ITT vent about your romantic lives (or lack thereof). Whenever

>in relationship for over a year
>they leave me for bullshit reasons
>find out later on that they were notoriously cheating on me the entire time
>roommate has perfect relationship
>always rubs it in my face
>basically every interaction with them is "haha you're alone and we're not sucks to be you"
I'm either going to kill them or myself.

>>39311404
Wow. I'm sorry, Anon. People around you should've respected you enough to tell you something while it was going on so you wouldn't waste so much time and energy.

>>39311457
It's just unfair as fuck.
I was the one who was wronged and now my ex is off fucking whoever they want while I just sit alone and drink in my apartment every night because I'm a completely undesirable piece of trash.
So I guess it is fair, trash deserves a trash existence.

>>39311478
Do you want to be friends? I'd like to know more about your situation, because it sounds like this isn't the only thing going wrong.

Girls I can get are a far cry from the ones I want and I'm afraid to settle again after last time. I'm not sure I want to be with anyone if I'm going to obsess over someone else.

One time I had a romantic yet platonic date while my dad led her off to fuck her because "he's sexy". I understand I'm not entitled to sex but holy hell you don't need to abuse your sex prerogative because you're a celebrity, bitch.

>>39311546
I love to get to know new people. Other things going wrong? It could be my growing drug problem or my financial troubles. Or just that I have almost no friends anymore or any dating prospects.
Oh good lord, my roommate is having sex in the living room, how the fuck am I supposed to get to the noodles now.

>>39311605
Well my phone number is 8455455876 if you want to talk on the phone. (I prefer that to texting, but either is fine.)

>>39311688
sorry but no, I don't give out my personal number to people I just met. discord?

>>39311784
No, but my email is [email protected], if that works.

>>39311365
My cat licks my penis

>>39311567
>Girls I can get are a far cry from the ones I want
That's similar to what I'm afraid my crush thinks.

>>39311832
I sent you a message. originally, of course.

>>39311868
That's... nice. I hope you enjoy it.

>>39311365
I have had ocd as a kid (lack of impulse control is a given)

I tend to sperg out with girls I like. Girls who like me end up hating me and blocking me.

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I had one girlfriend my whole life, she was fat and had mental issues

she refused to have sex with me but i still dated her for a whole year because i was lonely

eventually i just broke up with her, she said she wanted to marry me but hell no. i hate her she's selfish and lazy

i've been at rock bottom for a while now, i stopped exercising and have gotten fat and all i do is fap to cuckold porn and other degenerate shit like 3 times a day and sleep

please respond (You)s are my only human interaction other than my mom who ignores me half the time

>>39311887
>Girls who like me end up hating me and blocking me.
I think this happened once for me but with a boy. I gave him a handy and he hardly talked to me after that, despite normally being a really warm person.

>>39311950
guys have a natural instinct to stop talking to a girl once they get sex. This only applies if they were never serious to start with

>>39311933
See >>39311688 and >>39311832 if you want a friend.

>>39311365
>old flame comes out of nowhere
>succeeded massively in life whereas i've been atrophying exponentially she doesn't care
>very clear both of us are the same people we were and that she's still the only person i've ever talked to i didn't have anxiety issues with
>wants to start things up again now that she's living nearby(strongly suspect she moved back here on purpose)
>already in a relationship i didn't realize was dead to me until i started talking to her
>want to to take her up on the offer but i'd feel like shit eternal if i dropped who i have now because an upgrade came along

>>39311975
Well, that's a depressing fact... :(

>>39312029
Think about being the girl you're with now though. Would *you* want to be with someone who sees someone else as an "upgrade"? Don't waste her time.

>>39312052
on the flip side there's freak virgins like me who reject girls unless I'm serious about them I'm the guy with ocd

boy, isn't life grand?

>>39312078
I'd just feel like shit doing that in general then my anxiety would kick in because if i did that then i'm a shit person and not worth the other one.

I tried to kill myself and I'm pretty sure I scared off the guy I lost my KHV status to. Now I have someone else interested in me but I can't date him because he's my coworker and because I really don't want to invite him into the snafu that is my life. I know I'm not ready to date anyone now. At the same time, I still want to talk to the first guy and plan on contacting him again once I lose enough weight to not despise myself.

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>>39311365
(1/2)

I was with her today. We just sat in a table and talked for a while. She had gone out partying with Chad last night, so she was really tired, rested her head against the table and closed her eyes. I just stared at her while she couldn't notice. It's such a fucking weird relationship; I have told her how I feel about her but she treats me entirely normally, which makes me feel like my feelings are entirely insignificant to her and like she is totally unable so see me as a person who has a sexuality. Am I not 'masculine' enough, whatever that means? Am I a 'beta'? Am I just really fucking ugly? I don't fucking know, I just know that I have never been treated as a potential partner by any woman, so there probably is something wrong with me.

Even though I am a virgin, I never really cared much about having a relationship with a girl or about sex (and my sex drive is dead thanks to my antidepressants anyway - thanks doc). She's not even the best looking girl around (though that is mostly because she is absolutely shit at taking care of her body) Yet, I have been obssessing over this girl so hard for a really long time. It's just that I have always felt there was something special about her and I always felt really good being near her. Because of this, I wanted to be her best friend, so I did everything I could to help her and make her happy - falling in love was inevitable. Essentially, I ended up becoming a beta orbiter without really unintentionally. Would she do any of these things for me?

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>>39311365
>>39312434
(2/2)

She says she respects me thinks I'm a 'great person', but she doesn't really want to hang out with me unless there are other options. Being a social, charming and extroverted person she has loads of more interesting friends, and can hook up with far better guys than me - and no matter how much self-improvement I do, I know I will never match up to them.

I guess there isn't much point to this long fucking blogpost other than venting. I'm just depressed over how dependent I am on this person and how, no matter how hard I try, I will never be good enough for them. I know it's wrong for my self-esteem is reliant on her aproval, but I can't help but notice that the people who say you must "learn to be happy by yourself" are never lonely people themselves. I don't know the solution to this, I just know I don't want anyone else, and I feel like I will never get over her.

>>39312414
>like fat grills
>hit on one
>is suspicious of my motives
>suspects I don't actually like fat grills
>once I convince her she starts saying stuff like "I've been eating out so much, I think I'm gaining weight"
>says she's fat because she likes candy
>ask what her favorite is
>"all of them"
my penis was diamonds

>>39311365
There's a girl at my work that's basically perfect (but she's Mexican). She has a bf but he's way less handsome (kinda fat/out of shape, dorky haircut, cargo shorts) and besides being Mexican I don't see what she sees in him. She and I both line video games, fashion, YouTube and the same food. She and I are both smart and share the same traditional values (not sure if she's fucking him or not but idc) and I'm a WHITE guy and skinny. Why can't I have her bros? Why doesn't she want the BWC

>>39312464
That's cute. I don't mind chub on other people. I think it's cute and comfy. I just hate it on me. I'm starting to suspect it's because losing weight is the closest I can come to disappearing or getting rid of myself.

>>39312445
You are literally her emotional tampon. From the information you've presented me, without any inferences on my part, you should look elsewhere for love and everytime you're unavailable while looking for someone while she "needs" to talk (use) you, your desirability slightly increases OR she finally leaves you alone and looks for someone else to use. That's my suggestion.

>>39311933
You did the right thing besides not fucking her. Why didn't you go for it? A year and no sex? I don't think she was your gf mate. You were an orbiter to her >

>got dumped 8 years ago
>still cannot find anyone who will love me and date me
>she gets chads left and right and have the life of a popular girl everyone dreamt of
>still thinking about her everyday and masturbates to her
>she tells me she has a new bf in my dreams when i try to ask her to get back together in my dream

>randomly happen to meet trap that likes fat losers
>we fool around for 2 weeks
>leaves me for 5"6 Chad
>alone ever since
And that was 5 years ago. It was like a little oasis of happiness in my otherwise depressed existence.

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>>39312706
>you should look elsewhere for love
I don't want anyone else. Other girls just seem really boring and uninteresting to me, otherwise this wouldn't be a problem.

Not that I would really have other options if I wanted to; I'm browsing /r9k/, afterall. Like I said, no woman has shown romantic interest in me in my life. As pathetic as it is, this girl is the closest I have had to a relationship.

>>39312706
>everytime you're unavailable while looking for someone while she "needs" to talk (use) you, your desirability slightly
That makes no sense. Like I said, she is a social, charming, attractive young female. She could replace me easily. By making myself distant, I would only isolate myself even more than I already am (like I said, I browse /r9k/) and make myself look like a whiny asshole for demanding love that I'm not entitled to.

>>39312434
>>39312445
You're being used as a dumping ground for her shit, anon. She's never going to see you as a man and you have no obligation to do anything for her, especially since she doesn't respect you. Take the better option and stop seeing her. It might hurt a little now, but you'll feel better in the long run. No man deserved to be treated like that.

>in love with a robot
>would happily lose my khv status to him and marry him and promise to be with him forever
>he doesn't feel the same

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>>39311365
>tfw i'm starting to like a girl who lives in another country
I really want a relationship with sonebody i can be phisically close to, but i also want something with her despite the distance, she's just an absolute angel

>or lack thereof

God, it's left me so wistful.

I'm about a solid 7/10, whose interests aren't nearly prevailing enough to entice normie females and far from on-the-fringe enough to attract any qt indie types, and whose only luck with women's always been making them giggle. I'll always come close with girls but can never manage to win them over, more often than not because I'm a thorough stiff with zero capacity for subtle cues and even less for flirtation. This wouldn't be quite so bad if a gf's number one on my list of priorities and on my mind at least a dozen times a day.


I don't care about sex and I can't imagine I ever will. All I want is somebody to love.

>>39312827
i was 100% her bf, she's too ugly to have orbiters and if anything i was too good for her and she was constantly paranoid about me cheating. plus she would give me blow jobs and loan me money

she's just a poorfag who's entire family has ended up married to the guy that got them knocked up, she didn't want to suffer the same fate being tethered to some guy she doesn't really like and missing out on her 20's

the irony being that she ended up really liking me and wanting to stay with me, i told her as a joke that the only way i would've stayed was if i accidentally got her pregnant but that's impossible