Have you ever rejected a girl? How did you feel about it and

>>39148175
Yes. It's a shameful story.

>be 14
>meet cute 13 girl from the same town online
>chat a lot
>she's immediately falls for me
>thinks I'm really cool, practically worships the ground I walk on
>meet on a couple of dates in town
>enjoy some kissing and touching
>her parents are away one weekend
>she asks me to come over and spend the weekend at her place
>gives me her address
>go there on my bike
>get lost because I've never been in that part of town before
>spend hours trying to find the place before giving up
>she calls me and asks why I didn't come
>I don't want to look like an uncool faggot who gets lost in his own hometown so I tell her I'm dumping her
>don't return any of her desperate calls or e-mails

>>39148175

one second famalamadingdong

Only once
>summer after HS graduation
>second group of """friends""" want to hang out a lot
>they only invited me because a fat chick in their group has a crush on me
>forced me to hang out with them or else they were going to blackmail me with my past as a porn artist
>they're all weeb level cringe and I'm sticking out like a sore thumb
>I don't fit in
>I just wanted to go home and study some more japanese and play video games with my younger brother
>fat chick keeps hitting on me and it's getting annoying
> weeks later she tells me through text that she likes me
>Try to call her since that's the right thing to do
>she keeps hanging up
> text her back basically rejecting her
>she never messages me after that
>I'm never invited to future hangouts
>get to enjoy the rest of my summer the way I anticipated it to be
I felt pretty bad since it was the only time I've ever rejected anyone but I actually feel a bit better about not being in a relationship since I've been way more focused on my studies than before when I use to constantly worry about being a virgin for my age

>>39148322

"I know what will get a guy to like me and be my loyal bf, kissing another guy in front of him!"

Women truly are a mistake

>>39148175

So im 26. NEET khv etc etc. But I can tell you of powerlevel stories that arent that autistic because of my lower age at the time, still powerlevel experience tho.

>be 13
>two girls from opposite class say "hey :)" to me every single day
>eventually one of them starts to stare longer while saying their daily "hey :)"
>the other one, i guess now looking back at it, was just the main one's "wingman"
>looks/stares of the main girl becomes depper and longer
>i guess i started to look closer and smile more but who knows this was totaly new for me
>one day at the shop nearby school with friend
>girls comes towards us
>"Hey :)!" "Would you (main girl talking, looking directly at me) want to go out/hang out/do something after school? (i cant remember exactly which one she said and some phrases doesnt translate well to english)
>im swedish and in our language "okey" (okej) and "No" (nej) sounds almost the same if you are not pronouncing clearly enough. Which I dont because i rarely talk.

>i say: "okey"
>girls look at me alittle funny, but without looking shocked
>think i see them smile
>me and my friend just talk away into the store i think

>next couple of weeks
>they say "Hey :)" to me less often even though they see me in the hallway
>I start saying "Hey :)" first instead
>they respond
>after some more weeks
>they just give weak smiles when I greet them
>i stop saying "Hey :)"
>i guess it turned out that that one day when they asked me out, which I knew nothing about back then, they must have heard my "okej" as a "nej" (no)
>i think about this later as years go by
>being functional autistic
>think of it more and come up with that maybe they expected me to keep talking after their request
>no one will ever know
>not even me

I think I got atleast 2 other stories like these but I will have to remember them more.

I've been rejecting my ex for the past 2.5 years lul

>be together 5 years
>find out circumstantial evidence she is cheating
>politely propose break up because our life is shit, we treat each other like shit (I had been lying about going to school for over a year because I was so depressed I couldn't even get out of bed)
>she has a breakdown but agrees since I don't give her a choice
>says she only ever went out to coffee with people because she wanted to see what kind of a person was behind the nickname, but admits to sending naughty pics as well
>obviously there's more since I've picked her up from weird locations after bar nights multiple times
>her ex friend "comes clean" telling she's been going to hotels with guys etc
>she fakes call records claiming ex friend was harassing her and is full of shit
>I don't give a good goddamn
>6 months pass with almost no contact
>we gradually start talking again, over general stuff, life etc
>at some point it falls back to sex
>sex, so much sex, every day sex
>tell her all this time that we'll never be anything, and that whatever we have is between us and will never be told about to anyone I know
>2 nights ago she breaks down again like "I've been in this for 2.5 years hoping we'll one day be something again"
>tell her no way

She was slightly blaming me for dragging her on for all this time and wants us to gain distance since it 's not leading to anything.


I also once rejected a cutesy big tit bartender.

>My little brother goes on a school cruise
>Gets attention from bartender chick
>They have a falling out of sorts I think?
>She messages me
>WHO WOULD'VE GUESSED shows interest in like after 20 texts
>Politely tell her because she's not in terms with my brother I can't have anything to do with her
>Get the "Aww well I figured no one would want me anyway..." pity bait
>Plainly chuck it off as "someone will"

We cut messages there and never looked back, I know I'll never get hit on by anyone again as I'm 30 and 130kg

>go on omegle to meet girls
>start chatting to one
>ask for her skype
>she's super nice
>I think she's cute, likes animals, seems like she likes me, I like her personality
>ask to see a picture of her
>she's fat and has a very ugly face
>start replying less
>she asks me what's wrong
>I tell her I'm sorry but I'm not attracted to her

>>39148175
I've rejected girls and it still feels bad because none of them were serious about me. They all moved on and don't think about me anymore, because all they wanted was casual sex due to my looks.

I spent a year building up something that nearly came to be with my oneitis, only to flatout reject her in the end.

I guess karmas real, she's happy and I'm not and regret rejecting her

>asian friend put me on with his cousin
>look at her for the first time
>walk away

>hey anon my friend wants to go to prom with you
>say i'll pass
>walk away

>girl on tinder says we should chill sometime
>dont respond and unmatch

>about 3 different instances where i ghost a girl after she starts to catch feelings

Why the fuck do i keep doing this? Every night I cry myself to sleep because I'm so lonely but I'm addicted to rejecting girls

>>39148175
Yes I did kind of.

>be me
>be 13 at family friends house
>grown ups drinking and I just sit next to a campfire
>neighbor shows up with a qt3.14 13 year old girl
>she sits next to me and starts talking to me
>"whats your favourite hobby?"
>i feel like shes interrogating me
>answer "idk like swimming or something"
>she proceeds to ask me if I got a girlfriebd
>answer no
>"do you want one?"
>holy shit
>answer "i dont know" and speed walk to the house and lay down in the bed and watch tv thinking about what just happend
>she comes to the room and asks me to come outside
>say no
>she comes like two more times and I turn her down each time
>mfw

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>>39148175
im no chad either, far from it

>girl asking me if im in a relationship
>cut her off before she even finishes and say yes like an asshole (was at the time)

>declined qt 3.14 because her name was stormie and i thought it was weird

>girl hung out with me for awhile
>small flirts and stuff
>see her hanging out with much more handsome and charming chad
>stop all contact from how inferior i felt

>get jealous all the time now because ex ignored me all the time and lied then proceeded to cheat
>become a shallow asshole at everything a girl im attracted to does
>laughs at chads joke
>REEEEEE
>makes small talk with chad
>REEEEEE
>cant stop now

>now no qt 3.14s ask me if im in a relationship because ive been a cunt

>send help

This thread is proof that fat girls can be robots.

>>39148269
Just... Just...

Man why even live?

>>39148175
>one when I was eight, left a note in front of me while I was reading at the library, I threw it back at her all scrambled with a "pfff" noise when I ran into her again
>3 in middle school, for 2 of them I heard they told other people I was cute and didn't act on it, the other one told me to my face and I didn't react in any way, one of them was hot which surprised me at the time
>the last one was during my first year of college, black girl who flirted with me and was obviously interested but I wasn't so nothing happened

Over all my life has always been more about being interested in nerdy girls that I was invisible to than accepting advances of ladies who wanted my dick

>>39148175
i've never had the opportunity to reject anyone because i'm not a normie piece of shit, fuck off

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>>39150878
I know its a lot of reading

Lemme stitch together another screenshot and ill show u how its been since then

they were all fatties basically.
fat women need to be rejected because they aren't playing down to earth rules, they're trying to date up, they need more perspective which being rejected gives them.

if they never lose the weight, they most likely will never get married.

>>39148269
>don't return any of her desperate calls or e-mails
I get why you'd dump her in the first place but you could have atleast returned with her after that

>>39150902
Hurry up and post the rest bitch this is interesting

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>>39148175
I-It's a long story. I would need several posts worth of greentext to tell everything.
To sum it up, i didn't exactly reject her, i avoided her because i'm an autistic fuck.
Made me feel horrible, because i liked her as well. Suddenly, a certain event gave me a trauma and i developed a panic disorder, which led me into becoming a NEET.

It's been six years since. It still hurts.

>>39151024
If the story ends in roastie tears then please post it.

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>>39151053
It does not. After suddenly becoming a NEET and dropping out of school i've never seen her again.

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>>39150998
>>39150902
>>39150878
Here is up to the end, as of yesterday

Backstory

>In the military
>in FWB kind of thing, not dating..but we we're friendly, we'd hang out and watch movies and get food sometimes
>Going away for two weeks for training, not even that long
>planning on spending friday night and saturday with her
>tells me she cleared her whole weekend
>gets mad when I say I need sunday to prep
>I get fed up with it all and just try to end it, had ben second guessing FWB thing anyway cuz I really just wanna jerk off quick every now and then,lift, shitpost, and read 19th century Russian /lit/

THIS happens

idk what im even supposed to do I dont wanna hurt feelings, but I just am not really interested in sex

>>39148824
>mfw
No pic related

>>39151122
yikes!
im a virgin, but even I know to stay away from the cray cray

>>39148591
man cant help but feel like a piece of shit when you reject a fugly but nice girl

>>39148765
you're too accustomed to being alone, entering a relationship would be a massive change

>>39148851
no they can't

they can, however, aim too high

>>39151348
>virgin

Yeah, you don't say. She sounds like a perfectly regular girl. If you think that's cray you haven't seen shit.

>>39148175
>12 years old
>Hang out with the same circle of girls (about 4 girls)
>One of the girls asks me to go with her to the side
>We go and she starts going around in circles
>Can see that she's clearly struggling with something
>Opens her mouth and closes it without saying anything
>Then after 10 minutes of this says "A-anon I have pretty strong feelings for you I love you"
>I say nothing and go back to the group of girls
>Then I tell them what the girl said and we all start laughing like mad
>We all have tears in our eyes from laughing so hard
>The girl actually runs away in tears
>We never saw her again after this (she's alive just didn't hang out with us anymore)
>After 10 years (I'm 22 here) see her sitting with a group of people I don't know and she now weighs 200 lbs
>Remember the rejection I gave for the next 14 years and grimace at how evil I was
>I'm a 26 KHHV now

Guess I deserve this fate huh.

>>39148269
U weren't lying about the shame. I have lots of regrets too especially with my HS oneitis. I actually got to make out with her one night at a friend's. She was sitting on my lap with her glorious ass which I have never found anything similar to online or in person. Asked me why I never asked her to be my girlfriend. Be honest and tell her I'm afraid of rejection. She gives me this sad pouty look and keeps kissing me. Still don't have the balls to ask her out. Never have sex and am obsessed with her. Stop talking to her after thinking my obvious obsession is a turn off. Actually just end up never talking to her again. Feels bad

>>39148322
>Lo and behold, her idea of getting my attention is kissing another guy in front of me.
Have you told this story on r9k before I swear I've heard it.
Also, did you get any shit for turning the downie down?

>>39148401
It's supposed to challenge him and wake up his competitive instinct. Seeing how he immediately gave up says a lot about his personality. The girl dodged a lazy, unmotivated person and is probably with someone better now.

When I was in high school I asked this girl out that I worked with. Then the next day I found out she was pregnant, so I fucking aborted that mission. She definitely was crying and sending me some shit like she would never talk to me again. After a while things were less awkward at work but I was glad when she quit

>>39152630
Kek, why did y'all laugh so hard? Was she ugly or were you just being mean?

>>39151122
>>39150902
>>39150878
top kek
This is fucking sad dude

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>>39148175
This might not count but whatever
>Be 12
>Eating lunch
>7/10 comes up to me asks me if I want to go on a date
>Say no because I'm not a social person
>A couple weeks later, I ask her about it
>Her friend says she dared her to do that
>I'm not pissed until the next day
>MFW instead of forgetting it or telling them off I try to say shit like "W-What you did was m-m-mean
>They don't care and just say stuff like "Cool, okay"

>>39152995
Kids are mean fuckers. Honestly we didn't really like her. She was fugly but didn't deserve that cruel treatment. I still regret it really.

>>39151122
dump her and read the Russians, my dude, it's for the best!

>9th grade turn down emo girl because she always wore same clothes every day
I thought she would be kind of dirty
>10th grade a tall girl
She was cute and sweet but I was too busy crushing on some dumb bimbo. Missed out.
>Also 10th grade a girl next doory type
She was very sweet and actually not bad looking at all. I goofed.
>12th grade turned down several lower classmen
Wasn't being smart. Was being stupid. Any of them would have done whatever I asked.
>Post-graduation, have turned down 2
>one was a curvy/thick (not fat, just a few extra) mexican girl
She had everything in common with me but I simply was not attracted to her... I feel sorry for it
>The other was an ex-cheerleader from my HS that had dated a friend of mine
Damn she was dirty. Too dirty for a virgin like me. I was scared to even make any sexual advance on her so I ignored all of hers.

So here I am. Almost 25 and virgin. I want to turn back time and bang all of them.

>>39148175
>Have you ever rejected a girl?
Are you kidding? As long as she's single, I'm fairly certain I won't be rejecting any woman who has the balls to express interest in me.

Like six or so girls. Girls get very confused when they get rejected and try to make you feel bad.

>>39153187
wow what a pathetic, spineless faggot you are
>W-What you did was m-m-mean
I'm sure they were laughing like mad a couple of minutes later, that's just, wow.

It's pretty difficult to reject people who reject you.

Had a chance to lose my virginity to a solid 3/10 when I was 17. Turned her down and lost it 6 months later to a 7/10

>>39153592
that's good, never drop your standards, always hold them high, because you can!

>>39153494
I did become a bully in 7th and 8th grade if that makes you feel better.

>>39153777
And where do you stand now, are you still that sissy or did you toughen up? Also, how did bullying work out for you, who did you bully and how?

>>39148765
deep down you know you don't deserve their company

>>39153809
I called a special needs girl retarded behind her back
I also said a girl needed to do the same thing her dad did. He killed himself

>>39153954
>behind her back
Wow, what a bully you are!
Also
>bullying special needs people
what a fucking miserable excuse for life you are

>>39152780
I have a fear that a special needs/ disabled person will ask me out, because if I said no everyone would hate me.

>>39153998
I doubt it. I mean no one wants to date a retard. They won't hate you as long as you aren't mean about it and don't bring up her being retarded.

>>39153998
Why do you give a damn about what people think? It's better to be direct, even when there's a chance of someone being hurt, than to lie in this type of situation.

>>39153997
WHAT DO YOU WANT ME TO DO, BE A SPINELESS FAGGOT OR A BULLY? For real though, i do feel bad about bullying a special needs girl. I wasn't a spinless faggot and I learned to stand up for myself, also you're saying I'm a waste of life because I said some words?

>>39152630
sorry anon, but that was so shitty, like I would think this was bait if the genders were replaced

>>39154046
You called a mentally retarded person retarded behind her backs and you call yourself a bully or a man for that matter? You're in league of your own. That didn't make you seem tough, on the contrary, it made you even weaker in people's eyes.

>I wasn't a spineless faggot and I learned to stand up for myself
If that's your definition of "standing up" for yourself, might wanna look it in a dictionary or online, since you obviously don't know what it means. If you're going to pretend you're some tough bully, might as well do it to someone higher up the food chain and show you have real balls, as opposed to what you did here.

>>39154157
Me standing up for myself was unrelated to the girl, you idiot

yes, one was retarded she came up to me asking if i wanted to go out. i told her no sorry.

another girl i knew in high school and community college.i'm a robot who doesn't date girls. i didn't want a friend's left over. she must of forgot about me as i saw her again at a grocery store bagging. i saw her on facebook and she just had a kid.

>>39154138
Nah it did actually happen and like I said I regret it quite immensely.

>>39154197
How exactly did you "stand up" for yourself? Do tell.

>>39154228
Not him but why are you so stuck on this?

>>39154270
Got time to kill before I go to a concert.

>>39154228
One time a kid did a fakeout hit to me, and I did it back. Another time my friend hit me, and some ass came up to me and said "So anon, did that teach you not to be a little bitch?" and I said to him"Nope, just like you haven't learned
not to be a fucking cunt"
>>39154270
Fuck off and mind your own buisness, please

>>39154307
Oh okay. What concert?

>>39154352
You come across as a cunt too.

>>39148175
None, but I've had 2 girls offer to make out with me in exchange for copying my school tests' answers.

Both wouldn't have made out with me anyways, so I rejected'em.

Like 4 or 5, they were all chubby except one, but she was ugly and annoying and leaving to go back home to her country so I didn't care. I don't feel good about two or three of them, because I lied to one of them saying I had a gf even though I didn't, and the other I sorta led on but ghosted her because she was too chubby for my taste. All I want is a 6/10 who is petite, is that so much to ask for?? I'm at least a 7/10, 6/10 because I'm a manlet, but I live in a big city and finding a girl as a manlet isn't so hopeless.

>>39154362
a variety of underground metal bands, varying from nwobhm worship to grindcore.

>>39154352
and, did people fuck with you again? if not, good job!

>>39154405
he called a special needs kid retarded behind his back, do you honestly think he's someone with manners?

>>39154405
Why do you say that?
>>39154431
They still did, but I ignored or said shit bacm

>>39154485
Just a gut feeling after reading your posts here, if you're not don't mind it then.

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>>39150878
>>39150902
>>39151122
jesus I forgot how fucking needy women can be.

Anyway sometimes I get messages on OKC/POF and never reply. I dumped a gf once, over the phone and I was a bit drunk. Way she goes

>>39154485
sure showed them dear ol' chap!

>>39152955
No, it's supposed to make him jealous. Nothing more. Unfortunately for her, anon was too smart for that.

Alright anons, its time for me to tell you the story of my one and only date.

Some backstory

>not a single girl while i was in k-12 had interest in me
>it was probably the anime shirts

Now im in college, it was my second semester

>have to take a liberals arts class cause muh diversity and well rounded person meme

want to take philosophy?

>s-sure???
>first day of class do what i ususally do, show up a bit early sit somewhere the furthest away from anyone and wonder why no one loves me
>When people come to fill in the seats they avoid me because they can smell my autism.
>th-thats what that is right???

Well you see boys and girls a peculiar thing occurred, a beached whale came to rest in the seat right next to me. Its a miracle that i wasnt injured and the whale even spoke.

>"Hi"
>i look at the beast and wave and look back
Why.jpeg
>some time passes and she says "im (insert name here)"
>oh uh im anon.
>nice to meet you anon
>y-you too
>she goes to shake my hand
>reluctantly hold her small but fat hand in a poor attempt to shake it.

Why do fat girls have such ugly hands?

>she trys to make small talk and i answer with one word or less in hopes that she would take the hint
>she didnt
>somehow survive reading of the syllabus and hury out
>thank god whales dont have legs
>next class i sit right next to the professor and ta, surely i wont see the whale today
>i was wrong
>no matter where i sit she would be next to me, trying to talk.
>this goes on for like 9 weeks every tues thurs
>eventually the professor starts group projects
>because i have no friends i cant run with someone else and say im taken
>so i get grouped with the whale and her school. Or whatever a pack of whales are called.
>have to meet up to talk about the problem with god.
>while i focus on the work the girls gossip
>eventually the whale begins her mating ritual
>anon, i like you, would you want to go out sometime?
>no im really busy majoring in engineering, i doubt i can find time tbc.

>>39148175

I haven't had a girl make a move on me in 10ish years. So here's a platonic shut down instead:

>talkative girl in uni class says "hey you should sit by us (a big group) next time
>next time comes
>I sit in my usual spot away from everyone
>she says "I thought you said you were gonna sit over here"
>"...I never said that, you did"
>she starts freaking out a bit, pretends to throw down her watch like a gauntlet

I think I fucked up my chance at friends this semester. Why am I like this, bros

>oh come on what about (this time or that time)
>im seriously busy with my 18 credit hours and work
I wasnt
>comeon we can go see a movie, get lunch my treat
> think to myself if its free why not? I can turn her down without her friends there after i enjoy myself
>fine we can go
>shes estatic
>like jumping and hugs me and all high pitched
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>saturday rolls round and she pulls up
>her car is disgusting, stuff everywhere makeup cigarrets food.
>"hows it going anon?"
>g-good
>some more small talk and we pull up to star bucks
This isnt lunch.webm
>she orders some coffee and a cake i get water.
>anon dont you want something?
>no i hate coffee
>she gets triggered
>how do you not like coffee? How do you survive without it?
>coffee tastes like piss and doesnt even get me drunk.
>more pointless small talk and im getting kinda pissed off
>lets go see a movie
>We drive to the theater
>what do you wanna see anon?
>i dont give a shit
>well this is for you
>we can watch whatever
>she gets tickets to see that movie where they break into the blind guys house and he kills em all
>anon do you want popcorn?
>nope
>she orders 50$ worth of food anyways
>so a popcorn soda and some gummy worms
>sit in the back and she tries to hold my hand
BEGONE THOT
>She then puts her arm arond my shoulder and rests her head on my arm
>i constantly shift my posture and eventually she fucks off
>movies scary huh anon? im so scarred
Bitch the only thing scarry here is you
>she thinks it would be funny to throw popcorn at me so the first half the movie she randomly throws popcorn on me. I guess thats how whales feed their young
>im so frustrated that im afraid if i say anything im gonna make a scene and as a civilized person i cant do that.
>The jump scares begin and she deathgrips my right shoulder blade.
>when the jumpscare happens she would dig so deep into my shoulder with a death grip like no other
>gets to the part where the old guy bust out his frozen sperm for artificial insemination
Tbc

>jokingly say its frosty time
>she gets beyond triggered
>cant enjoy the rest of the movie
>movie ends and we argue about how they didnt deserve it
>they did
>she drives us to the farthest part of the parking lot of her place
>uh, can i go home?
>oh well, isnt there something you want to do?
>not really no.....
>she starts doing the lip licking thing and rubs my leg
>dont move
>arent you turned on?
>no
>what!?
>we sit there quietly eventually realize im probably going to walk home
>want a kiss?
>im good thx
>she gets out and tells me to get out.
>walk me to my apartment please
>we do but of course we take the scenic route
>she tells me how much fun she had
>maybe we should live together anon
W-W-WHAT!?
>she asks me when our next date is
>look dont take this the wrong way but i dont like you
>she cries
>oh boy
>she asks if its cause she fat
>yeah thats part of it
>well your not a catch yourself girls dont like twigs
Yeah thats why you want my cock
I thought youd be different i thought youd look at me for who i was
I did, it was suprisingly uglier than the outside
>tells me how i probably have a small dick and ill never please a woman
Cant please whats not there
>We go back to her apartment and she looks at me awhile
>she gives up on me and i walk home

On the bright side i never saw her again after, guess she dropped out

Oh well.

So i guess thats the kinda girl i attract op

>>39155860
>Bitch the only thing scarry here is you
fukken kek