUST DON'T BE GAY, IS IT SO HARD?

He was in a band, played the drums, and thought he was too cool for us. He got local fame and it went to his head, he stopped hanging around us and went on tour the whole nine yards. Now he's dead from a drug overdose not a year later.

>>11574678
lmao

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But /v/ is my closest friend!

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>>11574654
I thought I was close with one person but then they wanted to ERP with me and I declined.
I'm kind of impressed at the long game they were playing because it was months before that happened.

Maybe you shouldn't have been so fucking clingy and annoying all the time, OP.

>>11574654
Literally happening to me right now.
B-But at least I have more time for vidya now right? right?

>>11574678
Sounds like he had a good life then

>>11574674
I dropped out of uni, I hated living in the dorm, couldn't get used to it
moved away and got a job

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>>11574656
>>11574663

same

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>>11574654
>>11574656
Good to know that there are people who share the same fate. Hang in there, friends

>>390472674
>voting in a rigged system

>>11574677
I don't have anyone to invite s-senpai x3

>tfw did the opposite and started drifting away and blocking others
Give it a few more months and I'll officially be without a single friend.

>>11574689
I'd play vidya with you if you're over 21, white, not a weeb, and enjoy fps.

>>11574654
He was a retard who lived with his mom. Tried to explain his girlfriend left him because he had no plans on moving out (she told me this personally). He blocked me on steam and I don't live in the same state anymore. Rip. Really liked the guy too.

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>lost almost all of your friends in middle school because they thought you were gay because you didn't like girls yet
>no one to play Smash with anymore
I'm 20 and I still don't, at least real ones. Wtf is wrong with me.

I'm the one who blocked all my closest friends. Got tired of just smoking weed and going to movies/malls/drinking being obnoxious. Plus they got annoying but I didn't want to ruin their fun so I just quietly left, only people I talk to from back then are some girls from H.S. that are fuckbuddies. Sounds nice but it's not, I want a loving relationship instead of drunk sex but I hate people. So I play videogames, work, and walk my dog

How does one even make friends as an adult.
As a kid all my friends would just come to me in school. (this stopped around late HS where I was friendless for 3 years)
But as an adult this doesn't happen, nobody at work even wants to talk to me, and I never want to talk to them.

>>11574654
Adam, to ty?

>>11574691
I'm 22 but i'm shy as fuck, not in a cute gay way
fps is my favorite genre tho

>>11574695
You meet the friends of your relatives (that they me
et in school) who introduce you to their friends (that they met in school). It's shit

>>11574697
The fact that you even suggest shy in any sort of cute gay way makes me not want to be friends anymore.

>>11574699
I didn't want it to sound that way anon
i'm too quiet to be a good gaming partner

>>11574698
I don't have any relatives my age that I talk to, I have my older brother but he doesn't live near me.

>>11574700
Me too can we be friends? I'm way to scared to use a mic

>>11574702
fug what do you play? I haven't touched my steam games since last month

>>11574655
sorry about that anon, was he a close friend of yours?

>>11574654
sanity

>>11574703
R6 siege and rocket league

This guy I pretended to be a girl with on Steam several years ago and had to drop contact with because he was going full /pol/ STILL sends me messages every few months to this day, it's really awkward but they're hopeful in such a way that I can't bring myself to block him.

>>11574706
I don't have r6 and I doubt my pc can even handle it
never played rocket league

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>Raiding Hellfire Citadel with my guild in WoW
>One guy suddenly starts talking about Bloodborne and Dark Souls
>I immediately jump on that and we start talking for hours
>This continues for days
>Raid leader literally has to call me out on it and tells me to start taking things more seriously
>Decide fuck it, I buy PSN for the first time ever so we can play Bloodborne and DS3
> We play almost constantly, staying up all night, fighting invaders, dueling each other, and replaying the campaigns
>Best multiplayer ever
>But we do beat the game and there's not much left to do at this point
>Eventually I end up leaving the guild
>We end up growing distant and don't talk as much
>Conversations tend to drag on and don't end naturally
>It's been a while since I've last spoken to him

Am I just a lazy piece of shit who didn't put effort into this? Is it salvageable or should I accept it ran it's course?

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>tfw cannot start conversations with strangers
>have no problem talking to people I know

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>Never know what to reply or talk about.
>All people delete me as soon as they realize.

>>11574668
>wanting to be friends with some faggot who cares more about politics than his friends

>>390471590
>tfw all my friends are brainwashed libcucks
Least I'm tolerant enough to put up with their beliefs

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>that person who blocked you for no reason
>You eventually pushed them to a corner and they spilled why
>They blocked you because thwy werw jealous
>Your a trap and they're a natural weighted woman

The only time my plight ruined one of my best friendships

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>best friend moves downtown for his job
>spends his nights after work drinking with his roommates or bar hopping
>never goes online anymore

>>11574714
You're a trap? Wanna be friends? I'll fuck you too

>>11574654
Schlimms

>tfw gf constantly interrupts my play time so I can't play for longer than an hour without feeling the need to quit

>>11574712
ehh, hes normally levelheaded. a lot of people brought out their inner retard this election cycle

>>11574694
This is where I'm at in life.

>>11574654
They never were your friend...just users , so be grateful you got rid of them.

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>last school day
>exchange contacts with everyone
>one random girl refuses
>think I misunderstood so ask again
>nope
Some people.

>Log into Steam one day
>Almost immediately recieve "hi" from someone
>Literally no clue who that person is or why I added them
>They don't know either
>They say they messaged me cause they saw the login notification and got curious
>Start talking about a few games and real life stuff
>Get bored and burned out pretty fast because I think small talk online is a waste of time unless it's in public like in a Discord server
>Eventually stop replying to that person
>The next few days they send me a message or two per day
>Never reply
>Delete them afterwards
>The next day they send a friend request
Sorry pal, but take a hint.

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>>11574668
>closet trump supporter among libfag friends
>"Who did you vote for?"
>"Bernie"

>>11574654
Probably me, not that I block people but I just drift away so to say. I don't know why but I literally HATE to get closer to people, it's a bit paradox. When I don't know people I'm actually more relaxed and open (not that this means much though, I'm pretty introverted as is) but the more I get to know them and they me the less.. hm comfortable I am around them and I start to get ever more distant. Oh well rambling over, I'm an autist. But yeah, I'm probably one of the people that has been last seen online ~1 year ago or something.

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Nah I blocked him, he was talking mad shit behind my back and openly ignoring me to hang out with other people and when those other people got into a argument with him he came crawling back.

Plus I was literally the guys therapist along side one other person.

If you know people like this and still want to try be friends with them even after knowing them since childhood, don't.

They're not the same person and they will drag you down if you don't cut that shit off. I don't know how much money, time and energy I've saved by not staying by those cunts.

>>11574725
im the same anon, not sure why we're like this

>>11574727
>>11574725
I personally never got too involved with anyone because the prospect of having to offer emotional support to someone is dreadful.

>>11574710
Me

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>>11574724
>Group is going full social jihad on anyone they think might have voted Trump
>Never have to mention anything to them because the concept of a spic voting for Trump doesn't exist in their heads

>I grew up as a Christian, therefore my friends were
>All they played was legos and minecraft, and I also joined in
>I knew them since 2nd or 3rd grade
>3 years later
>I grew out of legos and minecraft, my friends keep playing them
>Suddenly we have nothing to talk about
>We don't even make eye contact
>Some years after
>One of my best friends, Austin, was sitting alone at Church, I decided to greet him
>"Hey Austin, its been a while. Remember me? How have you been?"
>"Sorry, who are you?"
>"I am Anon from a long time ago. You know, the guy with the *stuff*"
>"I don't remember anyone with that name, but I'm doing good, thank you."
>Some years later, I'm still best friends with a guy named Michael in 2nd or 3rd grade
>Skip over to the current year 2017
>A month ago, my mother invited me for her birthday, and she also invited her friend, the mother of Michael, and the mother also brought her sons including Michael there
>"Okay, I'll be there"
>Dinner
>We meet up
>I'm tired, didn't get much sleep
>I haven't seen Michael in almost a year now
>Try to greet him
>He forgets I exist, keeps talking to his other brother and his cousin
>We were on opposite ends of the table
>I don't bother engaging in conversation anymore because I'm too tired

Is it too late to save our friendship, /v/? He's the last in real life friend I have. I was lucky enough to meet some great people on the internet due to my popularity on a certain website. We talk a lot and voice chat a lot, but I feel like it might be slowly fading.

>>11574725
Hear, hear.

>>11574731
Why not just... mae new real life friends?

>make internet friends
>shoot the shit and hang out in voice calls regularly
>play all kinds of different games with them
>actually met up with them irl multiple times
>closer with them than I ever was with any proper 'irl' friends and they're in the same boat

Living the good life

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>People in this thread have the same social issues
>They're too awkward to take initiative and make friends with each other

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>>11574735
kill me

>>11574735
Came here to post this
I'd ask if you wanted to play Vidya but I couldn't care less about having more friends

>>11574654
>erica from /r9k/
>all my old friends with benefits
>every friend I made before 2015
>the girl I loved (twice)

It's better to be alone

>>11574680
And not a single reply. Perfect.
Wait i fucked it up

>>11574735
please, we all know what happens

>add someone from /v/
>talk to them once after adding them
>never talk to them or play anything with them again
>either delete them or leave them sitting in your friends list because it would be awkward deleting them

I was the guy who blocked my old friend.

>best friends with guy since middle school
>12th grade comes around and he starts being really edgy but I just deal with it
>he starts smoking weed constantly and is judgmental of everyone who isn't in his group
>college rolls around and he starts doing every drug he can get his hands on and becomes a hippie douche
>quietly remove him from Steam and ignore any texts
>never heard from him again

Looking back I can't even tell if there ever was a person in my life I can call friend, maybe just one or two. But in the end, it doesn't even matter.

>>11574734

god i miss my old online friends but im hesitant make new ones because i feel like i dont click with internet people these days

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>>11574740
>either delete them or leave them sitting in your friends list because it would be awkward deleting them
>Not wanting to offend someone you're never interacting with either way
This is why you people don't have friends.

>>11574731
hes a little prick thats being like that on purpose, has mass resentment for you dropping off talking to him, some people are just petty as fuck.

>>11574654
>What's their name?
Me. I cut everyone out about 8 years ago and started over.

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>>11574654
JEREMY,COME BACK,I DIDN'T MEAN TO CALL YOU A NIGGER JEW

>>11574654
i don't befriend oversensitive faggots.

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>>11574654
I blocked all my "closest friends" and now i spend less time playing shit games out of obligation.

She just up and refused to speak to me as soon as it was possible for us to arrange to hang out for a few days, not even her mother knows why she did it.

She'll be dragged to see me eventually, I'm both dreading it and looking forward to it.

>>11574749
I feel you. There used to be a time where I would buy and play some MP games out of peer pressure and didn't have much fun. I'm glad to have gotten out of that.

>it's a dumb sissy white bois make a shitty thread to blog about their faggot ERP friends leaving them episode
Grow a fucking pair.

>>11574752
I'm not white, cuck.

>>11574752
>implying i've ever had an erp friend

>best friend in college is this chick named Amy
>she's pretty ugly so I don't want to fuck which makes it a legit friendship
>she starts dating this abusive guy but nobody can convince her to leave him
>she gets distant and flakes on everything
>eventually they break up years later
>suddenly she's the perfect friend again
>she starts dating another guy
>she literally lives in the apartment adjacent to mine and has never once asked me to hang out or messaged me since they started dating
>she has no other friends either, her only social contact is this guy and work

It's been about 8 months since we last spoke; if she tries to reach out after her breakup again I'm just going to laugh and say fuck off

>>11574698
>tfw your friends' friends are annoying as fuck
>have no idea how anyone would want to hang out with them

probably the reason I don't have many friends anyway

>>11574753
Point still stand, you tard. Stop being such a loser that you break down in tears because some stranger stops talking to you.
>>11574754
Good. Those faggots are the worse.

>>11574755
How about you message her?

>>11574740
Just because you've failed once, doesn't mean you should never try again.

>>11574758
I've messaged her and invited her to do things more than a dozen times in the past year. She will act friendly but always has an excuse. If you live 10 feet away from your friend and can't make time to see their face once in a year, you're not a friend I would like to have.

>>11574749
Nigga how hard is it to just say "no thanks I don't want to play that"

I do this all the time, but I've also found some really fun games I never would've played otherwise thanks to them asking me to play and making it sound cool, like EYE, and fighting games in general

>>11574655
She was, I loved her. Had a lot of plans after school that she never got to follow.

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>a weeb
>anime and vidya everyime
>don't want to delete old friends in social webs
>posting anime and vidya shit feels weird
>they are there, saying anything about my childish hobbies
I want them to delete and block me so I just speak to my weeb/vidya autist friends.

One guy I knew from many years of vidya and good times moved to Seattle and worked for a few startups before going insane, quitting his job, and accusing everyone of plotting against him. At one point he was seeing multiple therapists because he was "addicted to therapy" whatever the fuck that means. Then he stopped doing that and I'm pretty sure his life is still shitty and unfulfilled. I guess he's "normal" now ( i know he's working and not drifting around the country aimlessly) but he doesn't really talk to me. I try to strike up steam conversations but they never go anywhere. One of the last things he told me was that he didnt want to talk to me or the other guys in our group because it would be like "falling into bad habits".

Feels alright I guess. I've just moved on.

>>11574654
>friend is a total bro
>best friends for years
>friend gets laid with an ugly fat chick
>friend suddenly completely changes, becomes aggressively normie
>he starts denying everything he ever liked
>stop interacting with him
>last I heard about him from an ex-roomate he tries hard to be a chad but fails at it

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The only two people I've known who I could call a legitimate friend, I've grown distant from because I was too lazy to put in the effort to keep it going.

>>11574654
joe kun :(

>>11574758

I've been in a similar situation. If a chick friend is blowing off their friends to be with their boyfriend all the time. Messaging them gets you nothing but excuses and silent treatment. At best they'll agree to hang out once, bring their boyfriend along even if you ask them to hang out without them, then ignore you the entire time.

>>11574654
Quilava is his ign, he's a really nice guy. I just don't play the same games as him anymore. And deleted my tumblr so there's nothing left for us to talk on.

>was talking to this girl on and off for the better part of 2.5 years
>It was really dumb, I gave her a ride one time and from then on never saw her irl again
>various shit happened where the timing kept being wrong but we kept in contact and were explicitly romantically interested
>so eventually the timing isn't wrong anymore and I naturally try to meet up, but she gives some plausible excuse, but this happens like 4 or 5 times over the course of a year
>after every time, I would cut contact cause I felt used
>after a couple months one of us always gave in and messaged the other again
>so this last time was the worst time where from my POV she was just straight up leading me on and there's very little room for excuse, so this time I go all out
>delete her number, unfriend on snap, delete fb messages etc so there's no way I can break first
>now we haven't been fb friends in like 1.5 years because I removed her once and never added her back
>so like we have no fb contact at all
>then a few weeks later she breaks down and snaps me some random shit
>now normally I would just reply normally, and tell myself it's just for validation, and I won't get attached this time for sure
>but instead I sent "I thought I made myself clear. Until you're ready to stop leading me on, don't contact me again"
>where the feels come in is that soon noticed that she blocked me on facebook and snapchat
> that means my message hurt her to the point that she looked up my facebook profile, who she isn't even friends with at all, just to block it
>when she's never blocked me on anything before
>how can she be hurt when she's the one being a succubus
these feels man

>>11574761
>I do this all the time
you just answered your own question, and exposed the issue therein.

>>11574654
Last close friend I blocked because he was one of those clingy RP fag anime avatar weebs

>>11574771
What? I meant I regularly tell them to fuck off and say I don't want to play that game

>>11574773
exactly, it gets old after the thousandth time they ask you to play shit game #90325. Like eventually you'd think they would develop some taste.

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>>11574654
Raymond Wilfong. That crazy old bastard better have one hell of a life by this point in time. Has the wife, the kid, and even a youtube channel by this point. I'll always miss how we could just find the time to screw around in various games like some almost ambigiously gay duo on a budget.

Though the other answer is everyone I've made friends with over the years, since I'm like Bojack Horseman but in real life, since I constantly fuck things up and push people away with crazy plans or antics to mask my depression and just cause everyone to realize I'm not worth the effort

>>11574654
I'm the one who blocks.

Jokes on you I haven't had a real friend in over 20 years.

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>>11574746
i've thought about doing this before
just leave everyone online and irl and restart
join a random small discord and see how well i can befriend all the people there
go to a game store and learn to play a new card game and become a regular
there's so many opportunities to restart and try for something better but i'm too comfortable in my rutt of self loathing

>>11574774
Eh it's not that big of a deal and they're still my friends even if I don't feel like joining the game they're currently playing

>that person you were best friends with in high school
>did everything together
>played Goldeneye to death together
>told deepest secrets to
>wept on each others' shoulders in dire times
>held no one else closer
>10 years later he gets married
>not the best man
>not a groomsman
>awkwardly sit in the back
Worst pain I have ever felt.

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>>11574654
>>11574656
>>11574663
>>11574686
>>11574687

lol what did you fucking autists do to make them block you or never talk to you again?

>>11574755
this except
>whenever we did talk she constantly complains about her bf
>tell her to break up with him
>she says she doesn't wanna be lonely and cause the dude apparently has a huge dick
like, buy a dildo dude, don't put up with abuse just for a dong there's plenty more dudes out there with big dicks

>>11574770
Shitty deal. Both of you have no idea what/who you want. I'm sure she's just as miserable.

>>11574781

Their friends grew up and they didn't.

>>11574783
The fuck? I know exactly what I want, it was to meet her again and date her. She refused to meet me despite being like 10 minutes away, but kept talking to me romantically. What am I supposed to do in that situation apart from cut contact or get cucked

>>11574778
I kinda tried this when I went to uni

everything was going fine during the first semester, had this pretty tight group of people with whom to hang out with

after the summerbreak 2 of them quit the uni, and the rest who stayed suddenly became passive as fuck. I tried hard to make it work but it was obvious they weren't interested anymore. And I was dumb enough not to make more friends by joining parties etc, I just thought everything would work out just fine with this group.

>>11574785
She sounds mentally broken to me. Wouldn't have been a good time. I thought she was far as fuck from your story. 10 minutes is nothing.

>>11574785
>What am I supposed to do in that situation apart from cut contact or get cucked
Not much, friend. Move on. No one is going to replace her, but you'll find a new experience that will make up for it.

>>11574787
She was like 3 hours away for most of the story, until the last few months. When she was 10 mins away and still made no effort, I was donezo

>>11574709
>>Conversations tend to drag on and don't end naturally

God I hate this

how realistic is it to think that i will stay in touch with my online friend for a long time up until meeting her, and maybe being with her? on the flip side i have kept in touch with a friend online who is a guy for 10 years now

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>had friend from Jordan who explained to me that he and his family were suspected of being terrorists because they were from Iraq
>hasn't logged on discord for months

g-guess ill just have to forget about him h-heh

>>11574792
I had a friend who I haven't heard from since the Egyptian revolution of 2011. Scary shit, man

>>11574654
Look, I got sick and tired of your shit. Get some help. You are a chronic liar.
And Guild Wars 2 sucks, to be quite frank.

>>11574654
Sam. He lives with a black dude on welfare now and all they do is fuck and do drugs. He's also filmed some really nasty gay porn. Wish he hadn't gone crazy.

He got married and had a kid.

Killed of any friendship

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>>11574654
>meet someone on online game
>hang out with them for a couple months having a good time each time
>they want to push the relationship further, dating or best friends
>secretly incredibly annoyed by them
>cut communication with no explanation
i do not know why i do this

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>>11574654
>that person who falls in love with you, she immediately hates you, tells you to fuck off and leave her alone and blocks you from her life out of nowhere after months of dating

>>11574677
>suggest a game
>nah I dont feel like playing it
>but you wanna play Overwatch with me?
>all these faggots ever do is play OW

>>11577252
This, but after 2 years. Guess she wasn't happy with me.

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I stopped using all social media before anyone could do that to me. I've completely isolated myself, but at least I don't have to put up with stupid bullshit.

>>11574654
Ur a cuck

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>>11574654
>have annoying bitchy friend
>tolerate it because you want to help her get through her anxiety and social awkwardness
>talk for year and a half
>meets some random and talks to them for a month
>basically tells you to fuck off because you refuse to inflate their ego like they do
>they start """""dating"""""
>less then a month later; guy tells her to fuck off because she is insufferable
>she learns nothing from this experience and continues being a cunt
Golly day man, there are just certain people out there that just have nothing salvageable within them.
Her name is Kaitlyn, by the way.

>>11580845
So are you.

>all those people who think i died because one day i just stopped logging in

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>>11574654
>had friend I met in Drama Class that I friends with during my High School years
>a few years after High School he stops responding to my messages
>four months later he comes out as trans
>log into Twitter which I pretty much never use (only made it to message one guy) and see his tweets in my feed; he's gone full turbo-SJW
>stuff like retweets from crazy trannies like Riley Dennis, feminazis and snowflakes with made-up sexualities and genders
>wants to take down his signed poster of Neil Patrick Harris (he used to be a big HIYM fan) because he didn't want a guy from a "mysogynist" show "deadnaming" him
Yeah, I'm not even gonna try and contact him after that

Rachel. I don't know why she stopped either. She said I could never annoy her and would always be her friend, but I guess I found a way

>Meet online friend
>Really enjoy talking to him
>Only person I ever met that lets me nerd out about my video game/fantasy setting ideas, I even ask him if it bothers him and he says no
>Slowly over a few months I learn he has some kind of schizophrenic mental disorder
>This is confirmed by second person in social group, and I'm pretty sure it's not just the guy trying to get away from me
>Eventually leaves and never comes back to social group, myself and other members included

Feels bad man. That guy was really fun to talk to. He seems super intelligent, and the way he wrote made me actually have to stop and read the whole message, really comprehend it.

test

I think with me, I am friends with people out of convenience. If I see you everyday then I become more friendly but I make no effort outside of regular meetings to do anything. I've accepted the fact that I'm a shit friend. But friendship is a too way street. If you don't contact me I dont contact you

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>>11574654
I can't say his name because I'm pretty sure that even though it's an American name not many people have it, but I have this friend who I really fucked things up with once upon a time. I could shoot the shit with him about practically anything, I didn't have to worry about him getting fucking triggered or political or any of that bullshit, it was great.
Then everything went to fucking hell when I developed feelings for him. Even know I still love him and think of him everyday, but now he doesn't message me.
I could always message him but what're the chances he'll reply back?

>>11585208
Does he know how important he is to you?

>>11585208

What happened, did you tell him how you felt and it weirded him out?

Why not send him an honest apology? If you truly apologize to him and he reads the message, but still chooses not to respond, then he's really the asshole at that point and not you.

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>>11585225
>>11585235
Yeah, I told him I liked him. He didn't mind at first, but it became more and more prominent on my end that I was getting clingy for his attention as things went on, and I could tell he was starting to get uncomfortable with it, so I ended up saying goodbye to him.
Like a month later I sent him a friend request that he accepted but I haven't had the courage to interact with him since. I mean I could send him an apology, but it's not going to change how I feel for him, so I don't think it'd do much good between us. I guess at least I have the peace of mind that he still sees me as a friend even though I basically ruined our friendship.

>>11585974
My advice would be try your hardest to just be friends, if he's really okay with that.

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>>11586332
Much easier said than done, but it's worth a shot. Thanks for the chat, I think I know what to do now.

Jeremy

>>11579459
I'm sorry for your loss anon, and especially with the fact of two years. That has to be extremely painful. Stay strong.

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>>11589531
>extremely painful
you're a big guy

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>>11590738
And what is that supposed to mean, big guy?

Jeff

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>>11574727

it just gets tiresome to deal with the same people day after day, the more time you spend with them, the more they expect from you, the more you have to deal with their shit, their bad sides and habids, even if you are sometimes shit to each other and get tired of each other, they keep going out of courtasy I guess or because too much was already invested in this relationship and if you drift away too much, you get pulled back right away.

At some point, you ask yourself, what was the point of this friendship to begin with because you sure would want to be somewhere else and do something else.

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It's hard as fuck to find friends. I'm shy but even I have gotten so lonely that I at least try to interact with strangers in games and shit, but it never goes beyond small talk. I've tried to join a bunch of discord servers from generals I visit hoping to find people who like the same shit but it's always a big circle jerk, people are already in a circle of friends and it's hard as fuck to make your way in there. Even if I did I wouldn't ever be anyone's close friend. Fuck, I have absolutely 0 friends on steam or in real life due to being a hikki neet. Fuck everything, I'll just keep distracting myself forever

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>>11574654
>friend you fell in love with and gave tons of gifts turns out to not care and is just a cold person.
after a horrible break up I just fell dead. how a person you cared about just throw you away, then doesn't even feel remorse for it. even though we still talk it's a struggle to not forget what happened

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This is exactly my situation with someone I met on Xbox Live back in like 2008. Except I'm the one who has him blocked and have no interest in talking to him again.

He's just kind of an asshole and he's so fucking clingy like I gave him my number a long ass time ago back when we were cool, and that was a fucking mistake. Like everyday he just sent me walls and walls of text, and whenever I would even respond with "oh" "yeah" "lol" "hahaha" type of texts he would keep fucking going.

He's just an asshole around all my other friends too, whenever someone says or does something he doesn't like he just goes on some autistic spergfest until everyone else leaves, and he would just follow me everywhere into chats with other people and completely kill the vibe, and a bunch of my other friends had him muted or blocked for one reason or another before I was finally done with him

Also worth mentioning, he was 600 pounds, gets gibbs from the government for being "disabled", never bothered to find a job even being in his late 20's, always ate nothing but Papa Murphy's, Top Ramen, cookie dough, etc.

He was a fucking mess and I had to distance myself from him

>>11593454
I went through that after a decade-long relationship.
I don't know why it happened. He just slowly drifted away until he finally broke it off and then kept up the bare minimum to just be friends. Said he just wanted to be alone and normal, but still wanted to talk every now and then.
I never stopped trying on my end, even after he hurt me and pushed me away, until it eventually sunk in that I simply did not matter to him anymore and I decided to cut contact and try to move on.
I still think about him every day and I desperately wish that he'd just show up and start trying again or at least showed some remorse, but it's been months since we last spoke.
At the very least, I hope he's happier without me.

>>11574654
That's me. But the guy can eat it. I can't believe I put that much time and energy in that piece of crap. Christ, I'm shit at friends.

>>11595515
Fuck.. are you me?
I was in that same mess, where I thought about leaving but In my head I thought he would miss me and we could talk, but i know he would just forget me. I've never had many friends but the close ones always ended up using me, one friend I had for a couple years i even called him a brother figure to me, I fucked up by saying something stupid one day and it's been 7 years since I last talked to him, I just eventually learn Nothing truly will make me happy and everyone just betrays you in the end no matter how close they get.

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Oh boy. My first and only crush just sorta stopped talking to me. He was going through some shit so I gave myself the benefit of the doubt and just assumed he was just having it real rough. Then he pulled through with a job and home with some other friend and I realized he just moved on without me and ultimately stopped caring. He meant the world to me but he never reciprocated those feelings, I didn't want to believe it then but it's obvious now. Didn't help I had never been in a relationship before so I ultimately drove us apart with weird and distant monologues about how I felt. I'd do anything to reconnect but I suppose it's best if we moved on.

Then there was those guys that I removed myself. I hated most of them but there was one, he had it bad but he was a cool guy. I ended up removing him during some silly suicide attempt years ago without telling him anything, I wish I could reconnect but I haven't the faintest clue where I could find him. He was a cool dude and shared all my obscure and gross fetishes, we could connect real well and talk about anything. Goddamn shame.

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>have good friend on steam I've been playing games with for almost a decade
>he's from Venezuela
>last online 6 months ago

>>11596387
You just described someone I know almost eerily well. What was his name?

>>11596607
This might sound a little disingenuous but I don't actually remember. I remember a lot about him and the conversations we had but not his name. Pretty sure he never even told me, we were both going through an identity crisis at the time and considered changing names because I have the lamest name in existence and he had his own reasons.

>>11574689
>>11574693
>>11574737
>>11574739
>>11574775
Spoilers are enabled now?

>>11598004
You are dumb.

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>>11598019
Yes. Now educate me.

>>11598046
This thread was most likely moved to trash from a board with spoilers. since the topic is depressing i can only imagine it came from /r9k

>>11598411
Thanks anon.

>>11574654
>Finally have not one, but two groups of friends during senior year
>Have time of my life at senior trip
>Graduation
>Only seen one after that (the one I had a crush on), and after we hung out he stopped responding to my texts
Friendship is overrated lol. I am not suited for social interaction. People are a hassle anyways, much happier dying alone

>>11574655
> was friendly with him in elementary school. as classes specialized by ability we drifted apart
> he bashed his head into a metal box until he fucking died

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>Socially awkward as fuck
>Somehow make a shitton of friends in high school
>Alienate 99% of them through a combination of personality issues, mental issues, awkwardness, and just plain avoiding them
>This includes my best friend who I proceeded to alienate due to being really clingy and annoying
>Only have one IRL friend who I still talk to, as well as a handful of online friends
>MFW I sit around wishing for hours that I could go back in time and re-do high school and keep myself from being such a fuckup
>MFW I regularly dream about being back in high school and being friends with them all again

>>11574654
Me. Over the past year I've just stopped talking to all but a small handful of people. I've grown distant from the others, not entirely on purpose, but I can't muster the energy to care.

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Tenacious, you know who I am. I'm sorry I never told you why I left, but it seemed like the only way to make you understand how important you are. When you denounced your health over me I was worried. It worried me because I couldn't do anything to help you, and telling you wasn't enough anymore. Your life is worth more than you think please don't throw it away for some random nobody like me. I hope that someday we'll be able to meet on a lighter day even if you don't ever read this. Stay tenacious, Thor.

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>steam friends moving on with their lives

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>Having friends

I took the initiative. I blocked him first. Fuck you, Jackson. If you don't wanna do shit together, just say so and don't try to string me along like some beta orbiter.

If you have a female friend dont have sex with her, even if she is the one suggesting It, It never ends well

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>>11574654
>deliberately cutting off or avoiding everyone I knew in high school because I don't wan't to be reminded of our irrelevant to their life I am
I am that person. Cut off everybody but a female friend who I had a huge crush on. Then we became a thing for a few months and now the past 3/4s of a year have been spent trying to cut her off too.

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>>11574654
Her name is Annika. She just stopped talking to me one day, we even had plans to meet as she lived in Europe and I lived in America. It feels so bad just talking about it

>>11598411
Close.
It came from /v/

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>>11603365
this is the worst feeling. I used to have like 80 friends on steam whom I would talk to every day in big group chats and I was actually happy because I had friends and felt like I belonged somewhere. Now I have 13 friends and talk to none of them.

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>>11574710
Fuck I have this

HEDGEHOG DILEMMA

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>>11574654
>be me
>have 2 friends in class I always talk with
>have 3 other friends in other class
>we can talk before school begins and in break
>a dozen in my country
>sometimes I see them on street and meet
>a dozen outside my country that I befriended outside my country and have some form of real contact in the holidays.
>I only have 2 online Friends
>ihatetimezones.jpeg
I am autistic and you guys can't keep up?
>pic related

>>11607408
Almost forgot
Our classes only has 8 students

Amanda


Fuck you Amanda


I'm sorry

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>>11607420

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>>11574714
>have to ask through a mutual friend what the hell happened
>turns out their controlling shitbag of a boyfriend forced them to block you because he saw you as a threat
>tfw you weren't even interested in her romantically, just as a friend and a person

>>11607445
You can laugh, that was intended to be silly

But yeah, that also kinda sums up the situation. When someone just completely ditches you overnight and you never get to express how you feel to them, its hard to figure out if you want to be mad or apologize