who here ugly
>20
>super horny all the time because of testosterone or some shit idk, more so than any other time in my life even when a teen
>realize I need a gf or a fwb, doctor even told me explicitly that I should get a gf
>neet due to medical problems so can't meet girls at university or the like
>decide tinder is my best option since craigslist seems sketchy as hell
>have tinder for literally months, swiping on a fuck ton of girls, probably have about a 1-5% match rate
>even tinder cows don't want me
>every girl who says they want to meet just ghosts me after I ask what time we should meet
>see screenshots of chads getting girls hitting them up first
>see other conversations with average to above average guys easily convincing a girl to meet after just a few messages while it's like pulling teeth for me, and even then they just ghost me
>realize that I am super ugly and that's why girls don't meet with me
>realize that personality is a meme that only matters when girls are picking between guys they are already physically attracted to and even then if one is better looking she will just go with him regardless of 'personality', literally only matters if you are super autistic in which case you are fucked
>realize I am destined to be super horny all the time due to millions of generations of sexual reproduction
>realize I am so ugly that I will eternally have these desires unfulfilled, doctor literally told me to get a gf and I'm too ugly to
>become even more depressed
so, who else here ugly, share your green texts, attempted hookups, ugly feels
>>39049480
at least you tried man. im too much of a pussy to even try tinder.
>>39049480
i think it's time to get that life-sized sex doll anon! :)
>>39049734
can't since i live with my parents, my mom is super christian, and if they found me with one they'd think i was insane and either kick me out or try to get me institutionalized or some crazy shit despite it being the most basic human urge. I'm basically fucked, the only way I'm not is literally.
>>39049480
I could send 50 messages on a dating app with nothing but big women with it being a basic "hey" and they won't even acknowledge my message 99% of the time.
Fuck people who tell me to put myself out there.
>>39049480
I feel your pain brother. I'm in the same boat. I'm a 5"8 white blonde male and women have always rejected me. I'll give you a tip though, if you do no fap and no porn after a couple of months you won't feel those sexual desireness and horniness and you will feel more happier because your dopamine will be directed to everyday pleasures which will feel more intense rather than porn and fapping.
>>39049850
move out. that really helps when you are trying to get a girl
>>39049888
yup, literally the only thing that matters is how good looking you are
>>39049903
maybe, I can't make it that many months though and it sounds unhealthy not to ejaculate for months, not to mention the only thing I do anymore is browse 4chan and play league, but league makes me horny because of all the hot girl champs which would make nofap basically impossible.
>>39049940
I can't since I can't hold a job due to being disabled, like I said my life is completely fucked.
>>39049951
>it sounds unhealthy not to ejaculate for months
It's not, if you are worried about blue balls that is a myth. Your body adjusts and quits producing sperm and the sperm left in your testicles gets broken down and sent back to your bloodstream.
https://www.thenakedscientists.com/articles/questions/what-happens-sperm-isnt-ejaculated
You can do it, get free will and strength. Or you will continue to be miserable because you are doing yourself no service by keeping your sexual desires hyped up and ready because of your constant ejaculation. Put to sleep your sexual desires and your mind and body will be more free thus more happier.
step up your tinder game, it's really not that hard. i fuck ~8 different girls a month and i'm a 7/10 at best
>>39050000
hmmm I might then if things get dire enough, it would certainly make my life less of a living hell to not have to worry about unfulfilled sexual desire anymore if what you say is true, I haven't totally given up yet though, but I might do this if it becomes too much
>>39050010
obvious bait gtfo
i think these posts are always funny because the OP always assumes he has a 10/10 personality...
tfw not ugly
just retarded
>>39050074
>obvious bait
actually it's true
>>39050098
haha yeah what a dickhead for not being incredibly charismatic and personable
>>39050000
Damn, nice quads.
>>39049480
>be ugly
>don't even try because I'll just be ridiculed even more
>>39050098
I don't, if you think personality matters beyond not being completely autistic then you're either a baiting troll, dumb or both
>>39050156
I can relate, realizing that looks are the only thing that matters to women is the ultimate truth pill on dating and women.
>>39049544
pussies out pls. U have to be ugly to post here.
>made out with a 3/10 roastie on a festival
>talk with her after that
>add her on facebook in front of her eyes
>she didnt add me back
She was the only girl I ever kissed. Guess I was too ugly even for a horselooking one.
>barely any match on tinder. I think my ratio is way worse than 1:20.
tinder here is not for hookups though, and i dont swipe 1/10 fat, igloos right, because my virgin friends are matching with qts.
>>39050156
>don't even try because I'll just be ridiculed even more
The more you try the more pathetic you look in people's eyes.
>>39050413
yup, it got so bad i didn't even care about this, aggressively pursued all the girls talking back to me and was still ghosted etc. after i asked what time we should meet. it seems like my only realistic option at this point is the nofap thing that guys mentioned.
but like you said nothing feels more pathetic then going all out and still failing to attract a roasty simply because you are ugly as fuck. no asset can make up for being ugly, even the billionaires who are way less good looking than their wives have wives who secretly hate and are despise them.
>>39049480
get /fit/ in some time you will still be ugly in the face but overall you can get atl 2 points up on the 1-10 scale by having a good body
>>39049480
I got the full package: negative canthal tilt, weak jaw, recessed chin, long midface. It's over for us boyo.
>>39050494
Bull fucking shit. I have been going to the gym for 3 years and have a pretty good body, but it hasn't helped me one bit when it comes to dating. Women don;t care about an attractive body if it is attached to an ugly face.
>>39050565
>not sure how ugly I am, maybe I'm an underconfident average all this time
>every time somebody mentions an ugly facial feature, I have it
>tfw I finally realize I'm considered the worst of the worst
>>39050626
I know that feel man. It truly feels soul crushing to be bottom of the barrel. The only hope we have left is VR. It's either that or the rope.
>>39050583
there might be a host of different reasons for that but lets assume you just are that 1% of people that even with a awesome body good clothing and good social skills still cant attract atl a 4 well then fuck im sorry for you but such is life focus on philosophical pursuites/religion/your job etc to find some meaning in life well thats my 2 cents
>>39050727
Honestly, at this point I'm just waiting till my grandma dies so I can sui guilt free. There is no point in playing a rigged game.
>>39050778
thats an out too, although i cant understand how you could not want to do atl something of meaning fuck like climbing a fucking mountain anything in this life but oh well i hope i never do. tying all of your selfworth with being with a women is bad and wrong(imho tying it with anything external is). I recommend reading stoic literature, maybe Seneca would suit you the best it got me through some hard patches in life but then again i cant imagine being you so idk. i wish you the best
There is nothing, NOTHING that condemns one more to a life of solitude than an ugly mug and an insecurity about said ugly mug.
Any attempt you make to try to wet some girls pussy will ALMOST ALWAYS end in failure and eviscerate what little self confidence you have, and even if it doesnt, it will never go very far due to your laughably low self esteem.
Even if a girl doesnt reject you, you will constantly be bombarded with images of your own ugly mug as you go out on date, lean in for a kiss, and etc.
Every moment that you spend with another woman, who can, by miracle, stand to stomach your fucking FACE will be a long arduous marathon of self assurances and mental masturbation.
And inevitably, either you or your partner will get sick of your insecure acceptance seeking ass and boot your ass back to square one.
You KNOW youre ugly. And youre ashamed of it. THIS is the truest curse of them all.
>>39049480
Hang in there. 5-10 years until AI robo waifus. They will be so awesome even chads will dumb roasties.
>>39050910
Thanks man, I appreciate the kind words, but I made up my mind a long time ago.
>>39051055
*only applies to men
>be fat during most of school and childhood
>0 confidence and 0 experience with girls because of this
>finally lose weight, in my 20s now
>fucked for life by the lack of experience and by my low self esteem because I still have the bullied fat kid mindset
>>39051134
That guy was clearly gay, though. Look at his feet in the """first kiss""" pic, the way they're pointed towards each other. Very effeminate pose. He gay as fuck.
>>39051189
Kek. You almost had me for a second.
>>39049480
I don't have any stories, ever since girls in mid school laughed at how ugly and weak I was careful not to approach any ever again, even my grandma doesn't ask me about my social life, one look at me is enough for her
>visiting mexico
>im not ugly, but im not attractive
>im as normal as it gets
>im chubby
>i dress somewhat above average but nothing too extravagant
>go to a dance that has mexican country music called banda
>fucking hate that music but when im drunk it gets me moving
>all the guys are wearing plaid button ups with a vest over it with jeans and boots
>im wore a biker jacket with a black longlined shirt with distressed black tapered jeans with a black and white plaid shirt tied around my waist with adidas superstars
>feeling insecure
>drink henessey with my cousins
>feeling confident
>ask a thicccc girl out to dance
>looks scans me from my to my toes, laughs, and accepts
>feeling jnsecure again
> dont talk to her
>ask out 6 other girls to dance
>all do the same the shit but in different ways
>i dont talk to any of them because i felt like i creep them out
>stop dancing and drink more witb my cousins
>watch one cousin make out with the first girl i danced with
>another starts walking away with a girl
>slowly all my cousins leave to go dance
>i wanted to just go home and play hearthstone
>im stuck with their jackets, bottles, and purses
I felt like shit, but atleast i tried. They later asked me if i enjoyed the dance or not, told them i loved it. They invited me lots of other times but i declined. I realized girls would rather dance with a mexican chad that dresses cookie cutter like all the other mexican chads. Literally, same outfit but different colors. They invited me to a university party but i already know that im just going to get drunk alone, but i accepted. I still dont know why the fuck i accepted but i guess i said yes so that i dont look like a dick. I dont head back to oregon until the end of september and i dont think i can last very long with saying no to everything. I use to be REALLY fucking awkward back in highschool, but its been 2 years since i graduated and i learned it was my "friends" holding me back.
Gimme advice for the party plz
>>39051147
Is this what I'll be destined for?
Im18 and losing weight, never had a gf
>it's another "Mercy will only heal the other 2 people in her party and ignore the rest of the team" episode
>>39051793
Wrong board faggot
orig orig
>>39051620
question, you went to Sonora or Chihuahua, right?
>>39051948
Hidalgo, its a beautiful shit hole