>Catch feelings for a girl
>hang out, maybe fug once or twice
>start noticing things about her that I don't like (personality, appearance, mannerisms, right down to her diet)
>start getting second thoughts
>Tell her its not going to work out or even ghost on her
>she is flabbergasted and pissed
>Rinse and repeat
Can anyone else here relate? I can never tell if I'm being too overcritical, if my standards are too high, or if I'm just avoiding commitment.
I've never actually had a relationship, just a few brief flings. Wtf is wrong with me?
>>38944803
avoiding comentment
>having sex
REEEEE NORMIE
>>38944854
im sorry
If it's any better I didnt lose my v until 24
>>38944803
>start noticing things about her that I don't like (personality, appearance, mannerisms, right down to her diet)
This will happen with EVERYONE you meet, girlfriends, just girls, friends, acquaintances, etc. You will ALWAYS start noticing things you don't like about people. You either put up with it or ghost them. I'm guilty of ghosting too.
Things I've noticed about current girl that I don't like
>not very attractive
>kinda fat
>seems very needy / clingy
>single mother
>had mustache hair one time I met with her
>hairy vagoo
>no common interests
>overly affectionate
>seems to be against giving head
Pros:
>is a girl
>will let me fug her
>>38944913
Doesnt seem that way with me. I'm just super critical of women im interested in