Why do teenage girls always seem to forget about their problems

>>39135769
Girls mature emotionally quicker than boys do

>>39135769
Their problems aren't real

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>>39135856
Pretty much this I guess, they only fake it for attention

>>39135769
They receive support. Men don't

>>39135971
This. Girls are told it's okay to cry, it's okay to do this, it's okay to do that. Boys are told to man up.

If the world has an agreeable place waiting for you, that can distract from a lot.

>>39135769
taking chad's dick can make the worst of problems disappear

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>>39135769
>>39135856
>>39135909
Maybe it is because girls actually talk about their problems to their bffs or beta orbiters, they complain, they cry, they get advice and support. Their problems either will get resolved after some time with the help of other people, or will be forgotten through other stimuli those people provide. While guys will keep their problems inside, ashamed of having those in first place, will never confine to anyone, not want to bother and thinking that it is his duty to handle it by himself because he is a man after all. An attempt to share his dose of problem with family or friends will often be meet with ridicule rather than actual help. Those problems and intrusive thoughts will grow and became heavier to bear year after year, some guys will have them resolved, some problems will became less important over time, but some guys will try to hopelessly battle them on their own, but without any support from outside they are doomed to fail, those guys will then come to chans to wail about their life not trying to fix anything anymore.

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>>39136051
Well then the question arises. If you could suck Chads dick and all your problems woulld go away. Would ya suck Chads cock?

>>39136163
no cause I'm not gay

>>39136175
>no cause I'm not gay
just say no homo when your done, dude....

>>39135769
I don't think that's universally true. My problems have never gone away and unlike >>39135971 suggests, I have never really had anyone care or try to support or help me, and those who were supposed to only betrayed my trust. I don't really have anyone to talk to. Girls don't alll have the same experiences and there's plenty who have not been fortunate, you just notice us less because many of us are avoiding people as much as you are.

>>39136199
actions speak louder than words m8

>>39135769
Men have succes to suicide, they dont just try

>>39136201
If you're trying to imply that you're a girl nobody cares
please leave

>>39136222
If you ask a question about a certain demographic, don't whine when it responds.

>>39136234
there are no girls on the internet anon
you should know that

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>>39136234
>it responds
stop implying

>>39136201
How old are you? What are the problems you have?

>>39136222
>>39136260
Anon please don't be a dumbass.

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>>39136260
Oh, sweetie. You're so naive that it's almost cute

>>39135769
what part of this photo demonstrates the question ? Started out cute and then got ..... ew and wtf is she doing ? flexing in a public bathroom ?

>>39136234
Ok, I'll bite the bait: you've never received support because you've never asked.
As a guy, asking for help makes no difference.

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>>39136222
>>39136260
>>39136269
>>39136276
>>39136318
>>39136345
>fembot here
What are you doing?

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>>39136260
it's not 2005 anymore bucko

>>39136412
I don't believe in robots or fembots. But it's a person, and I care.

>>39135769
women don't consider males human and consider them expendable since males throw themselves at them from cradle only abandoning them when the wet hole stops being appealing (death, cancer, old)

Women are shit.

Whereas a man can feel incredible emotional pain and have nobody there to help, for years, because nobody cares.

>>39136260
>>39136269
Oh, sorry, I forgot absolutely no girls have ever been to 4chan before and this is a secret male only club where you have to prove that you have a dick before you start posting. For some reason I never had to go through this verification process when I started posting when /r9k/ was first made before the deletion.
>>39136276
I'm afraid of vulnerability and closeness and don't like to talk about them openly, especially in case I was ever recognised. I had an abusive childhood and I was also taught never to talk about my feelings. Now I'm often barely even sure how to, or what I am feeling, because of my alexithymia.
>>39136345
Whenever I have asked for support, I have received no help. I have gotten nothing good. What I have gotten is put down even more for my problems and abused and dismissed by people who were supposed to be there to help me. So I know what it is like not to have anyone care or try to help you, and at this point I don't expect anyone to because we're all alone and no one really gives a shit. Asking for help has only ever brought me harm, so when you say things like this, it makes it actually sound like I'd be better off if I were a guy and no one had noticed anything at all. The grass is always greener.

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>>39135769
I would love equality.
Emotional suffering for a year or more with nobody to help and nobody that cares, just because I'm a guy.
whereas emotional support throws itself at women and they get over problems instantly, because why have a heart when men are disposable? why examine yourself when it's easier to abandon and forget and fill your life with people that you didn't mentally destroy.
I. Would. Love. Equality.

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Men don't talk about their problems because they know no one cares.

>>39136459
I believe you're a woman.

now go and fucking kill yourself you roasty cunt, literally everyone wants you to fuck off.

You aren't welcome here.

So leave.

>>39136459
I'm really sorry you've gone through that. I don't think I can help you at all. Have you tried going to a therapist or anything like that?
Regardless, I hope your life gets better and you can freely identify and express your emotions.

>>39135769
>Why do teenage girls always seem to forget about their problems after some year but teenage boys almost always ends up living with their problems for the rest of their life or just an hero?
The girls who have actual problems son't get over them.
It's just that 99% of teenage girl "problems" are self inflicted for attention seeking.

>>39135769
Been bullied and siffer from bad self-esteem around 10. Caused me to be a semi shut-in. Had a very good rebound in my early teens during high school but since a year or so I've been feeling real fucking deppressed all the time, I can't even cross the street without feeling judged

Their problems are a fucking joke for the most part

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>>39135769
>bipolar
>depression
>anxiety
>aspergers
>all of this because of mentally abusive mom, bullies and just generally being shut in al lthe time

Neither mom or anyone else never tok me serious so I couldn't see an therapist until I became an adult myself but now it's too late to get any serious help. I'm not a teenager anymore so I can't go to those teenage "wards" or rehabs. but I'm not a full adult either at least I don't feel like it, so I don't wanna go somewhere I'm put together with crazy grown up men

I'll probably end up on disabilitybux then an hero someday

>>39136540
What makes you think anyone would care if you were a girl? No one has ever cared about me. because you have had bad experiences, you are just prone to wondering what it would be like if circumstances were different. Maybe things could be better, right? Other people don't have it as bad, they can't have it as bad. But the world isn't as good as that, everything is shit and it doesn't matter who you are, because we're all disposable and worthless. "Well being is vain and always fades to nothing." The truth is no matter who we are, that we will all die alone and the only ones who will ever care for us are ourselves, and that we should accept that. And everything is absolutely meaningless and turns to dust.
>>39136579
I'm incapable of going through with that and it's pointless anyway. It might even be impossible and just another thing we are capable of naively dreaming about, ever read about quantum suicide? Maybe we are all trapped in this hell for eternity, everything doomed to happen over and over and over.
>>39136592
I think therapy is pointless too. It doesn't change anything, at best, it might help you learn to cope with how bad things really are. But what's the difference between that and delusional thinking? All it is, is paying someone who sees you as an object and source of income, to pretend to care in hopes that it somehow makes things better. it won't. Thanks for your well wishes, though.

>>39136540
>to abandon and forget and fill your life with people that you didn't mentally destroy.

2 deep 4 me.

describes my ex a lot and i've known it for a while. If I were to ever tell her something like this she will stop talking to me like she has before though so I have to keep it in.

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>>39136686
>still pretending
at least prove yourself, you know the rules

>>39136752
Anon the rules say not to post pictures of yourself. Their gender doesn't matter anyway. Kindly fuck off.

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>>39136772
>Their gender doesn't matter anyway.
You can stop now

>>39136752
I'm not pretending. I am sorry if expressing my real feelings is simply too hard for you to believe. But as >>39136772 says the point isn't really my gender, it's that no matter who you are, the idea that things could be better or will get better is a lie. It's nonsense, all the hope that good things will happen and everything will improve, or that they would be better in another circumstance. No, you are fucked, this is your life, and you wouldn't ever be better off because you are you.

>>39136686
I'm not going to tell you shit.

I had a friend named Daisy and she was a total lying cunt and basically used the fact she was a woman to destroy me mentally.

There are thousands of reasons and factual evidence to support the undebatable fact that women are believed and supported way more than any man, and in any man/woman scenario it's automatically assumed a man is entirely wrong even though that is not true.

>>39135769
girls live with the problems too, but the thing is that they have plenty of distractions. they NEED distractions such as social media or attention from guys to make them forget about their shit lives. guys wallow in loneliness with substance abuse or media escapism.

>>39136800
Stop what? Male or female, they're still suffering.

>>39136812
I still think your life could improve eventually. Please don't give up hope.

>>39136824
>destroy me mentally.
Then your opinion can't really be trusted, can it?

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>>39136878
>Stop what?
Pretending to care. Even if it is a female which it's obviously not she wont have sex with you anyway

>>39136824
>I had a friend named Daisy and she was a total lying cunt and basically used the fact she was a woman to destroy me mentally.
Destroyed mentally by one person? Wow, sounds like you've had a real shit life if that's all you've gone through.
>There are thousands of reasons and factual evidence to support the undebatable fact that women are believed and supported way more than any man, and in any man/woman scenario it's automatically assumed a man is entirely wrong even though that is not true.
Everything sucks for everyone and falling into that sort of thinking is just a coping mechanism to justify your own experiences specifically, to somehow feel like you are a unique victim, or an unacknowledged, uniquely victimised demographic whose experiences deserve exceptional sympathy. But you have too much ego and your misery isn't that special, and that's the same sort of crap people like "sjws" or on /pol/ fall into.
>>39136862
>guys wallow in loneliness with substance abuse or media escapism.
Do you think girls don't do this? How many have you spoken to? Because I've met plenty who do the same thing, and I'm plenty happy to wallow in loneliness with substance abuse too. It's the only proper way to forget that you exist and the pain of being a human being.
>>39136912
Caring is always pretend, but at least sometimes such as when it's anonymous and there's no clear benefit out of it, it can at least look nice.

>>39136912
Anon, I'm not pretending. I do care. I'm going to pursue a career that involes helping people. I don't care if they have a penis or not. I don't want to sex it.

http://www.soulsphere.org/img/maze.swf

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>>39136955
>I'm going to pursue a career that involes helping people
>I don't want to sex it.
I think you're lying, stop being an orbiter you're only reinforcing the behaviour

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Men have a unique chemical secreted from the brain that forces them to remember unpleasant experiences better/recalls them often

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>>39136955
>I don't care if they have a penis or not
I guess that's why you're only talking to the pretending female?
fuck off with your whiteknighting

>>39136953
/pol/ is a bunch of fat, dumb virgins

sjw's are a bunch of fat, dumb undesirable females.

highlighting that doesn't mean anything, well done, you understand simple outlet of pain through shitposting.

And yes, one person. She flipped me from depressive to murderous. Took me a long time to attempt to flip back.

I despise women now, I will forever.

>>39137041
and people on /r9k/ who spout the things you do are anything other than that? Sounds like some serious cognitive dissonance.
>And yes, one person. She flipped me from depressive to murderous. Took me a long time to attempt to flip back.
It's sad this is the sort of thing people here actually think is so bad, such a traumatising and negative experience. You haven't been through anything.

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>>39137041
>I despise women
Fuck women. Dumb fat whores whose only purpose is to hand over despair and pain. Fuck them. They can fuck each other or fuck niggers. I don't care if my race goes extinct. They'll be the ones feeling the pain when they end up like spinsters or when they have a cage full of nigglets running around

>>39136978
I'm not orbiting, buddy.

>>39137022
They're the only one I noticed that sounded like they wanted help/support.

>>39136146
this answers it perfectly. men's role is to suffer silently, males are expendable after all.

>>39137131
Don't let their bitterness annoy you, I appreciate how you were trying to be nice.

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>>39137131
>I'm not orbiting
>I noticed that sounded like they wanted help/support

>"help help I'm a woman in distress!"
>"m'lady"

>>39137205
Maybe you have orbited enough that you are projecting too much.

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>>39137224
>"huh, no you! I know you are but what am I"?

>>39135769
Women get pandered through their whole life while men get blamed for every single thing they do, no wonder men develop more mental illness than women since we must work for everything.

>>39135769
weakness is feminine. being emotional and feeble is not only accepted but even appreciated when it comes from women. on the other hand, a man who displays weakness is completely shunned by men and especially by women.

>>39135769
Left>>right wtf happened

>>39135769
Well for one thing, women mature a lot sooner than men. This is so they can be ready to bear children as soon as possible because they have such a limited time frame. It's why often times the male in a couple is older, or possibly even a decade older.

>>39136028
>This. Girls are told it's okay to cry, it's okay to do this, it's okay to do that. Boys are told to man up.

Not in the current year buddy, nowadays we are told its ok to vocalize our problems and distress but I find the major problem is that we don't know how to make others understand our pain.

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>>39135909
>>39136146
Ok you can stop now

>>39137369
culture doesn't change biology. males are disposable and its not just among humans, but across all living creatures. a weak man is an useless man and will be treated as such.

>>39136459
>massreply
Obvs fembot probably not a retarded newfag

>>39137291
Teh funny part is it's not the same person you were talking to

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>>39135787
>girls
>emotionally mature
Ha..... haha......... ha.............................

>>39137369
>Not in the current year
we're ot growing up in the current year, we're already adults

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>>39136146
This is also explains why males are better artistically as well.

Since men are unable to rectify, let alone speak their problems, they're left in solitude and are simmering in potent self defeat. Introspection is often the cornerstone of wit and men are full of it.

The long period of introspection allows them to create a work of art that subtly reflects their feelings, since they're unable to express it interpersonally, in turn, it makes it very relatable because most are suffering similar problems.

Its why males are better writers, comedians, philosophers, architects, musicians, actors, directors, and artists.

Virginia Woolf would pretty much destroy this argument but she lived a traditionally male lifestyle so no

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>>39137464
>heh you couldn't distinguish two people on an anonymous website?
>trolled yo hard there buddy!

>>39137342
To add to this, just think of a woman at 20 and then at 30. Her maturity is exactly the same, nothing changes. She will have more experience and know more stuff but her maturity already peaked. Now think of a male at 20 and then at 30. He changes a lot.

>>39137537
It's actually true

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-athletes-way/201312/scientists-identify-why-girls-often-mature-faster-boys

>>39137600
Don't be so hard on yourself man, you don't have to get posting pics making fun of yourself now. Just relax.

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>>39137654
>I know you are but what am I! I know you ar ebut what am I!"

>>39137680
Just chill out dude, why are you so upset?

>>39137680
At least you said the same thing to the same person both times.

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>>39137722
>I ran out of so I'm gonna call you mad now, heh take that!

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>>39137618
>gender spectrum
>intersex
lost all credibility

>>39136412
as a fembot, im offended you dont believe me to be a fembot
suck my dick

>>39135769
Ugh, she got fat. Gross.

>>39135769
Because we lost the good fight anon, the feminists won.

>>39137968
fembot here
I was actually trolling all along

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I've tried talking about my troubles with people, it doesn't work out and once a person realize you aren't whole, that you are broken, messed up, damaged they will drop you from any sort of contact or conversation.
It happened three times.
my ex, a former "friend", and another friend.

Now I bottle them up while opening bottles.

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>>39137577
this is the thinking man's post right here, except for the 3dpd pic

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>>39138534
my bad

ill post a cute gal

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>>39137940
> I dont like those words so this can't be true

This is literally you

>>39138132
fembot here, come to D U E S S E L D O R F and become my gf!

>>39138721
Not him but these terms don't hold much scientific credibility

>>39135769
>girl
>will live with my teenage issues for the rest of my life
I can't even be a girl right fuck.

>>39139222
Not him either, but what do you mean?

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>>39135909
same shit happened to me
>be depressed, abused friendless skeletor
>meet anorexic emo qt
>would actually go as far as to say we were very good friends
used to sneak out together at night and go to those shitty pre-teen parties
>she got a bf in early high school, guy was in my class
>completely changed over the course of some years
>they were together for almost 5 years
>he cheated on her 3 times
>in the end they broke up
>she got new bf and an appartment
>were together for almsot a year before they broke up cus he cheated
>now she's just fucking Chads and "traveling" liek any other woman


I don't think I would have been better for her but the way she just left me and changed herself makes me wanna fucking kill myself

>be girl
>have emotional problems in teenage years
>don't realize girls get unconditional support
>scared people will just think I'm crazy or something
>never tell anyone ever
I wish my younger self knew this shit

>>39135769
Because women are raised to be strong young men particularly white men are treated like trash and raised to be cucks

>>39139491
Wrong, women are raised to be weaker than ever, everyone is just supposed to accommodate them.

All the people I know who cling to things that happened decades ago are women.

>>39139437
Damn, you won the 50/50 at birth and still fucked it up.

>>39139770
That's because men won't tell you about their problems durrrrrrrrr

>>39135769
Because they're doing it for attention, like a child screaming in a store, and biological impulse leads to them being comforted and given hugsies. After all, women are vulnerable and more important on the most primal level than men so they deserve to be pampered and have their ego fed until they're so bloated you could mistake it for their niglett-inflated bellies.

Men on the other hand are supposed to be the strong ones, the powerful ones, the ones who kill shit and build and do everything that involves the risk of losing life and limb. A man who suffers from inner turmoil of any kind is not an ideal man, he is weak and destined to be thrown to the sidelines by the rest of the monkeys. Tortured, fucked with and tormented endlessly for their amusement while they jerk themselves off perpetually over pathetic false ideals of equality and tolerance they know deep down in their thick fucking skulls to be nothing but a facade to make themselves feel like they're better than apes. This is why psychologists either refuse to work with you or take on a passive-aggressive, snide, mocking tone if you go to them, as they aren't meant to deal with ACTUAL problems, just placate normie fuckwads when they're sad everything isn't going their way. You're a freak after all, and freaks don't get love or happiness. This of course leaves the mental asylums, but the goal of those places isn't to fix you: it's to experiment on you. They might not (officially) be allowed to use shock or lobotomies anymore, but the goal hasn't changed. Perform freakish experiments on the retards, the freaks, the unworthy, the weak, and by ruining them even further gain knowledge on how to better the "comfort" sessions for the strong. If you were unlucky enough to be born a paranoid schizophrenic or with ADHD or anything else like that, you aren't viewed as a normal human anymore. You are a freak, and an outsider, and that's where you're destined to stay, until the day you die.