>meet a girl from unfortunate circumstances through family

>>39232382
Kneecap her anon

>>39232382
Man just fuck'er right in the pussy.

why aren't you letting her suck your dick, anon? don't be so mean.

>>39232382
Bang her, anon. Just do it then get the fuck off this board because you're a normie now.

>>39232382
Imagine you were her and she was you, OP. What is actually going on? Why are you clinging so much? Is it fucked up that no one wants you around? Is it sexual or emotional?

>>39232604
>Why are you clinging so much?
I don't really understand exactly.
Her mum died young and her dad was like "lol i don't want a kid". So she spent pretty much all of her development milestones unwanted.


>Is it fucked up that no one wants you around?
It's not even that I don't want her around.
I don't mind spending time with her but she's clingy beyond recognition and it can take it's toll on you.
It seems like she never wants to spend a moment alone, and I'm one of the few people who she can use reliably to achieve that goal.

An example. She is very easy to upset. I said something with good intentions and she misinterpreted it very badly. Basically told me to go away and never contact her again (after spending almost a week non-stop with her, I was actually on the fence about the whole thing).
Then, an hour later she rings me up and wants to see if we can hang out.

>Is it sexual or emotional?
It's not particularly sexual, no.
I've always pushed that sorta thing away anyway.

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>>39232522
idk if I'd be comfortable with the whole sexual contact thing.

>>39232445
That seems a little uncalled for anon

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OP you first must think and analyze the situation, don't listen to the other Anons telling you to fuck her in the pussy first understand what she really wants and think about it.

does she like you legitimately? or is she trying to get with you because of your financial standing.
if you believe is the latter, spend more time to understand a bit more.
if the former, then consider a relationship with her if you want too.

>>39232854
OP, she sought you out for comfort in a time of need and continues to cling to you for dear life because you feel like a constant and reassuring factor in her life. In the background of your mind, consider it an honor.
She may be trying to use sexual contact as a form of repayment and may even get a sense of rejection if it's not reciprocated. Tread carefully here because contact like that when she's all vulnerable is something you might want to wait a while for.

>>39232382
Cum in her shoes, see what happens.
Pretend you know nothing about it.
Repeat until she is gone

>>39232382
are you just afraid or do you actually not like her?

if it's fear, then i guarantee that if you fuck this up you will regret it later.

>>39232382
Just tell him to fuck off and be done with it. He'll understand. He likely doesn't hold grudges. He wants people to be straight up and not hold back.

>>39233001
She has said that she feels bad that I'm not using her for anything. I don't usually mind to be honest.
And as for sexual contact? I've told her that I'd be happy with cuddles but I don't think she believes me.
I'm practically a tranny though, so I don't think I'd be able to have sex with her.

>>39233212
Probably just the first one.

Another thing now that I think about it was the fact that I was pretty satisfied with the idea of killing myself in a couple of years. My life is going nowhere and I don't get anything out of it. If she hangs around though then I've gotta not kill myself for a while.
I don't have anything for that to work though. I've got no money, no future prospects, etc. I let everything decay with the knowledge that it didn't matter for anything.

>>39233257
I'm not her.

>>39233027
I really don't wanna do it spitefully if it is the case. She is nice enough.

>>39232382
FUCK OFF
faggots are not welcome in this board

>>39233299
Why do you honestly think I can't handle rejection and let me tell why you're wrong

>>39233299
What do you mean that you're practically a tranny?

>>39233402
I don't get you.

>>39233434
If I was the better half of a decade younger I'd be popping skittles and wearing long socks.
Some have told me that I should anyway and it'll be fine, but I'm a realist not an optimist.

>>39233299
>My life is going nowhere and I don't get anything out of it.

do you want to get something out of it? serious question.

>>39233461
What are skittles?

>>39233481
I'm not sure.
I don't know what I can get out of it.

>>39233516
A combination of Anti-Androgen and Oestrogen supplements typically taken by a tranny. It'll stop male puberty and start female puberty.
Done early enough, one will completely avoid traits commonly associated with men (facial hair, adams apple, deepened voice, rough skin, etc) and will get traits associated with women (breasts, hip growth, short stature, mood swings).
But like all things this is to diminishing returns as one progresses through male puberty.

>>39233576
Ok, so you would prefer to castrate yourself chemically vs potentially letting yourself fall in love? Biology is placing herself in your lap, anon. Take a stand and embrace it.

>>39233750
I'm not castrating myself chemically.
Still isn't gonna make me suddenly comfortable with what I'm not.

>>39233767
It's not, you're right.
Why did you want to self exterminate, anon?

>>39233831
It seemed easier.
Just existing seems stressful. Excluding the fact that I hate myself quite a bit, I've also left myself to fail in life. Even if I was to go full focused on life, I'd still be cleaning up my own mess for many years to come.

>>39233461
>If I was the better half of a decade younger I'd be popping skittles and wearing long socks.
>Some have told me that I should anyway and it'll be fine, but I'm a realist not an optimist.
are you a meme tranny who wants girl easy mode because you're such a failure and a fuck-up as a man or do you fap to tranny porn?

>>39234119
>It seemed easier.
>Just existing seems stressful. Excluding the fact that I hate myself quite a bit, I've also left myself to fail in life. Even if I was to go full focused on life, I'd still be cleaning up my own mess for many years to come.
here's an idea. give this a shot. try to experience happiness. let a girl try to make you happy. you can always tell her you're too fucked up to be happy if it ends up a flop. at least take the cuddles. fuck, dude. you make me angry.

>>39234278
Seconding this.
>>39234119
You're a man. Find some resolution in that.
Everyone fucks up. Everyone has to wade their way through waist-high shit every day to survive. No. It's not going to feel worth it the grand majority of the time.
But you...
You're making life actually survivable for another person right now. She's barely clinging on despite her own shitty circumstances and chose you to be her rock. That's more than a lot of people will ever get to be.
No, you shouldn't live for other people. But it's okay to allow yourself to be a little bit selfish and feel wanted and worthy of love.

>>39234424
>my rock

Yikes. Glad I'm not crazy like you guys.

>>39234177
You could probably put me in the former category as shitty as that makes me sound.
I've never thought it specifically but yeah.

>>39234278
>>39234424
I might just talk with her about it. Maybe if she could tone it down just a notch (although I won't be nearly that direct with her) it could work.

>>39234566
It's real hard to tone down clingy, but make sure she understands that it's more important than sex.
Anon, shit is going to be rough and this is a pretty big thing to feel responsible for.
I hope you can find a way to be happy.

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>>39232382
forgot to add pic.
this is me while confessing to her

>>39234566
>You could probably put me in the former category as shitty as that makes me sound.
>I've never thought it specifically but yeah.
congratulate yourself on being honest with yourself. it's normal to feel the way you feel. just be yourself with her (not the trap character you see webms of here). experience that at least-- having someone love you for awhile even though you are not putting on any masks or putting up pretenses. take things day by day with her. if she gets too out of hand, gently correct her with love in your voice. hold her hand when you are telling her to dial it back a bit to reassure her. take this opportunity to be with someone who will give you a peak at a different life than the one you have had. you might like it, who knows?

>>39234842
>forgot to add pic.
>this is me while confessing to her
you're not op, but even if she was a landwhale, op should still give this a shot. it's something different, a change of pace. he's got one foot in the suicide grave so he has nothing to lose.

>>39234842
funny pic

It reminds me the time I saved a fat girl from local mafia, she was working and living in an erotic phone call center, together with other slaves. She only could go out when it was her turn to buy groceries, about half an hour per month.

She literally had no place to stay, no job, no money. I told her to have her stuff packed and ready by 5:45am, when everyone was sleeping and a very few slaves had the night shift. By 5:55am we were already on the highway and thrown her cellphone SIM in the river and deleted her facebook account.

I gave her 200 bucks for personal expenses and teleported her to a nuns place, so they would host her for a few weeks and made sure she got a job.

She spent most of that money in cigarettes and lipstick and hairdo and shit. I was somewhat ok with it because it was years she literally had to beg for a fuckin' cigarette. She wanted to meet me again and made up some excuse. I fell for the bait and we literally had an afternoon date.

She hinted at us living together. Basically she asked support, in exchange for sex. She went as far as trying to kiss me in public, I had to stop her ("not now, not here!"), and to date I still am a kissless virgin and never had a gf. But I have no regrets about it.

I didn't want such a gf. I'd be ok with a 300 lbs girl, but she just saw too many cocks. I'd be ok with supporting a girl, but she just thought it was her undeniable right, she was like a hungry stray dog that just sniffed your fresh sausages. A girl shall offer loyalty and trustfulness, especially if she's unable to offer more. Sporting a vagogo doesn't automatically make you the Pure Princess.

A few weeks later the nuns texted me she left the premises, to live with a taxi driver who just divorced. Sounds like the wrecked whale found out someone to leech off.

I'm sure the mafia guys carefully checked the calls log, but I actually never phoned. And the facebook account I used to chat with her was a carefully built throwaway.