DIAPER FETISH THREAD

God damn. People are weird af. Have they no sense of shame?

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>>39560197
What are you going to wear for tonight?

>>39560238
I wish I knew

>>39560227
>>39560238
Cant help it, had this fucking fetish since i was a kid. Id definitly get rid of it in a second if i could. Its basically ruined my sex life

>>39560583
Im staying at my sisters at the moment so unfortantly i cant, i wish i could, its been too long

Diaper fetishist here. I hate myself and want to die, but at least I will always be able to orgasm to diaper porn.

I recently got kicked off of fetlife for getting drunk and calling one of the mods on an ABDL fetish group a "dumb nigger cunt" lolo don't care no regrets

>>39560197
I hope you are a cute chick, otherwise... man what. the. fuck.

>>39560761
hey me too. My first memories were diaper related. I used to steal diapers from my next door neighbor's little brother when I was like 5 years old. I had an obsession for diapers long before I ever even had any sexual attraction at all. It caused massive sexual problems throughout school and college and continues to keep me sexually isolated. I tried getting into the community stuff, going to cons/munches and shit but I found I hate other ABDLs so much and I also hate them for reminding me of this horrible fetish

>>39560837
Yeah same here mate, its fucking embarassing and makes me feel like shit about myself.

Cant you just make a new account? And have you ever met with someone from fetlife

>>39560876
Yeah im exactly the same, my ealiest memory is of trying get diapers. It caused me to have really low self confidence through my teen years and has fucked me up sexually too, wish i could just get rid of it but its impossible, its going to be part of me for the rest of my life and it fucking sucks

>>39560876
Surly there was some ok abdls? I havent tried engaging in the community but i was thinking about it one day

>>39560911
This is my second time getting banned, you can easily make another account, I just don't see the benefit. Here's the situation for ABDLs on fetlife: 70% are men right off the bat, which is fine if you just want to meet friends, but obviously not good if you want to meet a sexual partner. 25% are MtF trannies, and if you ever DARE suggest that these trannies are anything other than real women then you will be immediately labeled a bigot. 5% are actual women, and almost entirely this group is made up of narcissistic women who latched on to diaper fetishism because diaper fetishists are pathetic white knights who are desperate for female contact so these 5% become the de facto rulers, mods and leaders of the group on fetlife. The majority of these women were introduced to diapers through boyfriends and they enjoyed the control they held over pathetic diaperfags so much that they decided to utilize it for their own advantage. In my two different accounts I only met one real diaper fetishist girl who i truly believed was actually interested in the fetish not as a way to control men but because she was actually interested in diapers, but even she had a fucking paysite that diaperfags would give her money to take pictures in diapers for, so even her I have to be skeptical around.

And if you ever DARE suggest that women don't make up 50% of diaper fetishists, or that the reason for so few ABDL women is anything except the rampant sexism and pestering of ABDL men, then you will be banned and blacklisted as a bigot.

Fetlife is like tumblr except even worse. Good luck to you if you want to try it but I've never met anyone from that site that I would actually ever want to meet

>>39560997
I met a few good ABDLs over on /lgbt/ actually, they often will have a fetish thread and they even used to have pretty active ABDL threads. Other than that I would say the meet-up thread over on 8ch would be worth your time if you're interested in meeting up with people. In my experience fetlife was a complete waste of time (see above) but maybe it will work for you

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My boyfriend is into this and I really want to spoil him rotten, how do I go about that? What is the main focus or interest in? I feel like he doesn't explain it to me well enough but I want to understand so I can get into it better instead of feeling so blind and dumb...can anyone share why they like this and what they want from this? I don't care if it's just fantasies you're typing out I just want to understand better

>>39561212
>why they like this
I wish I knew. It's like asking a straight person why they like vagina or a foot fetishist why they like feet. They just do.
>what they want from this
having a gf put me in a diaper, feed me a bottle, tie a bib around me, and change my diaper and maybe jerk me off would be ideal

If you really want to indulge with him then i would buy him some high quality ABDL diapers, like ABUniverse, Bambino, etc. I recommend the Preschools by ABU

>>39561212
It can be hard to explain. It's a bit of wearing something not normal with the option to pee whenever I want.
If I had a diaper partner, I'd like for us to change eachother so maybe you could try that.
Get some thick expensive abdl diapers like ABU for you both to wear with no trousers on.

>>39561212
Its great to see someone whos so accepting. Now im not sure why your boyfriends into diapers as it seems to be different for alot of abdls. Does he just like diapers or is he a adult baby aswell

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I wear mine mostly as an aid to regression but I'm not against those who see it as sexual. I've met a few people into it. Most seem nice enough. A couple of mild autismos but on the whole normal fairly attractive people with decent jobs and education.

Superior fetish though? No. It's a weird one and it won't ever be fully accepted or understood. Not that it has to be though. It's no harm to anyone what goes on behind closed doors

>>39561048
Thing about fetlife is to integrate yourself in your local community. This is such a personal thing I find it's better to get to know people the normal way instead of being another creep in a flood of creeps online

>>39561426
The problem is that almost no women are into the fetish. The majority of people who are into it are normal but there is a tremendous gender imbalance, so it's mostly men, a large number of whom are gay or bisexual and the rest generally have unfulfilling and even defective sex lives because of it. I had a girlfriend in high school that I had a very unfulfilling sexual relationship with because even though I really did love her I wasn't as attracted to her as if diapers were involved and I suffered from ED often when trying to engage in vanilla sex with her.

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>>39561511
>The majority of people who are into it are normal
>diaper fetishism
>normal

>>39561212

It's a cross between humiliation and submission. If you want to make it interesting for him then throw in a little BDSM and crossdressing. Even if he isn't into it he will still get off due to being 'forced'.
Another way of keeping it interesting is just putting him in diapers and locking him in bondage for a few hours when you need some time alone. This way you can do your own shit while still spoiling him. Just don't lock anything around his neck if you are going to leave him alone in bondage.

>>39561511
I know at least 6. Obviously women are more in demand in any circle. That goes without saying. And whiney robots aren't going to be anyone's first choice

>>39561478
I tried meeting people in my local community and I had nothing in common with them and none of them held a sexual attraction for me (bifag). Maybe it will work for people in bigger cities but I just don't like my local scene. Also I hate myself for this fetish so I don't think being surrounded by people wearing diapers and drinking from bottles and acting like babies is going to ever be something I actually want to do.
>>39561561
Then you're in a very rare circle. I have attended major cons without seeing any women. And I don't give a shit about being anyone's first choice, ABDL women simply do not exist with anywhere near the regularity of men, meaning they become prized commodities and they know it. That's why every ABDL woman I've ever met has a paysite.

I use to lactate for ex-bf and still have the ability to lactate. Would these people pay me to lactate for them. I honestly would love breast feeding people. I feels good when you start getting a good flow. Also, if I went to diaper parties I would love the attention. Also would any of you buy my milk online?

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>>39561324
So far we both bought onesies and we cuddle up and watch movies in them with our pullups on together, those ideas seem to help. I guess I'm just not use to thinking about it like that
>>39561351
This was helpful and cute, I think I would like to tug up some cute diapers on him and ruffle his head
>>39561380
I have no idea? He just keeps telling me he finds them cute but he won't go into detail what he finds cute or anything and I really just want to know, I guess I'll ask more
>>39561555
I don't know if I could ever humiliate a man, every guy is so much taller than me and I can't really feel dominant for that reason lol but I do like the thought of it. Why does being feminine mean I have to be weak too

>>39561622
Already as a woman who wears. Although more of a little. You are giving off massive red flags. My community is tiny, started by an abdl girl youtuber. and has only had a handful of meets. There's loads of girls who wear and as a fellow little plenty have reached out to me. what about you is so special they're going to pick you out of thousands of messages? No reason for being bitter over simple facts

>>39561729
I wouldn't buy milk online but I would pay you to breastfeed me.

>>39560761
I think your fetish is deeply rooted in you being diddled as a baby/toddler. People develop fetishes out of traumatic events in life.

>>39561749
I have never sent any ABDL girl a message in my life, I am stating that from an objective standpoint women are a tiny, tiny, tiny minority of the fetish. That is obvious from any rational viewpoint looking into the community. You don't have facts, you have a small sample size and you are projecting that to the community as a whole. There are almost no fetishes that aren't dominated by men, and ABDLs are perhaps the most male-female unbalanced. And in my experience the ABDL women I've met generally are introduced to the fetish through either boyfriends or through BDSM community, and did not grow up obsessing over diapers like the vast majority of ABDL men I have met. Does that make them a 'real ABDL"? I don't know, but it certainly means their approach to ABDL shit is different than mine.

Maybe the reason ABDL guys are so "bitter" is because they have to live a lifetime of having this fetish as their primary sexual outlet and there are almost no women willing to indulge them in the fetish. This isn't just some passing fancy for them or a comforting way to relieve stress, this is how they achieve orgasm and there is no one to do it with.

>>39561872
As I said women are obviously more in demand in every circle. ones with a niche fetish even more, but the fact is there's a lot of people in this world. It's probably more your robot status and attitude preventing anything.

And yeah. None of the abdl guys I know in real life seem bitter. That's a robot trait.

>>39561729
Not my cup of tea, but im pretty sure theres a fetish for that too, i guess it depends where you live and how many people interested in that there would be around you. Id say your average adult baby wouldnt be interested unless you went the whole way and babied them and diapered them as well

>>39561926
This was the argument I always got from fetlife: the reason you don't see women at ABDL events is not because women don't go to ABDL events, it's because you're a bitter misogynist.

Just seriously fuck off. I have never harassed a woman, I have never even tried to meet an ABDl women, I am stating from a purely objective standpoint that women in the ABDL community are extremely rare as well as generally not primarily sexually attracted to diapers, which almost all ABDL men are. You say you're in a group with ABDL women, do you honestly think these women stole diapers from their siblings growing up? Do you honestly think they masturbated to Pampers ads in the newspaper when they turned 12? Do you honestly think they drove 40 miles to another town to buy adult diapers when they got their first car? I don't think it's bitterness to say that ABDL is almost entirely dominated by men and that ABDL women don't have the same sexual compulsions that draw them to the fetish as ABDL men.

>>39561730
Well i think if he says he finds them cute and wears onsies he is definitly an adult baby and would enjoy you treating him like one, hes probably just too embarrassed to say and is afraid you will lose respect for him as a man if he get dressed up in a cute diaper and cuddles with plushies. Youd have to ask him though, everyones different

>>39562013
I would just want to lactate. I could never deal with changing an adult diaper. However, the thought of being a moo cow always been exciting for me. Always dreamed of going to a party and let random people drink my milk.

>>39562014
Jesus Christ you sound mental. Can't imagine letting a fetish rule my emotions and life so much.

Probably why I ended up with a girl chill with indulging me. Which by the way is probably the best many can hope for in this fetish. Especially if youre a robot with an already small pool of potential options. But anyone on your level about something that's pure harmless fun needs therapy in my opinion.

>>39562078
I had a girl that indulged me in college. She would diaper me and everything, but that's just it, she was indulging me, she wasn't a diaper fetishist.
>But anyone on your level about something that's pure harmless fun needs therapy in my opinion
That's where we differ then, because this isn't "pure harmless fun" for me - this is my primary sexual interest and has been long before I ever had any sexuality at all. So yeah, excuse me for having it be a big part of my life and hanging my emotions on it, like just about every other person in the world does with their sexuality. And what makes you think I'm not in therapy? I know I'm fucked up. I know I hate myself for this fetish. i'm trying to get help but nothing is ever going to change it.

>>39562014
I totally agree with you mate, ive only dipped my toe in the comunity and it does seem totally dominated my men, the few women became interested through other fetishes like Dd,Lg etc. Where as we have been this way our whole life and it is much more pronounced, just like how men are more sexual than most women

>>39562124
>doesn't even try to pursue girls online
>complains no gf

Classic robots. Plenty of people get diaper girlfriends even in a male dominated field. You're just lacking yourself clearly. Thats nobodies fault.

Suppose they only want diaperchads then?

>>39562078
True, it sucks and we are fucked up. We cant help it though, its deeply ingrained unfortantly. Ive tried giving this fetish up so many time but it is apart of who i am as a person. Its not just sexual for me
>>39562124
Im in the same fucked up boat as this guy

>>39562192
Haha, gold

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>>39561212
It's probably best to talk with him and ask what he's interested in but if you want to surprise him you can't go wrong with some good old fashioned babying.

Get some ABDL diapers online (ABU are good in my experience), get some baby oil or baby powder from a store, and one day surprise him with a diaper change after dinner, dress him in some comfy pajamas or a onesie, then watch some tv together while he rests his head on you. Bonus points if you have a bottle to feed him from.

>I don't know if I could ever humiliate a man, every guy is so much taller than me and I can't really feel dominant for that reason

Being dominant doesn't have to mean being big and strong. You could totally humiliate and dominate them with a kind motherly attitude: talk down to him for being such a baby, giggle at his tiny baby dick whenever you change him, set rules to let him know you're in charge, etc.

Or if you don't think you can really dominate, you could do a role reversal and let him baby you for an evening.

>>39562192
Of course they want diaperchads. Can't blame them. But again the thing with robots is that they clearly just want 7/10s out of their league deep down. Won't actually go for below average attainable girls

>>39562192
Stop making this personal, this isn't about me chasing women, it's an objective viewpoint of the ABDL scene as a whole. If you have taken part in it like I have then you know youre much more likely to encounter an MtF tranny than an actual biological woman

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Can we discuss diaps. Im desperate to try the carousel ones but I'm a britfag. How are They?

Tfw chilling in sleeper

>>39562313
You started talking about your own fee fees m8. No girl is into someone that level of fixated. Let me tell you. I never claimed it wasn't hard. Only that plenty manage fine

>>39562350
Carousel ones? Got a pic

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>>39562409
These literally the most aesthetic looking in my opinion. I find a lot of ab stuff kinda tacky. I know id feel adorable in them but it's not worth even thinking of shipping costs if they don't perform

39562391
Then you don't know many women because I know the pansiest, most beta fucking comic book larping cunts and they are able to get girlfriends. If you think having emotions prevents you from having a chance at a relationship then you're more naive than me. I never said it was impossible but you're the one who came in here pretending that your 6 abdl girl friends represented a plurality between the sexes and I'm telling you flat out that abdl women are exceptionally rare and generally not sexually attracted to the fetish

>>39562449
Oh nice, they do look adorable, going to have to try them out once im living on my own again. It sucks trying to get good diapers here in australia too

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>>39562491
Yeah I tend to go for pullups or tena slips as I can just get them in shops. Not the same as wrinkly puffy abdl though :( usa just seems something of an abdl utopia in comparison

>>39562458
Not pretending shit. Im saying the women exist but they clearly don't want you for obvious reasons

>>39562545
So you're saying they are invisible based off me being a creep despite me literally never onve trying to get an ABDL girlfriend? I literally wouldn't even know where to start, they don't go to cons, they don't go to munches and they barely have any online presence at all. So seriously oh wise one, how do we find this elusive creature known as the ABDL female? And I never said they don't exist I said they are exceptionally rare, do you disagree with that? What is the male-fenale abdl ratio then in your estimation?

>>39562611
Never said shit about them not being comparatively rare because obviously women are rare in any kink circle. But that they clearly do exist and are probably as repelled by you as I am. Thats all. And that if I can meet a bunch in my small town (so small the events run for the entire country and don't attract that many people overall) then they can't be that rare

>>39562531
Im too scared to buy adult diaper in store but i do buy goodnites fairly often and use the self checkout isle, plus i love pull ups that are actually made for kids, makes me feel cute

>>39562715
Used to be the same but nobodies really judging. For all they know you have an incontinent grandma you care for.

But then I've always needed for medical reasons anyway. Just old enough to stop caring if people think I'm a pervert.. But yeah no normal person working a till. Serving their hundredth customer that day is jumping to that conclusion

>>39562687
>Never said shit about them not being comparatively rare
So why are you constantly giving me shit for saying they are?
>But that they clearly do exist and are probably as repelled by you as I am
For what reason? Noticing that they are an extreme minority? Motherfucker you don't know me, you don't know how I act in polite society, off of 4chan, I'm as far away from a misogynist autist harassing women to have sex with him as you can get. I had a girlfriend throughout high school that I would have married if she didn't move halfway across the earth with her family. I'm not the guy you think I am, and I'm telling you right now that it's almost impossible for the majority of ABDL women to find any ABDL girl. You clearly don't recognize the gender imbalance if you think meeting a bunch of women into diapers in a small town is feasible.

>>39563012
You just sound unhinged. You're not actually addressing my points. How can you complain about it when you clearly make no attempt to contact any girls online. Whatever your behaviour I'm sure girls can sense what's underneath. We're good at that.

And yes that's just my experience but I also have a friend heavily involved in the Chicago scene. Lots of cute abdl models etc. Capcon organizers. There's no shortage of people into this if you're actually sociable and likeable. Not to the point you would be completely isolated. Sounds like you don't even try anyway. Why do robots never stop and ask themselves if they might be the problem

>>39563247
>You're not actually addressing my points
What points have you made? So far you've just agreed with me that ABDL girls are rare, I'm merely saying they're even more rare than you are giving credit for.
> How can you complain about it when you clearly make no attempt to contact any girls online.
I'm making a statement, you take it as complaining, but you also agree with me so I don't see why I'm "unhinged" for saying the chances of meeting a girl who is sexually attracted to diapers is almost nothing.
>Whatever your behaviour I'm sure girls can sense what's underneath.
And as we have already established, I have never even attempted to get an ABDL girl. So what girls 'can sense what's underneath?' The imaginary ones? I'm not giving you this perspective after years of ABDL girls ignoring me, this is coming from attending ABDL events in multiple cities, including some of the largest events like CapCon, and finding that around 2% of the crowd is biologically female
>We're good at that.
So clearly you're biased into thinking that you make up a larger portion of the ABDL community than you actually do. And can you answer one question for me: how long have you been ABDL? Was it your first sexual feelings? Because generally women aren't into the fetish for actual fetish reasons in my experience.
> Lots of cute abdl models etcc
Yes, they get money to take pics of themselves in diapers, I don't think that qualifies, call me cynical though
> Capcon organizers.
I went to capcon three years in a row, it's almost entirely men
>There's no shortage of people into this if you're actually sociable and likeable
yes and I found a group of people who I got along with but I couldn't get over the self-hatred that I experience any time I'm around other adults wearing diapers. I have stated countless times that I know how fucked up I am.

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Can we just post diapers and discuss dips instead of this autism fest? Seems like I can't avoid arguments in diaper threads regardless of what board.

>>39563434
Self hatred. Yes exactly. My point is as rare as these people seem to you, it's even rarer for you not even attempting it when plenty of people do manage to meer people into it. You just seem really cunty about it and thsts the problem.

Also I met a bunch of the same girls he met at falcon when they flew over to my country. I think the inner circle is a little cliquey but don't try and claim these people don't exist just because you're not part of it

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>>39563658
Fucking autocorrect. I am phone posting trash.
>>39563597
I tried but autism is inevitable

If you want to feel little a simple thing you can do is sit in front of your desk on the floor while trying to use the computer

>>39563597
This is /r9k/ though, this is an autism fest already, the point of this thread is not to just post pics of cute girls in diapers, but I certainly won't stop you from doing so

>>39561212
If I were your bf, things I'd want from you is putting me into a diaper (bonus points if you strip me naked and put baby powder on me). Aside from that, breastfeeding, dummies, bottlefeeding, but that's optional depending if your actual bf is into ageplay aswell or just diapers.
Regarding the humiliating part, under no circumstances would I want a dominatrix or anything BDSM-like, but more of a kind approach. Speaking with a baby-voice, diminutives, a little bit of teasing how I'm your little baby.
I'd suggest you try to engage aswell, let him put a diaper to you and be babies together, no pants, or even better if no anything besides diapers.

A more weird part I'd want to experience, but you'd have to see if your boyfriend is into it first, is actually using the diapers. Teasing that "you're only allowed to go pee-pee in your diaper, little baby" and getting a change (further teasing) after using it. Alternatively, that can be you too (if again, you and your bf are into it).

>>39563658
I have tried to meet people, I just don't try to harass women on ABDL sites like you're claiming. And one of the main reasons I stopped trying to meet people is because I was meeting no women and the women I was meeting were full of themselves because they were treated like Gods by the pathetic ABDL men who groveled over them. Not only are women exceptionally rare in the ABDL community, they know it too, and they exploit their rarity by acting holier-than-thou, honestly as evidenced by this thread so far.
>Oh yeah, maybe the only reason you don't see ABDL women is because they see how creepy you are!
That entire sentiment just pisses me off to no end. It's an objective fact that ABDl women are exceptionally rare and in my experience the few that exist are fucking cunty bitches not worth dealing with in the first place. I'd much rather just continue to try to pick up a vanilla girl who you slowly introduce to the fetish than to try your hand at finding a unicorn; that is a sane, attractive, not narcissistic ABDl girl.
> I think the inner circle is a little cliquey but don't try and claim these people don't exist just because you're not part of it
They're cliquey because see above, they think they're better than everyone else and the only reason they even got involved in diapers is because it was an untapped market of desperate men willing to give them never-ending attention. The prerequisites to joining their clique are: agree with everything we say, constantly praise us and never suggest that women aren't as involved in the fetish as men

>>39563966
Can you just fuck off already. This was supposed to be a comfy diaper but you and whoever you're arguing with are really draining the mood

>>39560197
Do you think you could 3d print diapers? Like you would buy the materials yourself and have a little degeneracy printing press.

>>39564203
Maybe in like 50 years time

>>39564148
don't pretend like you're not who I'm arguing with. If you want to drop it then fine. If you want it to be a comfy diaper thread then just ignore the argument posts and post diapers

>>39564294
They arent but I'll be fucked if it didn't get extremely tedious to read your sperg rants so its a very good point

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>on one hand I want to be put in diapers and be teased and treated like a baby
>on the other I don't like being humiliated/dominated and will get defensive over it
Fucking kill me. Why did I get this fetish in the first place.

>>39564344
just a quick question, are you the scottish chick that used to post diaper pics on /r9k/ and /soc/? And is in pretty much every /soc/ diaper thread?

>>39564522
I've posted maybe twice on here with those pics. Fairly recently. Think that's a bit of a reach. Can only then assume someone else did it if it was that memorable

>>39563658

>the inner circle is a little cliquey but don't try and claim these people don't exist just because you're not part of it

If he's not part of it then might as well not exist to him.

This all sounds like some hyper-active microcosm of regular dating, except for you people ugly guys are seen as extra creepy and have no chance at all with the few women involved.

>>39564659
OK so just so I'm clear on your position, i remember asking you in one of those threads about the fetish, and you claimed that you camwhored other stuff, then stumbled upon diapers and started doing that more often and I'm paraphrasing you from that convo: "mostly for the attention." Is that correct?

>>39564736
Just saying he can't claim these people don't exist just because he's not part of it. Because he even in his attempt failed to integrate and couldn't stand anyone else. Which is fine and reasonable. I too found a lot of littles in my community to be not my sort of people. But I'm not someone who defines their life by this. Im not then claiming I want a partner into it, but not doing anything about it and still bemoaning the fact "girls are so rare" sorry. I just don't get it.

>>39564772
No that.. that isn't correct? I've been wearing pullups since I got nerve damage in my teens. I then saw a documentary on abdl and thought it seemed a lot of fun and really cute. Having experienced it it was certainly my thing. Taking some pictures in cute diaps(which I've never actually done for 4chan) and sharing them in discussion..well no. You're pretty far off

>>39564881
So you're not the red-headed Scottish girl who started putting on store-bought diapers just so she could camwhore on /soc/?

My point is that you, like most women, aren't a diaper fetishist in my eyes. And that's not an insult, why would oyu ever want to be a diaper fetishist? Why would you ever want to only get off to disposable diapers? But at the same time don't pretend like you know what it's like for ABDL men who do grow up getting their first erections when walking down the diaper aisle with their moms and fantasizing for years about her taking a package down and putting you in one.

>>39564815

Doesn't sound like there is much of anything for him to do.

If he went to the events like he said, and there were very few women or none at all there, and the ones that are there are some kind of cliquey group that doesn't want anything to do with most people, then he's pretty much out of luck.

Dating can be a numbers game. If this is his one and only thing than the guy has little hope. Sounds pretty fucked.

>>39564815
I didn't fail to integrate, in fact I was very popular at the gay/bi ABDL events I went too (as I said earlier I'm bi) and I even had a guy I was dating in the scene declare his love for me. But I never loved him. I was just a fellow fetishist so I cut it off because I'm not comfortable with being around diaper fetishists. I only keep this shit to the bedroom and I get no pleasure from being around other people acting like babies and wearing diapers. If you're not deeply ashamed about this then I have to question your sanity, or whether or not you actually are a diaper fetishist.
> Im not then claiming I want a partner into it, but not doing anything about it and still bemoaning the fact "girls are so rare" sorry. I just don't get it.
Girls are extremely rare, I'm just stating a fact, and I definitely don't make ABDL shit my life either, which is why I stopped trying to be a part of the community. You don't understand how easy it is for you, wearing a diaper is an asset to you in this dating world because you're given immense praise simply for doing so

>>39564976
Thank you, you get it. Any guy who is trying to get an ABDL girl is fucked. Unless they want to completely grovel at the feet of the few women in the groups for years on end hoping to be invited to the "clique" bullshit that these women pull off. I'm not saying I'm not pathetic, I absolutely am, but I'm done trying to get ABDL women, I've been focusing on going after vanilla girls and introducing them to the fetish if and when the time comes.

>>39564971
Yes I'm red haired and Scottish but you've got some massive preconceptions about me there. I own an extensive amount of "store bought" for practicality. Similarly I spend a lot of money on abdl stuff such as clothing. I do nothing more in abdl threads than share pictures I took for friends and fetlife. This isn't particularly something to whore out for me because no. You're right I'm not turned on by age regression. I literally said that already. But go ahead and devalue what most diapergirls are in this world if you wish.

But for real. None of that sounds particularly dramatic compared the the bullying incident that nearly killed me and left me amongst other things sometimes incontinent. But boo hoo muh erections. Im more valid in my suffering. Like get over yourself. Nobody cares or knows what people do in private so don't act like this is a hard life

>>39565066
Sounds like standard robot woman hatomgbeccuses desu. I'm just saying you can't tar everyone with that brush. You're probably overlooking a lot of women you don't see as good enough too. And you really can't make these claims when plenty of other people manage to find rewarding friend groups and relationships. But you're right there obviously no hope for you either way. But those girls exist to me and plenty of other people

>>39565172
Woman hating excuses. Fuck it I'm too tired

>>39565108

>nobody cares or knows what people do in private so don't act like this is a hard life

If you were bullied as a child then you should already understand that this is the kind of thing that would ruin the average man's career and reputation if it became public. It is an involuntary compulsion that you don't indulge in because it is a rational and sane thing to do.

>>39565108
So do you only camwhore ABDL stuff or do you also commonly just put naked pics of yourself on the internet for attention? Because I distinctly remember getting into a convo with you about that once.
> But go ahead and devalue what most diapergirls are in this world if you wish.
I'm not against you putting on diapers for attention on the internet, but when you tell me that I'm "just not looking hard enough" and "the girls really are out there" when you have absolutely no idea what it's like to be a diaper fetishist and to go to these cons and to be a part of these communities not because you want attention but because you're desperately searching for sexuality and acceptance then I'm not going to react kindly just because you have a gash between your legs.
> None of that sounds particularly dramatic compared the the bullying incident that nearly killed me and left me amongst other things sometimes incontinent.
That sounds awful but I don't see what that has to do with the thread. My lung collapsed about a year ago, I almost died due to a drunk driver, we all experience adversity in our lives, I was specifically talking about actually being a diaper fetishist vs. doing so for attention or money on the internet, which appears to be the motivation for most ABDL women I meet. I have literally never met one who actually got sexually charged by putting on a diaper.

>>39565223
Again who is seeing behind closed doors. I know a couple of people in high powered jobs who don't shy away from this and stew in self loathing.

>>39565258

>who is seeing behind closed doors

A lot more people than you seem to think in this day and age of social media.

>>39565230
Literally just said I've never camwhored for this interest. And i dont do this for attention. Are all my interests for attention then? Abdl threads are some of the slowest going, most full of judgement, and quickest to be deleted on any board. Im not sure I've ever seen anyone properly camwhore in them. But yes I like attention but that would be a massive waste of time. I have literally no idea what conversation you're thinking of here.

I'm still not seeing your suffering particularly. There's guys and girls into it or happy to indulge the fetish even if not actively obsessed with it. It's hardly my fault you can't find them. Even in my tiny community I've met People. But People ought not to let fetish run their lives. Wow.

>>39565343
Only if you choose to share

>>39565364

If you go to public events you have no choice in the matter. Also, devices are left around unlocked or connected to public wi-fi all the time.

>>39565172
> I'm just saying you can't tar everyone with that brush
Yeah I'm definitely generalizing but I'm not doing so unfairly I think. I can only go off my experience and my experience is that ABDL women are few, far between, and generally 100% aware of just how rare and prized of a commodity they are.
>You're probably overlooking a lot of women you don't see as good enough too.
Oh I definitely am, but I'm not going to be with some fat slob just because we share a diaper fetish. Maybe that's unreasonable but I would rather be alone than be with someone I'm not sexually attracted to. You also have to understand that being with someone openly is about status and if you're a good looking guy then dating some fat porker is going to look bad for you. it's not fair but it's reality.
>when plenty of other people manage to find rewarding friend groups and relationships.
I've been on fetlife a long time and the vast majority of ABDL men I've found are desperately seeking a woman and the few ABDL women I know of are going in and out of relationships. Very few of them are long-term success stories, and if you want proof of that just go to any ABDL group on fetlife and count the desperate classified posts that invariably clog up every group. The last thing I would describe your average diaper fetishist as is "sexually or emotionally fulfilled"
>But those girls exist to me and plenty of other people
I just don't agree. You also have to understand that you are a diaper fetish internet celebrity of sort, you have a much more warped view of the overall community than I do, the anonymous poster who represents the vast majority of the fetish

>>39565426
Internet celebrity.. ok

>>39565348
>Literally just said I've never camwhored for this interest.
OK so you have camwhored for other interests then and you have also casually posted your pic in diapers on /r9k/ and on /soc/ multiple times, but you're not doing it for attention, despite you also saying that this doesn't turn you on?
> I have literally no idea what conversation you're thinking of here.
You posted on /r9k/ months ago and a bunch of diaperfags were asking you stuff and I was one of them and I asked if you were attracted to diapers, you said you weren't. Again, I have no problem with you posting yourself in diapers, or even calling yourself a diaper fetishist, but you don't understand the reality of the dating scene in the ABDL world from your perspective. It's like a white rhino going "I exist, and I run into other white rhinos everyday, so how can you people say we're an endangered, rare species?"

>I'm still not seeing your suffering particularly
I don't want your fucking pity, I just want you to stop pretending like there are a significant number of ABDL women out there, there aren't. You aren't even one of them and you're telling me "the problem isn't them, it's you"

Diapers must take over /r9k/

>diaper thread devolves into arguing
Not surprising desu

>>39561212
Really depends (lol) on what he prefers. There's diaper fetishism and then there's ageplay; while both are very closely connected there're notable differences in terms of where the arousal really stems from. If he's predominantly a diaperfag, the diaper and the taboo act of wearing it is typically the central focus. You may want to consider padding him up and teasing him about it while gently rubbing his then erect penis (don't lie you fucking degenerates, it's pretty hot). On the contrary, if he's an ageplayfag (much like myself) the central focus is shifted more towards the act of being babied, coddled, etcetera. In this case; he would much prefer you treating him as a small child (within reason, in more extreme cases this may not apply) and drawing attention to his imagined immaturities. Obviously he'll want you to engage him sexually in this instance as well, the best means of doing this would be to dress him up (bib, infantile clothing, pacifier) and yeah, maybe jerk his dick or fuck his brains out. I personally enjoy having a girl ride me while in a compromising position.

It's a safe assumption that he's somewhere in the middle of this (autistic) spectrum, it would be best to gently push him towards a conclusion while having a couple of provisions on hand. On another note; it really depends on how much control he'll be willing to sacrifice and how much he wants you to take. If my girlfriend ever started involuntarily babying me I'd fall in line nine times out of ten.
>TL;DR just ask him and experiment

>>39560197

>tfw want to buy diapers to wear sometime
>tfw have a roommate and would probably kill myself if I ever got caught with them

What do?

>>39565587
I dind't start buying until I moved out on my own but you can get away with it if you have a private bedroom and only wear them when he's out od the house or when he's asleep. Most ABDL diaper companies send discreet packages too

>>39565483
Diaper threads for friendship and discussion maybe a couple pics I'd taken for fetlife where I do actively share this side of myself. I used to take nudes purely out of loneliness and self loathing. Nothing like for profit. And Not the same thing . Your reaching a lot here. I've never once claimed I was a diaper fetishists but that in my world if you're into them for whatever reason there shouldn't be dome elitist distinction. Im attracted sexually to whatever turns other people on. I've never experienced this in a sexual scenario so I can't say how I'd feel. But no I don't find the diaper anything more than a comfort and necessity. However I'm not looking down on people who do define it as a fetish because at the end of the day it's a same fucking interest. And as I've said repeatedly I don't think there's "loads" of girls just enough in my experience. They do exist and even in my small community i know a few. But if someones making no attempt to meet anyone they cant complain. Yours is not my experience as you have noted..

These threads always go to shit. Im sorry I'm not as valid as you are

>>39565587
Wear out and about. Promise nobody in public notices as much as you feel they might

>>39561511
It's so fucking hard to find a cute straight diaper boi you have no idea

>>39565638
> I've never once claimed I was a diaper fetishists
No but you've made many claims that you know a lot of female diaper fetishists and that they are more common than I am claiming them to be.
>there shouldn't be dome elitist distinction.
It's not elitist at all, as I said earlier this shit is a fucking curse, who the fuck would want to be a diaper fetishist? I'm stating a fact, girls get involved with this mostly because (A) their boyfriend is into it or an ex got them into it and they enjoyed the power they felt or (B) they are doing it for attention or money since the ABDL scene is so jam-packed with lonely, desperate men. It appears you fall under category B.
>However I'm not looking down on people who do define it as a fetish because at the end of the day it's a same fucking interest
Again, I am not "looking down on you" for not being sexually attracted to diapers, I'm just saying that you don't understand what it's like to be sexually attracted to fucking diapers and you don't understand what it's like to try to find someone willing to even put up with this fucked up fetish. I had a girl stop talking to me entirely after we dated for two months because she found out I liked diapers. I got EXTREMELY lucky that she decided to keep it to herself and not tell the entire school. You don't understand that aspect of it, as much as I want to be different, this shit will never go away, ever and there are real consequences to people finding out I like this shit. Whereas you post pics of yourself in a diaper all over 4chan because you want the attention. That's perfectly fine but it's also nothing I would ever even consider doing.
>And as I've said repeatedly I don't think there's "loads" of girls just enough in my experience.
How do you define "enough?"
>Im sorry I'm not as valid as you are
You're as valid as you want to be. I just don't like it when people like you tell me the only reason I can't find an ABDL woman is because I'm the problem.

>>39565638
Also as much as I'm not turned on by the article itself I do get off on the humiliation and little baby comments so meh. Also in combination with ddlg and a bit of actual water sports. But nah has to be the actual diaper doesn't it. Something ive only ever seen as an embarrassing necessity until i learnt of this stuff

>>39565763
Most diaper paysites are of women so I think the majority of diaper fetishists are straight guys. I don't know how many are cute. Cute guys don't usually divulge that they're into diapers in my experience.

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>>39565532
This happens so often that I'm not surprised why we need diapers

>>39565785
I do know female diaper fetishists even more who are simply ab but I forget the distinction is something we can afford to have.. im not saying it's the only reason. I'm saying it's probably a huge contributing factor when a lot of guys do find these relationships. That's all

>>39561212
seeing a girlfriend that is willing to go out of their way to do this sort of thing is nice. I've completely given up on relationships because I feel like a woman would lose all respect for me if I showed this side of myself.

>>39561729
Whoa how do you lactate, ugh I want to do that so bad but I've heard the hormone pills you can take for it fuck you up

>>39565831

>a lot of guys do find these relationships

And you're saying this based on what exactly?

>>39565845
that's where I'm at too. I wonder if it's healthy. Probably not. I live near a few popular college bars and I see people hooking up all the time and I wonder how they are able to even do it.

>>39565811
That's the issue.
The cute ones who will show their faces are gay in my experience.

>>39566073
Internet. The couple's I know. Myself once. Takes two gor a relationship. If they manage what exactly is stopping you? Are you the one who doesn't even try to meet people who'll accept it

>>39566103
Plus I'm way too shy about it to try and talk about it irl.

And because of my life situation I have a few other specific requirements for a serious boyfriend and that makes finding someone like searching for diamonds in a desert

>>39565831
>I do know female diaper fetishists even more who are simply ab
I don't think you know many. And I think they're probably much more like you in that they became attracted to them based on the attention or the money or an ex-boyfriend or something along those lines. I have quite literally never met, talked to, or even heard of a girl who grew up being sexually attracted to diapers. And I'm not being elitist, why would anyone want to be attracted to diapers? This is going nowhere, I'm never going to see your side of things, you're never going to see my side. I wish that female diaper fetishists were as common as you claim, but they just simply are not.

>>39566137
So, I've been just in the sidelines watching this argument.
But I just want you to know that we're out here and we exist, I grew up with this and much like you guys it was something I couldn't control from the time I was a kid.

One time I actually got brave enough to steal a pack of my little cousins diapers. That was an amazing month.
But yeah, we're here.
And I'm going to qualify this by saying I totally agree with you and there are tons of roasties who abuse this fetish, but I want to let you know we exist.

>>39566134
yeah well welcome to the club. I've gone on /soc/ "ask the opposite sex anything" threads that pop up there and I always ask whether girls would be interested in a guy who was into diapers. I think in the dozen or so times I've asked that I've gotten affirmative responses like 3% of the time maybe.

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so? you sharing what you got?

>>39566137
No i said my community is small. Comparatively i think weve reached about 30 people at events. Of these I've met 11 ab girls and two serioys fetishests. What im sayimg is an acyual fetish isnt nearly as common but its not that difficult to find girls who wear for whatever reason and will accept. But apparently thats not enough. I'm getting a bit fed up repeating myself. I never said they were common. In my experience ab girls are certainly about. Im just back from a littles retreat with a few. You can't write off a whole load of people as being into it for attention, especially when a few only have minimal online presence. One is a famous YouTuber so make of that what you will but mostly she's seen in the community as a leader and a great help to other members

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Cause I got a lot of these

>>39566226
Fair enough, I just think you're in the minority of female diaper fans, and they're already the extreme minority of diaper fetishists. I get that male diaper fetishists can scare you off though

>>39566334
Fuck this is a mess. I've had too long a day to be phone posting

>>39566226
>girl calling other girls roasties

Like you're any better

>>39566344
They aren't even scary I'm either not physically attracted to them or the attractive ones aren't into women

>>39566376
Fuck off faggot, there's a difference between a regular woman and a roasties that manipulates everyone around here.

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one last. And there you go.

>>39566405
Oh yes the true female robot. How could I forget.

>>39566405
You think regular women come here that's cute. I don't even care about women here but let's not pretend some are better than others

>>39566334
>its not that difficult to find girls who wear for whatever reason and will accept.
Well first of all, that's different from wanting to find a diaper fetishist, but secondly I don't think you understand how difficult it can be to find any girl willing to put up with this fetish. The vast majority of people think you're a pedophile right off the bat and those who don't think you're some creepy immature spastic. And to be quite honest there are plenty of people in the diaper fetish community who absolutely validate these concerns.
>. One is a famous YouTuber so make of that what you will but mostly she's seen in the community as a leader and a great help to other members
Are you talking about the youtube chick that was on that documentary thing about being an ABDL chick? The other British one? Because I believe she also said that she wasn't attracted to them sexually but was just interested in the comfort aspect. Which again, perfectly acceptable, but you're not a fetishist.

>>39566378
I think I'm pretty attractive. I'm no James Caan but I never had trouble getting a date in college and school. I have a kik that I can confirm that attractiveness if you're interested : Tilden/Katz

>>39566132

For this community it sounds like you know some of the outliers because you are one yourself and that is the circle you travel in. Lucky you.

People win the lottery all the time despite the odds being against them. That doesn't mean the majority of people will win and that there is something wrong with everyone who doesn't win. They're just not as fortunate as others.

>>39566541
>I think I'm pretty attractive. I'm no James Caan but I never had trouble getting a date in college and school. I have a kik that I can confirm that attractiveness if you're interested :
kys

>>39566541
>username not found
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