Do you think there is someone for you out there? Someone ideal

0% chance of that happening.

>>39025206
not really, I am not entitled to someone like that nor is that person entitled to me

>>39025206
There was, but she stopped coming online one day. That was three months ago and it still hurts.

yeah, she is my best friend. i have no sexual or romantical feelings towards her. she IS my soulmate.

>>39025302
Most beta thing I've read.
>i have no sexual or romantical feelings towards her
Only because you know it would not be mutual.

>>39025366
im a heterosexual girl m8

>>39025381
This thread was obviously about an ideal romantic partner, dumb slut.

Also be my gf

>>39025381
i will just say that too play it off in a humor related manner:
mei?

Probably not since I'm a sperg who doesn't know how to handle social interaction.

>>39025206
Yes, but meeting her would be very difficult. She would basically be my female equivalent, and I rarely go out aside from work and the library.

>>39025302
I was like this with a guy.
I'm straight but I thought I had found NY life comrade. Its a really good feel.

I was mistaken

>>39025302
That's really cute. Does she feel the same way?

>>39025206
Yes, she was working at kroger today and had purple hair.
On a side note, why do big businesses allow their employees to have crayola hair now?

>>39025381
If she's your soulmate, why aren't you scissoring her?

>>39025206
Definitely. I have friends that I get along with tremendously, literally two peas in a pod. I just have to find a girl like that.

I actually befriended one like that recently, and I would be lying if I said I didn't have a bit of a crush on her, but I don't really want to try and get together with her at the moment.

Theres 7-8 billion people out there, even if its not romantic, theres a lot of people who share your beliefs/interests/kinks/whatever.

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>meet a really qt nerdy girl in hs
>we get along pretty well
>Have no idea what to do, hs end and i've never saw her again
>It was maybe "Her"

>>39025206
Yes, but pretty hard to find considering that I talk to approximately 0.01 females a week

>>39025206
i'm not looking for anyone

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I've found her six times, but they only wanted to use me to cuck their boy friends.and I backed out being the virgin I am

>>39025512
cause i would puke, im not a lesbian

>>39025491
yes most likely, we don't really talk much about it though

>>39025466
> i was mistaken
im sorry to hear that, what happened?

>>39025405
no

>>39025395
not OBVIOUSLY cause it wasn't mentioned

>>39025597
I got really depressed and relied on him a lot for a few months and he got abusive cause he thought I has become gay for him.

>>39025523
Of the 7 billion, 3.5 billion are men; another 2.5 billion are children, elderly or generally not in the same age range as you. Of the remaining 2 billion, half are not single. Of the remaining 1 billion, about 9,500,000 do not live in the same area as you. So your 7 billion just became a much, much smaller number. In conclusion, get fucked normie.

>>39025206
Looking for your ideal is what will make you be alone forever. You really just need to find someone you like and be able to deal with the things you don't like about them.

>>39025613
yes defintely not your soulmate and also a shitty friend

glad you got out from that """friendship"""

>>39025654
>You really just need to find someone you like
And that someone needs to like me too.
I haven't had that happen before in all these years.

>>39025654
>implying that isn't nearly impossible if you aren't a normie who likes do drink, smoke and have sex.

>>39025660
He had been my friend for like 7 years but yeah I am too.

Shit like this isn't easy to see

>>39025206
I thought there were on two occasions but they always leave for someone better.
The reality is that I'm going to die alone and miserable.

Out of 3.7 billion women, sure.

Doubt I'll ever find her though.

>>39025686
wow that is a long time
but people change and those years doesn't matter if he is a piece of abusive shit at the end

i can imagine its not easy at all, but remember that you are better off without him

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I found a guy but he is either playing hard to get or is incredibly oblivious. That and his sister is making things difficult...

>>39025804
Yeah I'm not gonna talk to him again. He's asked me too but I don't wanna deal with him anymore

I just wanted to point out that at what point he was my friend and not just my "friend".

>>39025812
Probably the second one anon

No one because I am 47 and refuse to settle for used goods. I'll stay a virgin until I can get a New 18 year old virgin gf.

>>39025855
good and i hope you will find an actual good friend anon

everyone deserve one desu

>>39025909
I have some now anon they're the ones that lifted me out of some dark places.

I hope you and your bff stay friends forever

I do, but I'm powerless to do anything. I feel every second passing, wasting my time. Why the fucking fuck is it so hard?

>>39025206
>Do you think there is someone for you out there?
Probably.
>Someone ideal
No such thing.

>>39025938
im glad to hear that : D

and thanks, me too

idk
ugly smol fuccboi here
apparently im nice to talk too but too passive for someone to take an interest in me romantically

If a girl looks me in the eye, I plan my wedding on the spot

>>39026414
What makes you too ugly and passive?

>>39026532
hmm, i guess most people dont care for i look , im just insecure about most things.
idk i only talk to people from here lol, im nice so they like that i guess. I take an interest in them but i really have a dull and boring life so they dont have any reason to actually care for me.
on top of that i got mental issues lmao

for me there was but it came with a catch: we're both too depressed to talk to each other

>>39025206
>There's a huge amount of women that I'd find ideAl
>haven't found one that likes me at all
I won't settle for something outside of the range of my ideal, which is very simply
>white
>semi interesting

>>39025206
probably but i highly doubt wed ever meet due to how i dont go out of my way to talk to strangers and only go out to go to the pub once a week and get shitfaced

My girlfriend. Everything is perfect when I'm with her and problems seem so small and petty.

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She was perfect.

I was her senpai. Her support, her strong man. She thought highly of me, but it was platonic. And, that hurt deeply. Like a constant razor blade chewing through my broken heart.

And, to me, she was my moon and my sun. My beauty. My everything. We shared so much in common, it was the first time in my life I ever met someone like her. Same tastes in music. Same tastes in food, in video games (kindaaaa), movies, childhoods, parents, everything about her and I were so strikingly similar.

But, she lived far across the sea. And she did not love me back.

Time to kill myself.

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Why the fuck does Kek give me quads when I say I'm going to kill myself. What meaning does he have?

>>39027892
He had pity on you and wanted you to have SOMETHING accomplished before offing yourself

>>39027777
Jesus christ kid you are fucking pathetic. A total cuck, a hopeless specimen. It's seriously sickening. You really should kill yourself, you're absolutely irredeemable.

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>>39027920
Correct, I believe. I was wrong to question Him.

>>39025381
I was like you, she left me for a smarter boy. The worst thing that happened to me.
She doesn't talk to me anymore. All the little things about her daily life are gone.

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>>39025206
somewhere over the rainbow way up high is a place I heard of once in a lullaby

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>>39025206
>7 billion ppl, half of those are female, and approx 1bln are truly breedable
Sure thing, just ride in Zimbabwe and promise any chick there marriage, she'll just melt on you

>>39025206
No, this idea is stupid and harmful

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>>39025206
Yes but she probably got hit by a car or something, would not be surprised

>>39028090
I dont think the idea itself is stupid. Is just that even if it makes some sense via numbers alone, the chances of actually meeting that person, and even more the chances of actually being in conditions to start a relationship are minimal.

>>39025206
I've jerked off to that image set way too many times

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>>39028122
Yeah. The odds of meeting that ideal person isn't THAT low.

It's more, like you said, will anything grow from it? Long-distance stuff is too easily facilitated with the ease of access to the internet (stupid shit like Discord) and those are really just most often extremely unfruitful other than for like... playing video games, fuckin' around online, nothing real can come of it. It just ends up being negative most of the time.
Feels kind of fucking awful man?

No. I was in a relationship for two years and I fucked it up. I had my chance and I blew it.

Since then I've just gone from failure to failure and I've come to the realisation that I'm one of those people who just doesn't get a "happily ever after."

Most of the time it's bearable, but there are nights when the loneliness is soul-crushing. I don't think I'll make it through many more of those nights. I can handle being alone when I'm in a good frame of mind, but when I need any kind of love or affection, or the knowledge that someone cares about me, I don't have it.

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>>39025206
honestly, no
throughout my life, the only girls who have liked me are ones who think they know me, when they really dont
once they do know me, they get instantly unattracted and ignore me
i dont see anybody liking me for me

Life is about settling and compromising expectations.

>>39025206

Yes. She's getting jackhammered by Chad as we speak.

Sure there's someone you'd fancy as ideal, perhaps several.

Are you someone's ideal though, let alone your ideal's ideal?

I think I've met her and I'm super worried; I've been put off women but she really seems like the one.

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I know my ideal is out there, but im not her ideal.

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>>39025206
Yes but, not in this reality.

>>39027777
Going through this right now except we live in the same city. She's the female version of me but her feelings will remain platonic.

>>39025206
No.

originally, I mean

I believe he's on here somewhere, I just need to learn to not push people away with my insecurities first probably.

>>39030011
/r9k/ is not a fag meet up.

yes a girl megan who got away from me twice. she is now married. there is a girl melisa who we seem to like each other but another girl cockblocked me. her mom told me to stay away from her, she knows my kind...(a muscled robot) who still play a little video games.

>>39025206
She exists but she doesn't know or care that I do. And to be honest I really can't blame her.

>>39030398
>muscled robot
No such thing, you failed normie.

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>>39025206

Yes.

But is she born in this same timeframe?
Will we ever encounter one another?

Who knows...

Until then, I will continue making robots.

>>39030011
I believe in you anon, we'll both find out perfect robot bfs one day

>>39030546
>>39030011
Go post in the ideal thread. Both of y'all

>>39025206
>Do you think there is someone for you out there?
probably
im not for them though

>>39025206

Ideal? Probably. Will I like this person? Unlikely. At 30 years old I've realized that anything short of perfection will be a disappointment.

>>39030577
Anon, I'm a boy
and I think that other anon is too

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no, I have to much social anxiety to get to know people

I have no friends and I never go anywhere, I just work as much as possible to keep my mind busy, on weekends I usually think about killing myself

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>>39025206
I realized I'm insane just 5 mins ago.

Everyone is like that. Their all disgusting and sick creatures. Every single one. Some more than others.

It's funny the sum and degenerates in our society are the most honest. Well with society not themselves. Heh

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>>39025206
Yes, but I'm too vain to love her

>>39030763
She is probably just as flawed as your are.

i think i know her but she lives far away. By the point i can meet here she will probably be married already. And ldr are shit.

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>>39030786
Hopefully we both cosmetically/physically improve our appearances till we're both at each others standards and meet

I did pay 400 dollars for a wig last year, am having it dyed, learned makeup, and took up crossfit sooo . . maybe it will happen
or I'll just become my own gf

>>39025206
I did until I read up on female psychology and sexuality

>>39025206
yes
myself
origibnanlan

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>>39025206
I don't think so mane, too autistic to ever get gf also don't think anyone would put up with me being an unmotivated lazy cunt

Yes of course, but i will never find her and she will never find me we will just die and get reborn millions of times always in different time periods because of quantum time shit science and someday after thousands or billions of years of living i finally find her