How do I stop being a pussy? Asking for a friend

>>39479385
What specifically are you, I mean, is your friend being a pussy about, anon?

>>39479416
Confrontation in the most broad sense you can think of. He gets nervous when other men are around him. I just dont wamt to be everyone's little punk no more. I want to 'alpha up you' know

>>39479483
With women?

>get rejected

If it's a fear of rejection that's holding him back, the best way to get over it is by letting it happen. Might suck at first, but after a while he'll stop caring. Because it really doesn't matter or mean much.

>>39479483
>>39480380
More specifically..

>make eye contact
>have an interesting topic or two in mind beforehand
>ask open-ended questions

With women, it can suck because oftentimes you'll have to carry conversation with them, especially if they're not interested.

You can transition in by saying hello and commenting on something around you, or maybe a band logo on her shirt. Perhaps the conversation will stem naturally from there, and again, it'll help if (when you ask about her), you don't ask yes/no questions, so she'll have to give you more, which you can comment on to carry on the discussion.

Or just delve right in, "So, do what do you think about NASA faking the moon landing?" And it may help not to think about sex at first, just a friendly talk.

Also, know you can take your time to think of a response. Don't think silence is awkward.

But getting rejected is the best way to get over it.

in general,
wearing sunglasses helped me. no one can see where your eyes are and what they are doing. also neutral facial expressions look like pure, unadultured contempt. they're just intimidating to look at.