Does sex feel like a performance to guys?
Sometimes when I am fucking my SO (especially at the beginning of our relationship) it feels like he's working hard instead of getting absorbed by the pleasure of sex like I tend to. He gets this look on his face that's a mixture of concentration/determination. It really fucking turns me on, but at the same time...I don't think have an equivalent expression, even if I'm 'trying', like riding him hard or giving a hj/bj, it never feels like something that requires a lot of mental work and I often get 'lost' in sex, even when I'm the more active partner.
I sometimes wonder if my boyfriend doesn't attain the same level of sex-drunkeness that I do because he's so wrapped up in the 'performance' of it. I'm not asking for advice, just trying to elaborate a bit.
>>39127348
Go back to bed dude you're not a girl
My bf says he gets off on getting me off, i don't believe him but w.e
>>39127348
>Sometimes when I am fucking my SO
What has this board come to?
>>39127348
Dunno if it's a performance, but it definitely feels more like something you do TO someone.
>>39127348
>SO
Hello ruddit friend
All men are like this. Men can't get lost in sex as much, we are never 100% gone. It's evolutionary or some shit.
>>39127348
You have to concentrate or your dick will go floppy
>>39127348
pretty much
sex is way more enjoyable for roasties
jerking off is less exhausting and has the same result
>>39127406
>What has this board come to?
Full circle, back to the time before feelers ruined it.
>>39127348
Sex is work.
It was amazing when I first started getting it regularly. But now it's basically 99% putting in work to make her happy, when I'd rather (quite literally) pound away for 2 to 3 minutes, cum and go back to playing video games or fall asleep.
>>39127348
>Sometimes when I am fucking my SO (especially at the beginning of our relationship)
GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
>>39127348
Why are you asking this on a board where at least half of the men are lonely virgins?
Sex is hard work. So far all my girls have enjoyed it hard and rough, and due to fapping so much, I can do just that. It's gotten to the point that I regularly keep pounding her hard, even though I'm orgasming (without her knowing). It's not a good feeling at all, but in that moment I'm at it 100% and it always makes them orgasm - but the crazy 'my legs start shaking, rolling eyes'-kind of orgasm.
I'm always exhausted and a sweaty mess after sex. It's always up to me to perform. I love having sex when I have an excuse. 'Oh, I have an headache/stressed/injury, I can only go at it slowly today sorry'. Even then 9 out of 10 it still ends up with the former because they get into it and I feel the pressure to perform regardless.
I can only recall two occasions where I was sex-drunk and actually wanted to fuck her as hard as I did. That was amazing. Once after a fight, once during a vacation.
>>39127487
The feelers were always a part of this board, it's the main reason why it was brought back.
/soc/ and /b/ are the boards you were looking for. Plenty of normalfags there,
>>39127348
get a stick, roll a pillow. try to fuck the pillow with it as fast and hard as you can non stop
>>39127609
Just to clarify: sex is effort, like the effort I would put into exercise. It's not about relaxing, enjoyment or whatever at all. It's work, and I suppose there's 'fun' in work, but mehhh.
I don't enjoy sex very much. That's really it. I love big fat tits though. Could play with those all day every day.
>>39127348
You should be asking on /adv/ you stupid normie slut
If you look at it the right way, everything is a performance.
>>39127630
>The feelers were always a part of this board, it's the main reason why it was brought back.
They were also the reason it was deleted in the first place.
>/soc/ and /b/ are the boards you were looking for. Plenty of normalfags there,
Feelers ARE normalfags. They're just in denial.
>>39127348
my first two gf i could gave them numerous orgasms during sex, the first one was legit virgin and the second one had multiple partners before.
after we had a baby she got kind of loose and lost feelings in her pussy for months, deprivating me of gratification.
when we divorced i tried fucking my new bipolar gf and she couldn't orgasm.
after that i fucked a black girl and she couldn't orgasm from my small white cock.
now i feel like i cannot give a girl an orgasm anymore and like trying would be another painful and rewardless effort.
so i don't do sex anymore basically. i even have trouble masturbating.
Yes yes it does
Imagine trying to enjoy sex when your thigh muscles are cramping, you're constantly trying not to cum, while doing the cardio of a sprint while working your core and doing a plank/sit up.
I'm a bit resentful at how lazy and selfish most women are in bed. they don't appreciate how difficult it is
Post tits or gtfo
The ONLY reason someone would mention being a girl in an OP is for bait. There is nothing interesting or insightful about being a woman.
>>39127348
It's true. Every single part of a relationship is work for men. Even the fun parts like sex.
If he didn't perform like that you wouldn't be with him.
Thread is bait. Op is faggot. My fat roastie wife won't fuck anymore. Thanks for throwing sex in my face. I came here to be with the unfeeling robots.
>>39127609
>>39127642
There's additionally all this pressure to perform. Of course you get lost in it OP, you're lying back and getting pounded.
Women expect this 'alfa' pound robot that can restrain them and pin them down while pounding. It's very straining after 20 minutes of pounding.
>>39127757
It's even worse when they want you to choke them and you have to divert your attention between fucking them and choking them and making sure you aren't killing them. It's quite al ot to do all at once.
>>39127872
I hate choking because instead of being able to plank with two hands while pounding I now have to do it with one hand while pounding. It's significantly more straining.
>>39127456
More bang for the buck so to speak. Looking back I don't know if I could even maintain interest in the act after a few minutes
My girlfriend wants me to stab her with a fork while we have sex
Very difficult putting enough pressure to hurt but not enough to injir muh grill while I pound her gash like a Asian toddlers skull into a curb
>>39127374
I personally get off on making girls cum, but only because they fall so heavily in love with you that you can fuck them however you want wherever you want and never put in any effort or time
Lol this thread everyone larping their asses off
>>39127959
>i don't have sex so everyone else must be lying
>>39127348
Of course sex is work for men, you stupid sows just need to lay there like a dead trout and no one will bitch no matter how much you come, man can make himself come in a lubed sock, your hole just feels better
On the other hand the man has to make sure he doesn't go over the edge too soon or the woman will ruin his reputation, women are so self centered it is hilarious
>"why u no get lost in the feeling?"
Because that leads to coming and we only get one until we go on slight cooldown
Well played troll, have a (you) and a rant
>>39127374
>My bf says he gets off on getting me off, i don't believe him but w.e
yeah because getting a girl off is like being a safecracker who manages to open a bank vault filled with hundreds of thousands of dollars.
Bunch of amateurs
my wife has a fetish with dental work. Bitch makes me give her a oral exam and cleaning while I slide my slender penis lovingly in and out of her roastie
>>39128128
$10 says some dentist gassed her and fucked her when she was young
>>39127348
You are correct OP, sex for guys is just to pleasure girls, a lot of times i can't even cum while she's laying there exhausted after 3 orgasms
But it's all for the best, i like to see her moan and tremble, it gives me a lot of pleasure
>>39128143
I'm literally shaking thinking about it. But last month she cucked me by making me take her to a real dentist appointment
I felt sick watching him work her over the whole time.
>>39128181
why do you do that to yourself?
>>39128181
>the dental cuckold
why
>>39128181
Thats it, uninstalling 4chan
>>39127348
I'm a fatass, completely out of shape. Sex was exhausting. Luckily my ex liked being on top.
i've never had a long relationship, but yes definetly work
First, and worst of all, it's the fact that you know she will talk about the whole affair in detail with all her friends. This get's even worse if you're in the same UNI class or have some common friends and social groups. And it's not like "i slept with him" but way to personal shit in my opinion. At least boys just goes "I banged her, it was wild" and then the girls slutshame each other.
Another thing is the orgasm control. You can't come too soon so when you first feel like you're about to 'pop' you slow down and get control again, okay fair. But then when you're not even close, you're both tierd and you're not that into it anymore she'll suddenly go "mhh come for me" and expect you to find her so hot that you'll just instantly burst
it rarly happens that i just have animalistic sex with someone and don't care at all
Jesus H. Christ, the absolute state of this board.
>>39129134
>But then when you're not even close, you're both tierd and you're not that into it anymore she'll suddenly go "mhh come for me" and expect you to find her so hot that you'll just instantly burst
Holy shit I thought I was the only one. The only girl I've slept with broke it off partly because she couldn't make me cum. Aka she would tell me she wanted me to cum and if it didn't happen within the next 30 seconds she would just decide we were done.
Robots aren't safe, not even on our own board.
>>39127348
>Does sex feel like a performance to guys?
Yes. I've only ever had one gf, and idk if it's because she's loose or something but the physical sensation of fucking her really doesn't feel all that great. I don't even cum from penetration most of the time and need her to finish me of with her mouth. On top of that I'm just bad at maintaining a rythm for some reason, so I have to really concentrate on it.
I'm basically doing it for her, because she loves getting railed and manhandled, and it feels rewarding to see the "getting lost in sex" thing you were talking about happening to her.
Time to brag
I'm very /fit/ and have Tindered a lot in Malaysia while being white. I have fucked over 30 girls in my life as a 26 year old.
Sex is inherently more pleasurable for females then it is for men. If you fuck well girls are a quivering
mess afterwards and out-of-their-minds. Sex is also inherently a male performance, girls can do what... cowgirl? Reverse cowgirl? And most of them do a very bad job at it. They don't even want to do it (and why should they put in any work?). Most of them want light domination from begin to end so they can just zone out en get fucked.
Sometimes when i fuck girls i disassociate with the situation and think "this shit is ridiculous, benis goes into vageen who cares".
Your husband realises that girls are either lazy / more zoned out during sex and has a look of determination on his face because he IS performing. He's going to fuck the shit out of you.
It he doesn't, you'll leave him.
>>39127348
Maybe it wouldn't be just a performance for him in bed if you, y'know, moved every once in a while.
>>39127374
It feels more like a performance desu.
>>39127374
it strokes our egos
>>39129670
kinda this tbqhimho
I also get that zoned out feeling, it's almost mechanical; in and out, in and out. Sometimes i look down at her, almost bored, and count the minutes until it socially acceptable for me to get out of her sloppy vagina
and ofc the light domination that -everygirlever- want is exhausting and she expects you to do everything right. Get off her bra at first try, be instantly hard as a rock and ready to go, 5 minutes in missionary, 5 in doggy and then come right away when she feels like it's time to stop. It's like a fucking step by step cake recipe where you'll slightly change the toppings from time to time.
Honestly i mostly enjoy sex if it's a blowjob, she does all the work (in a "just lay down and i'll take care of you sweetie" way) or you can be truly dominate with her not just the light "fuck me kinda hard but don't disrespect my gender way"
>>39127374
Sometimes i like making a girl cum more than cumming myself, i dont think its common but some guys are like that
After a while my lumbar, quads or hip flexors start to ache and lactic acid builds up. But I keep going for her is she's really into whatever position we're doing.
Pick up and fucking in the air wears me out the most but I get good speed and penetration so I keep doing it.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9dbjO3l5TcY
>>39127348
Because all the girl does is lay there like a dead fish of course the guy is gonna do all the work.
>>39129500
>Aka she would tell me she wanted me to cum and if it didn't happen within the next 30 seconds she would just decide we were done.
What a keeper.
If I'd have a million dollars for every gf I fucked, I'd be fucking broke.
DFB = dead fish bitch
LCDFB = loose cunt dead fish bitch
GFD = gentle female dominance / femdom
Find a pompoiress.
>>39127582
>half
Keep telling yourself that, my friendo.
Is it true, normalfags? Do most women just lay there and expect you to do all the work?
Chads, give me a ratio of good reciprocants to bad ones.
I think this is a wrong site to ask such question
>>39130583
That's pretty cool
>>39130643
You just need to tell them what to do mostly. But even my gf who don't even masturbate wanted to deep throat me(she couldn't do it though).
Guys always fap so they usually know how to cum pretty fast and what he likes the most, girls on the other hand don't even know what an orgasm is like, so you have to play with her and do everything
>>39130583
Thats cool
I guess i have to try and find one of these holes now
>>39130583
Jesus Christ, a woman who could do even half of that would never lose her husband.
>>39127348
Uhhjjjj girls name?????
>>39131110
Generic whore number 5935
>>39130213
It basically meant "this is starting to hurt so hurry up" and it would stress me out so badly I'd almost go limp. It's pretty much ruined ever wanting to have sex for me.
>>39131206
Did you try having her finish you with her mouth/hand?
>>39127582
You do understand that us being virgins is a meme right?
We only pretend to be virgins, i've had a gf who I bang at least twice per week and even I claim to be a khv
>>39131303
speak for yourself.
originalitomescalito
>>39131330
Sorry to tell you this, anon, but he's right, every single person here only pretends to be depressed loser virgins.
>>39127406
All of my this. There is no more stale, politically correct, redditesque speak than SO.
Fuck off. Its your BOYFRIEND, or GIRLFRIEND, there only two genders and these words reflect that.
>>39131644
>Significant other is the part of that greentext he took offense with
You're not a real robot.