Is having a girlfriend really worth it, or not?
No. Too much bullshit for too little reward.
>>38841046
Depends on the girl. If you're grabbing a roastie fresh off the cock carousel and expecting her to become a house wife, you're in for a world of hurt.
>>38841046
idk not really. it takes up a lot of time, energy, and money. i mean, you're gonna do it anyway when the time comes up, but often when you get out of a relationship once you start getting over being sad you just start feeling relieved. and then back into a relationship you go...
>>38841141
Why do we torture ourselves like this?
>>38841161
Biological urges and the need for fulfillment through other people. It's an inescapable part of the human condition.
how the heck would i know?
>tfw even if you ever got a gf you'd be too afraid to fuck her
>tfw you're instantly insecure about your body and your dick when you even have the slightest conceptualization ot sex
>tfw sex is absurd to you and you're afraid of the concept
Does anyone else know this feel
>>38841391
I know it all too well. I thought I was the only one.
>>38841391
>Does anyone else know this feel
We all know.
>>38841046
If she makes good pizza yes.
>>38841046
I've had multiple gfs and I still don't know the answer to that. When I'm single I crave a gf more than anything. When I have one I just want to be single.
>>38841046
IRL? Idk, no experience
LDR? Fuck no you'll just get hurt
get a gf if you're a teen or in your early 20s so you can get sex regularly while your sex drive is peaking.
after 30 it's not worth it anymore imo
>>38841391
I used to be like this. A lot of shame and thinking I'm hideously ugly. Thought I'd die alone.
I felt absolutely hopeless. My girlfriend makes me believe in soul mates. We've been living together for three years and I still feel like I'm ugly, I still don't like myself. I keep a lid on it unless I get too drunk and break down, if that happens she turns off the lights (I don't like a anyone seeing me show emotions) and holds me, or leaves me alone if I ask.
She tells me I'm the most beautiful person she's ever seen.
She's good at making me feel like a good person too. And she's unbelievably pretty. I honestly believe I live with an angel.
I'm still fairly reserved when I speak to her but she knows that's just how I am. I can support her in all the ways she needs by my ability to remain calm, not show fear and pick up spiders.
It can happen robots. Angels are out there
>>38841116
This. Better off finding a FWB.
>>38841046
I do have more happy times, but it didnt magically stop the morbid/self loathing thoughts.
She does acknowledge im a social retard at points, but doesnt think i suffer from depression