Been a lurker here for almost 7 months and I want to share a story for once...
>be me
>in first year of alevels (similar to college)
>only have one friend I hang out with and can sustain conversations with
>get placed into classes for English
>teacher forces me to sit next to this 8/10 qt
> brown hair, blue eyes, short like me. Is into reading and is super intelligent.
> find out she's in 2 of my 3 classes (5 classes each subject so 10 classes with her)
> get to know her over the course of a year.
> only walk with her to classes because she's so interesting
> friend jokes around saying we are together
>almost everyone I know starts joking as well saying
"Hey anon look its your gf haha!"
>she gets annoyed every time it happens
>Fucking brain comes up with this garbage
"Don't worry just tell them we are only friends. It's not like I have a crush on you anyways"
>fuckingWHAT
>cantbelieveisaidthat.jpg
>"awww you're such a nice guy anon. Thanks"
>mfw I have a huge fucking crush but i'm too stupid to do anything about it
Pls send help IM HOPELESS
WHAT DO I DO RK9
>sos
>rk9
>mk9
>mkultra
SEQUENCE RECOGNITION
>>39306657
Read about post-structuralism and deconstructivism so you can feel hopeless and lonely in every way possible
https://youtu.be/dEUtCcqF35U
ask her anyway mate nothing vetured nothing gained. she probably just said that under peer pressure. i know a freind(girl) who said ew noo when someone said she shouald date the guy she hangs out with all the time....A month later there dating.
>>39306909
Thanks robot. Only way is down the spiral
>>39306909
explain post-structuralism pls. i tried the wiki page but my eyes glazed over as it went into so much detail about its origins while obfuscating what it actually IS. im too low iq to make heads or tails of it.
>>39306657
>>39306657
She obviously doesn't see you as a potential mate. Because you are not in her league. People want to date people on the same level of attractiveness as them and you are just not on the same level as her. Not everybody can have the 8/10 qt . Stop feeling entitled, face reality and aim for someone on your level.
>>39306657
I had a similar situation during A-levels but we never talked about relationships, even though everyone in sixth-form knew we were into each other. Can't believe I did nothing and now she is moving up north for uni.
I would probably give you two options. One is to ditch her with the slim hope that she would want you more (keep in mind this almost never works). Two is to embrace the friend zone, perhaps she could give you better tips about girls idk I am a virgin who was last kissed back in 2015.
>>39307341
Feels good knowing im not alone. Thanks robot will take what you said into consideration
>>39307619
He's right >>39307341
So what if she doesn't see you that way ? As you said you find her very interesting and you only have one friend
>>39307756
I guess It would be very awkward for year 2 but fuck it there are plenty of fish in the sea
Right?
>>39307795
Yup! Having a female friend helps. She could give you tips and introduce you to her friends. And talking to a female on a daily basis helps keeping your autism level down
>>39307012
This anon. Do it. If she says no the only thing you might be out is a "friend" if she's so angry that you asked her out ie: you won't be in the friend zone anymore. Man up anon, it's time
Fuck it I will post what happens on the 20th of september
>>39306657
hahaha you got problems!
Listen here boi:
>have girl i really love
>after we met again 8 years later we hang together for 3 days. She want to fuck i say only with relationship. She doesn't want to. I say to bad.
>We part away, she lives 400km away.
>Chat and phone for two weeks.
>cant take it anymore. Say i love her.
>She is flattered says your are stupid how could you love someone that you know for only 3 days?
>My brain says yes im stupid.
>after i said it i lost the fucking "hard to get game" forever.
>Happend two days ago now i realizes what i have done and im fucking angry how all this shit works and i don't know if she is that normie that she like to play the "hard to get game".
Fuck the hard to get game.
Fuck my life.
So now you realize that you can make a turn and change into the hard to get game. FGT dont repeat my mistake fucking fagget .
>>39306657
You fucked up but it's not too bad. Use her to get to know her friends and get acquianted with more women.