I feel as though men hurt more in the long term after a break up than a women. Any thoughts as to why?
>>38690744
girl gets dumped:
>omg poor stacy
>he was so awful anyway, he didnt deserve you
>that's fine, my shoulder is always here for you to cry on
>hey, let's go party! that'll cheer you up!
man gets dumped:
>dude, that sucks
>it's fine, we get it, you need some time alone
>get depressed because your friends arent there for you in your time of need
>>38690744
women don't process their feelings rationally. they process feelings with another dick. men on the other hand either nosedive into depression and substance abuse or slowly put themselves back together by applying hard logic to silent introspection.
>>38690887
>>38690976
Mix of both of these. Whether he actually needs it or not, a guy's kind of out on his ass when it comes to support on this kind of thing.
>>38690744
girl just finds another dick to ride immediately after. when you break up, you are surprised. the woman however, has likely thought about it for a long time. they've already mourned and moved on by the time they break up with you
>>38690744
I've read sometime ago that if man for example cheats, he still goes back to his real family and loves them, but when woman does it it's pretty much over.
I just think that man can love stronger
also woman is ALWAYS victim and man is ALWAYS opressor. Even if she treats you as shit people will defend bitch
and now im pissed off
>>38691191
>>38691034
>>38690976
>>38690887
Thanks guys I feel better knowing this. It just sucks but I'll get over it or at least move on...the bad thing is lol if she wanted to get back together I would in a heart beat
>>38691034
Five minutes after my ex broke up with me she had someone else. She made a journal on some site a couple of months after crying to everyone that she's been single for five years. She had cheated on me at least once with someone else before that.
All of the mutual friends I had with her left me to fawn over her, was left mostly alone since then.
Pretty shit.
>>38690744
I'm not even sure women take these things seriously. My ex gave me a box of chocolates as a Valentines day gift 2 weeks after she broke up with me. I was utterly baffled.
>>38690744
Because the man had to work at it.
>>38691855
Just dont fall for the depression/substance abuse meme.
I fucking ruined my life and now its a million times worse than it was before. Just even realizing this and writing it down makes me want to kill myself tonight. There's literally no reason to pick up the pieces just to get back to where I already fucking was in the first place. Changing everything in the hopes I would eventually get happy again made me a shell of who I once was. .
This is it lads