Don't say "trying", say working towards. That top right pic also makes you look like stephen hawking, but in the retarded way unfortunately...sorry if that sounds harsh but we're trying to replicate the minds of females with a lot of options to sort through
>Get match >Message girl about her interest >No response >She posts "moment of food and I liked >I post "moment" of food and she likes Should I try to message her one more time? I really wanna talk to her, but dont wanna seem lame or desperate.
>>21554724 >pic with kids >pic with family Can confirm for positive effects, my brother uses this tactic. First picture of him is of him holding a an adorable girl he knew doing community theater, then one of him and a fuck ton of friends. Nigga is rolling in them likes, also explore the description box, apparently bitches read those.
>>21555911 It sounds dumb but "hello, I hope you are having a nice day :)" works well as an opening line, its non threatening and they can make no assumptions about you on it, its got the highest reply rate of any opening message I've used, even more than ones where I analyzed their pics and bio's and specifically tailored the message for them
>>21556341 Ireland fag? Im from Clare, currently in college in Limerick, well Im working in the Netherlands now on a work placement lol. Limerick girls are not like that they are so much easier, one tinder session in limerick I had matched with 6 people in 1 day of being there (first time using tinder in ireland) here in the Netherlands I have 6 after 3 months (and the Irish girls I matched with were all hotter)
>>21556541 Minuscule odds I must say and they sound just like the Dutch girls here haha, they are the same on nights out too, they'd shift the face off you and grind there ass against your dick, let you feel them up anywhere and ask for your number and facebook, but sex? oh no they'd never do that, I have no idea what's wrong with them, it's as if they wont accept anything less than a 9/10 guy
>>21556604 You could say just that? Maybe say, you're not good with online conversations, would you like to meet up? Maybe that's too forward.
>>21556541 >and if they respond it's probably "hahaha omg lol"
Ugh, that's the worst. Ask them a question or give them a really open ended question to start the ball rolling. >Yeah, it's great!
Funnily enough the only girl I've actually got a number for and am meeting is one that I was just messaging with stupid ass stuff out of boredom. I thought for sure she was just tooling around with me so I did the same back, now I've got her number and she wants to meet for coffee.
>>21553100 Your picture looks boring, make the one with shades your main. No one cares where you work unless you offer free burritos, say where you go to school and what your major is >>21554363 Your main is awful, get s better picture where you look more put together. Actually put something witty. Some deep quote or something that's obscure or mysterious, girls love that shit. >>21554513 Add a picture that doesn't look like a mug shot, smile or something, it's more pleasant. Take out the "amazing I know"
Strangely enough, I met up with a Dutch girl on Tinder who was in Ireland for two weeks before Christmas!
We literally did everything you said, the date lasted around 10 hours no joke it was so fun, shifted the face off her, went to a pub and club, the night ended around 5am and we went back to my hotel where I had a private room, we get to the door and she's like "I gotta go, goodnight!" whaaaat, she said she'd she'd come back to my room next time she's in Ireland...yeah right!
Pretty successful at tinder, but there's always room for improvement. I'm currently sitting at 256 matches and however many I deleted because of landwhales, fakes, and crazy. I've had about 45 or so dates and hookups. Here to take advice and give it where I can.
>>21557223 I've been off and on tinder for a little over a year. I'll be on it for a few weeks, delete it for a few months, repeat. So some of that was before you had to pay. I was more picky then, but now I swipe right for everything. The $10 a month is nothing for the results. And I'm definitely not getting any dates with girls less than 7/10.
New to Tinder. Set up a profile but I'm not happy with my Facebook pictures. Other than selfies I don't have many flattering pics, so I'm working on that, actually taking pics when I go out with friends. But until then I have no idea what to put in the about me. Don't want to leave it blank and I feel like any witty comment would sound forced and lame coming from me. Don't go to college. Just work, play vidya, music, drink and do weird shit. I think I'm a pretty interesting person, I just don't convey that in 500 characters of text.
>>21557298 I think there is a bad image of people who major in computer science, but I also live in Seattle which is a huge city for computers. I'm also a bartender which a lot of girls have commented to be fun. In most cases I wouldn't have put it, but I'm taking into account the types of people I want to attract and other factors. I switch from third and first all the time. Currently experiencing with other pictures as well.
>>21557331 >bad image I have glasses lol I wear them at least 90% of the time, but I only have them on for like half my pictures >Seattle Dude, I'm so jealous of the west coast. I'm gonna shoot hard to get an internship with Amazon (and Google, but that won't happen) to see what it's like over there. I'm in Ohio. Fuck Ohio. >taking into account the types of people I want to attract Ha. You do have a lot of options, it seems. I hadn't even considered that there are guys that would intentional alienate a portion of the girls that cross their accounts.
Good choice with the beard. I'm 19, and I think a beard would really help on my profile. I think all you're missing is a picture with a kitten. You could visit an animal shelter, Petsmart or something without adopting one to get that.
>>21557377 Just hooked up with a girl from Akron who was on spring break. Feel kinda bad about her having a boyfriend, but shit happens. Amazon has a great intern program. I'm shooting for Google, too. I know what I like and I know what type of people to avoid. No reason to settle even if it's tinder.
Beard definitely gave me a lot more matches. I had a picture with one of my German Shepherds which got attention. I need to retake it, thought I looked too young.
>>21557445 >thought I looked too young just put it like as 2nd or something. That way, they'll know that it's a much younger picture of you immediately when they get to it.
You know how chicks like that stupid eyecatching "deep" quote crap in the bios? The first picture can also work as an eyecatcher as well. I once saw a picture of a dude riding an ostrich backwards with a bio saying "What's on the inside doesn't get you free drinks" Most brilliant shit I've ever seen. However, you get enough girls that you still want to filter some out by showing who you really are: an intelligent dude that doesn't want to "amuse" some vapid whore. Idea: first picture is that 3rd picture you had since it seemed the most eyecatching, 2nd picture with the dog, follow with the stuff that is who you are. Don't change the text whatsoever; there's computer science in the first sentence.
When did the chick from Akron bring up her boyfriend? Also, don't start a long term relationship with a girl cheating on her current boyfriend; she'll do the same shit to you. That's probably old news, but it's a well said piece of advice that I've heard. That does suck to kind of enable someone cheat on their boyfriend... It'd be cool if you told him afterwards or something, but as long as you have never cheated on your own girlfriend, I feel that you are probably still a pretty cool guy.
>>21557534 Does her bio mention a kik, snapchat, instagram, or other kind of account? If so, you may want to hit her up there? Otherwise, yeah, I get that shit too. I feel like just hitting them up every 2 or 3 days until they tell me to fuck off
>>21557537 I plan on taking another one with the beard. It'll probably get better reception.
I wish I had a picture of me doing something so awesome. I've learned that funny bios work really well. I mess with the bio all the time. Had this one up for three days, it's going well.
I'm not really looking for a girlfriend. I mean, if it happens it happens. Just got out of a relationship and I need some new sex in my life. She told me after. I'm not getting involved. I don't know that guy, it's none of my business. If she brings it up to him then cool. But I'm not going to butt into this dudes, possibly, perfectly happy relationship just to tell him that I fucked his gf. I wouldn't ever cheat, been tempted, but that's just when I'd run to my gf. However, now that I don't have a gf, I can easily succumb to temptation without guilt.
>>21557570 I'm not as familiar with tinder, but maybe it's a pride thing like she can't get many matches but she likes to know that people think she's hot. I know there's chicks out there that'll flirt with you for a week or two just for fun -- you are their "amusement" because their life is so vapid. She could be too retarded to notice that she is able to do that. Another possibility is that she is nourished by your tears. Maybe she likes to pretend to be a prude.
All of the possibilities I have thought of bring to mind a pretty solid recommendation: bother her solidly until she does unmatch you. Get a reaction out of her. Perhaps just send a cheesy pic up line like every 1 or 2 days, progressively getting more aggressive in nature?
>>21557580 I've considered posing on a desk with an old CRT monitor that I was given to use as a 2nd monitor where I work (taking a semester off for a co-op). I had a picture of Bill Gates in mind, and I think I look a decent amount like him. I have definitely been compared to him a couple times. But, that would probably be much more fucked up than "doing something awesome."
>funny bios work really well Fuck. Of course they do. I don't do it, but I probably should. They really seem to look for that "personal amusement" element first, then the actual kind of guy you are second. However, I'm sure guys are just as guilty.
>I'm not really looking for a girlfriend. >Just got out of a relationship K. What year are you in college? I get worried about getting a girlfriend before I graduate lol I'm not like a fat neckbeard, but I've been single a while
>She told me after. You have nothing to feel guilty about, but now I'm more clear on what you meant by how you felt bad about it. >I don't know that guy, it's none of my business. >If she brings it up to him then cool. >I'm not going to butt into this dudes, possibly, perfectly happy relationship Good point. I have always thought it would've been the right thing to to, but I doubt I would ever actually do it. >I wouldn't ever cheat Yeah, you're fine man
>>21557634 Raise some hell, anon lol you won't be able to start off going hard, and you probably shouldn't. It's great to speak your true mind to people, but your guts and occasionally conscience can get in the way
>>21557703 Do you get them to at least meet in person?
I heard if you don't meet them in person within a few days, and you go on messaging for like 2 weeks, you're just their entertainment.
How about you entertain them for like 2 days, 3 at most, then get more assertive about meeting up. Emphasis on my choice of the word assertive. Don't get aggressive, but be like if they just show "no interest in meeting up in person" then you have "no choice but to stop messaging them." I guess it's basically a straight up ultimatum: meet up or fuck off because I'm not just here for your amusement (flirting). Some girls are just there because they enjoy the witty flirting. You will threaten to cut this off. No profile changes necessary.
The girl sees no need to message him back, probably because his message makes him come across as someone she doesn't want to talk to. There's nothing vapid about not wanting to both deleting matches. I don't do it either.
Also your suggestions just scream severely desperate
>>21557062 Support is useless and there seems to be no fix for it. The only way around would probably to use a a combination of a new facebook, a new phone number, and an emulator, then maybe you could install it on a phone. I'm having the same problem currently and I feel like tearing my hair out because I just want to get laid :(
My pet peeve: Women with kids who are trolling for husband material. I just want to fuck you, and you obviously put out and maker poor decisions with men, so why can't we just have fun without me having to be some savior to your kids?
My pictures all look blurry as fuck fuck(and they are taken 2012-2013) but still gettin tons of matches. Weird as fuck
But one tip reset your tinder and do a bio! Also I have found out that putting music genres you like is a good option.
Currently have House/hardstyle and alot of chicks seems to comment on that.
Also the number of matches you have/get dosent really matter I would say 1/10 is a hookup after some chatting in my experience.
Oh one more tip or my method actually
Match on monday-wendsday>immeadeatly start chatting>flirt a little not too much but not too little either otherwise it will stall> get number or get asked number after maybe 30min-4h tinder chattin say something like "tinder is laggy as fuck and I really really really really really really really like talking to you (that shitty pop song reference just as an example)> talk with girl in whatsapp> bring up meeting on wendsday-thursday> ask girl to your place for movie maybe dinner and drinks too>repeat next week or if you like her stick with it
>>21559075 Would not really comment on their body before maybe wendsday-thurday also becouse it might seem to them like your a creep or only interested in sex.
You should comment on their face, also look for anything out of the norm on her face and focus on that. One girl had beautiful big blue eyes and i just focused on them. Like; Your very beautiful but your eyes make you perfect etc.
Also when talking to girls dont use profanity if she does not use it and try to talk about common interests. Its okay to talk to here like a guy but you just got to be more "careful".
Can you give some examples on how you would talk to them and maybe I can help give some pointers
Also when giving a compliment change the subject after that or otherwise it might stall a bit also use smileys as much as she does. Basically try to mirror the girl in texting with length of messages/smileys/profanity
Me: You look amazing like wow! :O Her: Aaw thanks <3 Me: :) Me: Hey tell me about (hobby) it seems really interesting? :)
>>21559320 Yeah that's better than your previous one, >>21559068 You just need more pictures dude they seem fine to me, also make your main pic only of you >>21558518 Take pictures a but further away from your face also some group pics with a friend or friends should be added
>>21559697 >>21558916 I would say remove the shirtless picture. I mean you don't look bad but from what I've been told by girls having mirror shirtless pictures is a no-go. Beach photos taken by someone else is okay. Also imo the guitar pic should go first.
>>21559708 Yeah I've heard mixed things about the shirtless pic, my ex says I should definitely have it up, but also I've read that most women say don't put one up but that the results always beg to differ
I amnt even searching for a relationship seeming as Ive actually already found my gf there but I keep doing it for my self-esteem. Anything I should change? >>21559626 Hory shet you look justl ike the guy from LAHWF >>21559320 You have very unflattering pics, try taking them a little more from the top and making sure your stuff is on point. It doesnt really matter if you always look like that but the point is that most people that swipe right do it based on your best - not your average. >>21559225 What kind of a fucking one-liner is that? >>21559219 No >>21558916 Your second pic looks kinda WT and the third just screams "loner" but it doesnt look too bad really >>21558518 First pic; Rapist Second pic; High as fuck Third pic; Priggish Change up the pics >>21558481 In your fourth pic you look like you are 11 and you always look very douchey.
>>21559819 Hory shet I havent even thought about it before. Id hope, I also want a cerberus. >>21559824 Ive never seen a single person cosplay the Joker without being a little fucked in the head themselves. Dont take it personal, its just my opinion and thought. >>21559830 The fourth and second sure but the fifth Ive found is kind of needed to show that I can kind of smile.
>>21560056 Oh its not a cosplay it was a Halloween drug party lol, everyone was dressed up, joker was just cheap and easy
Yeah leave in the fifth if you want to show smiles but I've heard men that don't smile get way more reaponses, definitely remove the fourth and second though or take a new one from a different angle or something like looking away
No idea what to do here, I think my general 'sitgma' puts girls off, I look like a general long haired rocker guy and off course most girls aren't into that shit. I literally swipe right to all girls now and sift through the shit later ... but there is nothing to go through, I hardly get ANY matches... like ... 1-2 a week at most...
>>21562892 Cut your hair, get rid of the ridiculous 90's german dj facial hair, and stop dressing like you're a rockstar, you're not. Mentioning that you're tattooed and pierced is just further proving that you're trying way too hard. Or don't do any of that and go meet your dream girl at an all ages show or hot topic
Wow guys, srs, I thought /soc/ are usually cool guys. For the record, I do not think I'm a rockstar, I'm just a guy that has long hair and dresses that way (Apart from the picture where I look like the village people, that was an old job I used to work at a bar on a theme night). As I said before - I get that girls on Tinder are usually pretty standard girls who like pretty standard guys, and I'm obv an alt guy that most girls aren't into.
>>21563617 Mate, I fucking hate glam, I hate old fuckers who won't shut the hell up about how bands from the 80's were better and shit. It's wank and over and they need to deal with that shit and get with the times.
I'm going to take all your 'kind' words as 'don't look like a dirty fucking rocker'
>>21563602 You misread my post: >You look like a Christian Rocker. Okay, well you do.
>Do you really get laid with Tinder? I'm 28... man I wish this was around when I was 19. I didn't mean "do YOU really get laid" as if I was incredulous, I meant this in a general sense. Do you (or people in general who use tinder) get laid using this? Or does it just end in small talk? I'm genuinely curious.
>be me >horrible self-esteem >go on tinder >have a program swipe right automatically >fucking shit ton of hits - didn't expect it at all >literally end up spending hours debating to un-match chicks depending on how attractive they are
>haven't messaged anybody because of bad anxiety
>freak out when I get messaged >un-match at the speed of light if it's an ugly chick
>tfw I use tinder only as an ego boost, literally just to see which chicks swiped right to me that day
How doe's this look? the main is the best pic of me since I'm dressed out an dout somewhere fancy. My gf is next to me though and while shes ok with me fooling around with other girls and want's to join in one day i wonder if it might turn off matches. I'm worried i look too stiff though
As for the other pics, me with a cupcake as the photo came out really weirdly and i think its funny, me on holiday and me playing minigolf.
>>21565285 maybe put a picture with your face showing as your main. take out the fuckboy part. of course a fuckboy would immediately deny himself while not knowing what a fuckboy is. >>21565277 i would immediately swipe left because of your bio, but at least you're being honest about what you're looking for. you'd have to be an 11/10 to pull that off, for me at least. have you been getting matches? you look sweaty and greasy in your main, try to find a better one. >>21564885 you're cute! maybe put in two more pictures if you have good ones, your bio is decent.
>>21565898 Thanks! Unfortunately I do, yet I don't. The other pics I could use are from the same dates with respect to what the pic is. It would be a bit weird to have multiple pics from the same place, no? I seldom take pictures, despite my friend's protests. I don't know why. I'll have to start, to get them off my back, haha.
Yeah im a commited relationship so i want to make it perfecrly clear all i want is bjs ans possibly sex not love or whatever and i have no idea why i look that way i was completey clean and dressed to the nines that night. My hair gets oily fast even if i wash it every day
>>21566184 I really like the profile pic, maybe a photo of you smiling as well? The bio could be expanded a bit more, maybe what kind of music you like, and what do you mean by computers? For work or leisure etc?
>>21566019 You have good photos, I'd maybe just include one that's a full body photo (not a shirtless selfie).
It's tough getting photos when your friends don't take many, I know that feel.
>>21565898 B-but I'm not a fuckboy.. And I feel like now showing my face in my main is what makes people actually go to the other pics and read my bio, but I'll try it out. Don't use Facebook too often so these are the only half decent pics I have, but I'll look for better ones.
>>21564885 Holy shit I know you I've seen your pics on /fa/ You dress like a huge fuccboi. You are like a huge fashion victim in all of your pics. >dadcore on a twink >hitlier Youth >dem sunglasses >red chinos.
>>21566406 Also, I enjoy dressing prep, so until that changes, fuck off. Sunglasses are cheapo I know, but meh. They look cool enough. Also in the process of growing out my hair, and I FUCKING LOVE MY RED PANTS.
>>21566375 saying it in your bio though makes you sound like one. make a new album and set it so that only you can see it. then you can upload whatever pictures you want to use on tinder w/o people seeing. >>21566187 one on the left. both of the photos of you in front of the lamp are pretty odd. i'm imaging you set up a tripod and put a timer on to take them. alternately, use the axe picture as your main. >>21566184 maybe your game's shit, i dunno. do you usually message first? >>21566019 looks good to me and yeah it's weird that you have four pictures that are basically the same thing but at least you're attractive.
>>21566539 yeah obviously, why would you make that your bio? it makes you look like a cunt. and why would you capitalize cunt? write something about yourself. find a better picture to use as your main or at least figure out how to take a decent selfie. hold the phone at eye level so you aren't looking down, try to not look depressed.
>>21566606 keeping one would've been alright but these photos are all good too. it's important to show off your axe throwing ability, imo.
also, tinder has stopped notifying me of new messages when i don't have the app open, and i get no new match notifications ever. even if i swipe right and match someone right then, it doesn't tell me, they just show up in my match list the next time i check. should i remove and redownload the app? will doing that delete all of my matches?
>>21566825 First thought is maybe keep one tattoo if you want, keep the other to show if they ask? Might be a good conversation opener. The pics of your face are a little blurry, probably can't be helped if they are taken at night though. Sick beard and mo' though :D
>>21566860 Good idea about the tatts. Yeah they were all night/club pics. Pretty much all other good pics didn't have a beard so didn't want them. Cheers duds, over the past 6 months it's really grown on me.......(ﾟヮﾟ)
what do you guys think? Throwing myself out there, will this pay off? And before you ask we've exchanged some messages already over the course of like 2 days. Just small talk about dreams and catholic school mostly
>>21567134 It's up to you and how you feel about it. How long have you been going out? About five weeks? That's when I breached the topic with my last girlfriend. It went down really well. If you feel it's the right time, by all means go for it!
>>21567086 Aw shit same here m8. I used to get a shitload of girls to swipe but now it's almost nothing and that goes for a populated area. And even after forcing tinder to show me matches and swiping girls I got ZERO matches today (after resetting my account) while I normally get at least 9 a day.
Could be something fucking up on their servers I hope.
>>21567556 >>21567547 Well i'm very new to it, but last couple of days I just straight up stopped getting any matches, whereas before I was getting at least one a day (light use). Today I even used up all my likes (first time it ever happened) with zero matches. Could be a server thing? Maybe just bad luck
I've been on Tinder for a little under a month now and already have 95 matches with some super QTs, which is great because apparently I'm not as terrible looking as I always thought I was (and I only have two pics up), but I feel like such an awkward inexperienced goof because I haven't the fucking slightest where to begin conversing or what to say; what little bit of message have been sent have had no sexual tones or attempts at me being forward because I feel awkward as shit and constantly overthink what I should say since I don't want to come off as too forward/creepy.
Should I just stop being an idiot and ask every single one of them whats up and say random stupid shit based on their profiles? How soon do you try and go for a number or something? god nothing has ever made me feel more like I may have some aspects of aspergers than this..
>>21568930 What are you saying? I am asking stupid questions formed around their bios and have had basic convos/brief exchange of messages, but I suck at showing attraction or pushing forward without being awkward atm, so I haven't gone farther than basic laughs and hey whatsup type shit
>>21569533 Uhh, I don't think so. The best lines have hooks in the first message. The first response is the big hurdle in going from match to date. Your first message is just dull and the pay off is whatever.
>>21570238 >whole thread of people asking "how do I talk to these girls?"/"what do I say to start conversation?" >give a line that works for me irl and how to adapt it >"uhh it's dull" >point out exactly what I meant >"durr you try it then"
>>21570343 from the other thread's OP >Thread consensus is that your bio should be limited but include your height if you are taller than 5'10" but not if you're the jolly green giant. Also include your occupation and anything BRIEF that is interesting like a hobby (sailing or something similarly cool). Keep it short and cut the fucking bullshit. Two lines or bust. >>21570376 your profile is pretty solid.
When is it too late to message someone? I've got a good range of matches but I still haven't messaged any (pussy I know, had a bad breakup last time so I sorta don't wanna go through all the hassle just for it all to go to shit sort of thing, that and being a pussy when it comes to social media)
>>21572169 I personally like you last photo with your tongue out the best, I would put that as my main. But that might just be me. Makes you look fun and stands out from all the other girls on Tinder a bit, it also matches your profile of being fun and quirky.
>>21572558 >What do you say in these situations? Just copy/pasta lines like the koala/bf+gf ones? this is it a to a tee. occasionally I'll just do whatever. this seemed to work last night. you might try it, but it obviously has to be used immediately after they match you. >>21572569 I don't know, man. simple smiles are the best expressions.
>>21572169 Christ, this is tragic! You need some more pics of you with friends and/or doing interesting things. Go do a bungee jump / hike up a mountain, etc. You're relying on the fact you're hot, so whilst most of us would swipe right anyway, you need some more personality & fun in your Tinder life! If you haven't noticed, I'm not the type to sugar coat this shit so at least from me you get some decent feedback. Reply if you need me to elaborate further
>>21572169 default the one with your tongue out, get rid of the top right, less makeup in general
>>21572498 >>21572534 I'd drop the top right, you look like a little kid with lip gloss on in it, take out "Height" and just put the numbers
>>21572959 not bad, but you'd benefit from pictures in a group setting
>>21573008 for the love of god get rid of that bottom middle right now. You look like a doofus.
As a general piece of advice to dudes in general, have some pics (preferably your default) not looking into the camera. If you have light eyes, face a window with sunlight coming through it and stare out the window instead of the camera when you snap the pic. It'll bring out a ton of color in your eyes.
Since the fucking OP didn't do it, I shall carry this torch. old thread at: >>21512226 Tinder General: Redeemed Pasta Edition
If you want your profile rated, post in edit mode. Remember that your profile is extremely important, especially your primary picture. It should grab attention when in a stack of other primary pictures.
Thread consensus is that your bio should be limited but include your height if you are taller than 5'10" but not if you're the jolly green giant. Also include your occupation and anything BRIEF that is interesting like a hobby (sailing or something similarly cool). Keep it short and cut the fucking bullshit. Two lines or bust.
Always be closing. Get her number and a date as soon as possible. Dawdling can kill your conversational reserves and torpedo you when it comes time to take her.
The opening message is also incredibly important. Cute pick up lines can work wonders, but only use lesser known ones. When a girl matches you (instead of you hitting yes and getting the notification) you can guarantee that she's actively swiping other men too and getting bombarded with matches. Your opening message is the key to surviving this stage of the event. You need to get her to respond. After that, talk to her about things you can gleam from her profile. Always ask lots of questions and close as quickly as you can.
If it's a bot, you'll know by her messages. Stop asking.
If you have any suggestions for the OP pasta, please post them in the thread. If you make the next thread yourself please include this pasta.
>>21579627 I rarely unmatch, but I've never listed my height. I'm 6' so it's never really been an issue. If you think being tall is an asset then I'd put it down, most girls I know would think it's douchey.
I've also found that mixing in the occasional basic tinder moment like"late night netflix" with a picture of your tv does wonders for getting girls to talk to you, because if they like your moment you know they're interested.
>>21579708 Honestly, tinder moments have kinda restarted tinder for me. I just keep girls on because you never know when they'll post a slutty moment themselves or the moment you post can restart conversations you've forgotten about or got stalled on.
Pretty much if you think something couple be seen as making you a douche bag I'd avoid it. So no shirtless pictures, car pictures or anything like that. Find a puppy, puppies are a gold mine on tinder
>>21579788 >>21579756 I disagree, a female messaging first would actually pique my interest much, much more. Especially if it's a good message rather than 'Hey'. When a female messages first I always respond, unless it's someone I really don't like or have absolutley nothing in common/no attraction.
>>21579985 No, it should be completely anonymous. I've been using it a week and it hasn't had any affect, and I've known friends who have used it for months and I'd never have known unless they told me.
If you're really concerned you can make a fake facebook, but I don't think it's necessary.
>>21557064 had that problem yesterday and today it worked. I got it by entering an additional number to the end of the phone number. The example I saw on reddit wasif your number is 456-1237 then type 456-12377 but when I repeated the last digit of my phone number it didnt work. today I added a different last number to the end 456-12375 and it worked. idk bro goodluck just know there is light at the end of this particular tunnel
>>21580084 Basically the Tinder App just looks at your interests (liked pages basically) so if someone has a matching interest it'll say so. EG: If a girl likes Seinfeld and you also like Seinfeld it'll mention that with her photo (Shared Interests: Seinfeld).
You still write the bio independently from Facebook.
Photos can only be photos that are on Facebook, but I just made a private Album that only I can see for my Tinder pics, in case there were any that I didn't want to share with friends. Nothing obscene, but I had to crop some friends out or better crop the picture to get my face etc, so I just did that then dumped them all into one private album for ease of access.
>>21580150 You choose who you want to show your photo to. So if you're gay you can say you're male and only want to show photos to other males or vica versa. I think it's got filters for 'males looking for males' too, but I can't remember.
>>21580491 why are you horizontal in every picture? Obviously you're hot af so everyone would swipe right but this is pretty much 4 of the same picture, all of which you have the smug pepe face going (especially 2). Also, I read "bored" as a code word for definitely want to hook up. So if that is what you are trying to convey then it is working extremely well.
>>21580491 >What do guys like girls to have in their bio? tits
Also, you have the same fucking pose three times (the main and bottom right look literally identical minus the shirt colour). Makes you look like you're trying too hard and vainly cherry-picking what angles people see you. Switch it up.
FWIW, I'd swipe you away instantly. Seems like a garden variety bitchface.
>>21580537 Then put your hobbies in there and personalize it. Do you watch sports, do you read, do you like art, like to go dancing.. anything like that. Anytime a girl has ever texted me "I'm bored.." it has had sexual connotations and I assume most guys have had the same experience. I read it as a code word at this point.
>>21580545 those selfies are shitty. Work out to improve facial definition, get better glasses, get a better haircut (what is the shortest you've had it? Try and get to a point where you can lose the jew fro), don't post any pictures with your braces showing. If you still have braces then just weight a few years until you don't have them and try again.
>>21580545 >Sucks to look young on this shit. It's even suckier to be ugly. *ahem*
>"electrical engineering student at UnB" (its impressive) >its impressive LEL. It's really not. Engineers are already widely regarded as nerdy boring manlets, which is largely true. You aren't defying stereotypes, even if you tip your fedora in the mirror at your STEMly godliness every morning.
>>21580592 K well then absolutey take out any pictures with braces in them as I 1000% guarentee they put you in instant swipe left territory. Also you shouldn't be taking your own pictures. Get your friend to do it for you, with your sharpest looking clothes new haircut etc. If you have to ask some rando on campus to take a picture of you by a campus landmark or something. Get your mom to take a picture of you in front of something scenic next time you visit your family. You might not be blessed with aesthetics but you are shooting yourself in the foot here
" if you go outside the amount of attractive people on the streets will increase by a significant 1 "
>>21580700 no major comment, i just suggest you change your glasses to something more plastic and squarer. based on personal anecdotes i find the hipstery type glasses look most attractive.
>>21580545 main picture too close & blurry + same advice as above.
>>21580491 not all guys are good with chatting up girls with nothing at all to build a conversation from. some little info about you / what you like , is very helpful to get us started. picture-wise you're on point.
>>21579674 you ruined it with the fuckfaces you got.
i do get a fairly decent amount of matches and i'm quite good with chatting them up, they tend to not reply very often in the middle of a good chat sadly. though very few of them turned into dates, any tips for me?
>>21580854 You look hot but it might just be camera angles, take some different pictures and put them up, pretty much what >>21580550 said Right now it just looks like you want to hook up, by your pictures and bio
ADVICE NEEDED /SOC/TINDER/ BROS. Just hit my first match that I would really like to get with. How do I break the ice and get things rolling?? I have age on my side (I'm 21, she's 18) So i figure it shouldn't be too hard but my game is pretty rusty atm, any tips? If it helps, she seems like the tatted, pierced, artsy, stoner type.
>>21583726 Nigga, it doesn't have to be true. Unless you have her name tattooed on your chest you'll be fine. Also, lines like that are what everyone hits girls with; the idea is to do something to stand out.
I got this app yesterday. Im not an ugly guy im quite average looking, but a good physique. I must of pressed yes on 75% of girls and 0 matches. Is this because im new so one has seen my profile hardly?