>>22759352 You could embarrass yourself in front of some random women, so you know it isn't too bad. Might be just the fear of the unknown. But seriously you need to stop putting people on a pedestal, your time on earth is the only currency you have and they better feel goddamn thankful that you choose to spend some of that time on them.
>>22759562 That would be because of >>22759202 Yes, of course chubby guys aren't "that bad", they just aren't physically attractive. At all. I'm in a loving relationship with a cute fit boy, who's reading this thread and laughing at you sad losers with me. After this, we'll probably watch some tv and fuck. But don't worry, she'll approach you if you keep posting it in threads on /soc/! One day!! :^)
>>22759568 If you were such an alpha, you wouldn't be begging girls to approach you. That's all there is to it pal.
Thread is full of faggots, faggots pretending to be women and dumb cunts. Pointless thread is pointless. The dumb cunts will just give "advice" on how you can be more of a puppet to them so they can get what they want and the guys will just give pointless advice as if it matters when it doesn't since she has a vagina and has already won anyway.
- Ask people out who you find attractive. STOP THINKING YOUR GENDER HAS ANYTHING TO DO WITH IF YOU SHOULD DO THIS. PEOPLE WILL TELL YOU IT DOES BUT GUESS WHAT THEY'RE NOT YOU AND YOU CAN IGNORE THEM. - If someone says no, don't get salty. Move on. - If you are saying no to someone, don't get salty. Move on.
Displaying interest in someone does not place any shape or form of obligation upon them. Accept their decision, including whether they want to give you a shot to prove them wrong.
Someone displaying interest in you that you don't reciprocate is not a cause for mockery, disdain, or hostility.
Finally, don't try to blame "guys" or "girls" or "autists" or "neckbeards". People will do shitty things sometimes. It's a waste of time, effort, and emotion to validate those shitty things by arguing them or trying to work around them. Be yourself as hard and as well as you can be. Lead by example, not by complaining. And you'll find like minded people. Maybe even make the world a slightly better place.
>>22759558 >implying its irrational to want a girl who chases you
Ive got better stuff on my plate to do than run around looking for chicks. If I see a girl in public and I think shes cute Im gonna flirt with her, and if I get good vibes Im gonna probably ask for her number. Most of the guys I know are like this, these beta faggots exist but there arent as many of them as you seem to think. Youre probably just not a very attractive person, personally or physically
I certainly hope youre as pretty as you are dumb though cause otherwise I dont you see you going far
>>22760529 I am going to punch some concrete to release some anger. My country eat good pussy boy, if you visit us maybe we will get you a good hook up. You must be eating that Asian fried rice or white basic flower flavor.
>>22758436 If you're passibly hot, every human male with testicles you ever met (even your father or grandfather i do mean everyone)would have sex with you if it wasnt for the consequences (be it moral, biological, social financial, etc). But the thought is always there, you ladies should know.
>>22758572 >In my experience, a good amount of women have the same libido as men do, they just don't admit it or speak up about it, or worse, they never initiate. This to the max, idiots who claims women dont like sex is because they are ugly... Women like sex but they are atracted to real man, that means, "man shaped" men, since it is customary today to avoid excersise and therefore stop having the shape of a man then yes, woman dont want to fuck THOSE men...
On the other hand, a girls body is less reliable on hos much she excersises
>>22763501 get out of your comfort zone >>22761051 Lol, resentful as fuck, most pretty girl i knew were very nice indeed. (having an advantage makes you happy about being alive). The problem is ugly losers who cant get a girl always justify their own misery by saying "all pretty people are evil"
>>22763501 Dude literally, you just gotta say fuck it and go for it. If you get rejected move on, there's literally billions of other hot chicks out there. Literally all you have to do to get chicks is 1. Not Stink 2. Have a Good Personality 3. Not be creepy Boom pussy
>>22763952 I've never had "game", I'm very socially awkward, even when I'm comfortable.
I've not dated since 2008, basically gave up after several relationships where I either was cheated on or seemingly was left for no reason. The last girl I was with even tried to convince me I was a homosexual because she tried sleeping with after only a few days and I was not " up to perform".
It would be nice to get into a relationship again but I'm a bit sensitive in that situation.
>>22763983 >seemingly was left for no reason. i call bullshit, if you had several failed relationships, at least one of those girls, probably all of them told you waht was wrong but youre too much of a coward to change it, dont come askign for our sympathy if you dont tell us the truth
>>22763983 Dude believe me i'm extremely socially awkward myself. But what can you do about it? Honestly, nothing. And you don't necessarily need "game" to get chicks. You just need to be able to talk and seem interesting enough to talk to. It's not hard at all, it's as easy as ordering food at a drive thru.
>>22764008 Projecting? Dude I did everything a guy was supposed to; treated them with respect, gave them attention and space when needed, treated them out once in awhile, if I did something wrong then I'm ignorant to it.
>>22764035 I suppose so, the comfort zone game is strong though, and I've built up a pretty large field.
>>22764124 Defensive because you made a rather aggressive comment. You could have simply said something like "I don't believe you" but instead type a full paragraph attacking me. So yeah, I got defensive.
One girl claimed it was because her mom told her to, which ehhh, okay maybe that was way back in high school, but most of them later on just up and said we're through and then find them, some times only a few days, walking around and getting cozy with another guy. Some just stopped talking to me completely without really saying anything.
I'm not saying I did wrong, but I'm not about to become an abusive, womanizing ass hole just to get laid, which feels like what you're implying.
>>22764214 look , your whjole argument "i done everything perfectly but those mean girls left me anyway" just reeks of denial. You probably already know whats wrong withy ou
>>22764233 >>22764214 i disagree with both, that whole "nice guys dont get laid" is bullshit. What girls don't like is a guy wihtout balls, without courage. It is only losers who equate "having balls" with "being an asshole".
Know the difference between being an asshole and having balls. this is very important.
This is what women really like, if you have that trait then they prefer that youre also nice, its a plus. but if youre nice but have no balls then they are going to dump you, and its super hypocritical to blame them for that, you just don't posess the characteristic that makes them feel attracted to you, you would do the same thing for a girl that didnt make you atracted even if she were nice.
>>22764214 your description of what you think a relationship is about is very revealing : "I did everything a guy was supposed to; treated them with respect, gave them attention and space when needed, treated them out once in awhile,"
Did you make her feel special? did you make her life exciting? did you light a fire in her heart? Were you willing to fight for her? did you made her feel protected?
the list goes on and on, but my diagnosis is that youre too submisive and have no balls, seriously, be assertive and your next girl wont leave you, helll, youll even probably grow a pair to leave the girl yourself.
seriously, this is the best advice you can ever get, if you wnat a shoulder to cry on try your mother
>>22764304 Man, people on here are incredibly aggressive about this crap. I already said I wasn't innocent, just ignorant. Two different things, I'm not claiming innocence at all, just being unaware of the reasons as to why.
As far as your check list goes, how the hell am I supposed to know their every little emotional and thought all the time? Sorry but you think like a scorned woman, and you feel of projection and anger.
I'm not perfect in any sense but I'm not some extreme of what ever you claim me to be. You literally know nothing about me other than what I've chosen to disclose but you've already made definitive conclusions about who I am to the core.
>>22764372 Seriously man, i dont care what you say, this is the internet, my life is good and i love my gf. Im just giving you useful advice, you lack balls, youre submissive, unenergetic, you dont take the iniciative, youre beta. Grow a pair, think about your attitude towards life: brotip? did you even care about those girls that left you? did you fight for them?. (if the answer is yes then no, then you cannot be so hypocritical as to not see the problem yeah the aggresivenes is free, but learn to deal with it.
Cumdumpsters ears up Learn how to stop expecting prince charming with chocolate money dicks, and accept reality. Stop turning down guys cause of looks and lack of chocolate money cock, looks fade. Time hits bitches like a brick, but ages men like fine wine. You'll just end up with someone who leaves you when your tits start passing your belly button, cause yes guys have standards too. And those of us with chocolate money cocks definitely have them. Btw, its about the age of 30 when that shit happens if not sooner for.some of you niggas. Sp start strapping them titties down right now cause that dont leave much time for finding a lifelong baby daddy. so odds are you'll die a lonely cat woman cause you wanted to wait for someone that won't choose you in the end
>>22764437 >Learn how to stop expecting prince charming with chocolate money dicks, and accept reality. >And those of us with chocolate money cocks definitely have them. ... >that cringey rant clearly made by someone who cant get hot girls >having desirable traits choose one and only one
>>22764466 Hey cunt. Some advice, you dont gotta give your opinion on every little thing. Your opinion isn't that important. Just makes you sound like a mom who won't stop criticizing shit. Guys dont want to fuck there mom, well the normal ones don't. So I guess there's still a chance for you
Secret to 90% of men: Food/beverage, you aint gotta bring be a maid but once in awhile bring us a cup of our favorite drink and make dinner from time to time. >inb4 triggers Make us feel needed Come to bed naked once in awhile and maybe touch our winky
>>22765316 >Food/beverage, you aint gotta bring be a maid but once in awhile bring us a cup of our favorite drink and make dinner from time to time. this goes both ways though. in a lot of relationships the guy will buy the food rather than make it, but still, food is a shortcut to almost anyone's heart.
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