>five years since I last felt anything for a girl other than mild sexual attraction
When's the last time you fell in love, robots?
I never fell in love but I would always find a girl in my class to obsess over for no other reason than I have a strange need for a "that girl".
Now that I'm not in school anymore there's nothing.
>>38631437
What do you mean by "that girl"? Do you like talk to her?
Fell in love with a girl in my class at uni.
Spent a magical semester together and then at the end she just ghosted me.
Shattered my world and to her it was nothing. She misled me the whole time just so she could have a study buddy and someone to go to special events with so she wouldn't have to be alone for an hour.
Fell into a big depression, totally lost the will to live, litrally almost died. Ended up dropping out.
The recovery process involved burning away all ability to feel sentimental or romantic feelings. She basically stole my soul. Can't even form friendships anymore because I don't care about anything and never want to let anyone close to me again because I know they'll just end up hurting me.
>>38631458
no he means he just is obsessed with them and never talks to them. i do the same shit and it makes me want to kill myself
>>38631458
No it's just like a crush I don't act on or anything. I've done this since forever and I even remember the name of the one from high school.
>>38631487
I used to have that. all the girls had bfs so I just never tried. there was no point to being friends or anything. just easier to be a passive observer of their life.
>>38631403
3 years, but honestly it only makes everything ( as in getting to be/sleep with the girl) more complicated.
>>38631462
Get yourself together, the average guy always have to deal with this. Girls tend to do this if they get even slightly bored with you, they won't try to fix the relationship on their own.
>>38631462
Man wtf sre you new havent you been redpilled on woman?
And btw no she wasnt a particulary evil bitch, you definitely became a needy fag which hoes HATE
Two years ago. With a true robot girl I met at uni.
She didn't feel the same.
>>38631403
I used to think the only time I'd been in love was when I was around 13-14. Now I realize that was just puppy love. But after over a decade of not caring at all about women/relationships, earlier this year I suddenly fell into what I think is actual love (unrequited) and it's absolute hell.
>>38631403
God, I can relate OP. I wish I could feel something more than this for them.
>>38631626
This, more knowledge please anon
Lel, too jaded to fall in love. I'll only ever be filled with hatred or a mild form of malcontent for the rest of my life, if I'm being honest.
>>38631541
>just easier to be a passive observer of their life.
>Tfw you were that guy
>all the boys and girls in school just magically attaches to each other
>>38631643
>was a needy fag
>was my fault she acted like a bitch
>take the redpill
>overdose on ideology
>become a sublime /fit/ uebermensch
>no regard for females
that's actually what happened
now that i've become your favorite meme what do i do now?
>>38631685
Honestly, don't be a robot. No girl can relate to an introverted guy, period.
So be talkative, outgoing, funny and all that shit. Go out and do exciting stuff and make the move on her not too late.
Don't take my advice as absolute truth tough, just talking from 2 failed dating experiences.
>>38631774
Why would I want to pretend to be something I'm not though?
It isn't sustainable and in the end won't we both just be miserable?
>tfw in love with a girl who loves me
>almost 10 years
>tfw she's no-meme autistic
>don't even want to be with other women
>she's so devoted to me it feels like an anime sometimes
it's hard though, society doesn't normalize relationships like this.
>>38631403
>feeling anything towards other people but hate, anger or disgust
>>38631783
That's my point tough, I was brutally honest with who I am and it didn't end well. But it's no wonder. A guy wouldn't want to be your friend either.
Help yourself first.
>>38631403
A few months ago. It was more than lust. I felt like I connected with her. We had a lot of the same interests and were both fucked up and lonely. Just found out the other day she's married. Fucking hell how are you alone when you have someone. Fuck you cunt and all your lies.
A year ago. Before her it had been almost 6-7 years, and back then it was pretty much the same as >>38631437, she was just 'that girl' I obsessed over in school. It was different with the one I fell for last year, but it doesn't matter since it ended the same way.except I'm still in love with her
>>38632253
>It was more than lust. I felt like I connected with her.
>>38631403
Never, real women are ignorant, vile, selfish bitches, I just purchase escorts and wank to 2D/3D porn because that's all they'll ever be good for.
>have never felt true love. Only lust
So never
Like 2 years, but about week ago some girl start flirting with me, felt so good talking with her like with no other. Sad she has a bf and probably she just wanted dick since her bf was not on the party. Or maybe she's not happy with him. Dunno. Want feel nothing like always.
>>38631437
I've tried to actually talk to "that girl" for the last 3 years now. It seems to get harder and harder to overcome her when she turns you out.
Last one was I meet her in April, she became "that girl" in May. I started talking to her and in June I asked her out.
>Mfw I still think of her every day
A couple of weeks ago, she loves me too, feels good lads
>>38631403
Two months ago
She's the only girl or even person that I've been able to be totally open with, but due to my paranoia over losing her, I ironically preemptively ditched her
>>38632685
Green text it so we can live through you
I'm in love with a girl currently, it's quite a damaging feeling, think about her for hours on end
I know I can never have her or even be friends with her, we've barely ever interacted and she's halfway across the country
It's a bit selfish but sometimes I wish she would just die so I could get over myself
Was very slowly falling for this girl who lived down the street, I'd sneak out just to be at her place, and we'd just hang out, cuddled a couple times, but she suddenly ghosted me. Which sucks, since besides her. I really had no one else or anywhere else to be. Wasnt really sad when it happened, just sorta sucked.
I fell for a fembot a few months ago, went through the whole "in love" brain chemical reaction thing, and ended up scaring her away by being too transparent in my feelings.
I miss talking to her, I've never had multiple hours long conversations like that with anyone else.
Never. I rationalize it by thinking that love, like friendship is a feeling that comes from being together with someone for a long time and it's not just something magical that makes your kokoro go dokidoki out of thin air, like the media tells you. Seems like a better explanation than "lol I'm emotionally dead xD" right?
>>38632772
I've fucked things up by being to transparent and also because "she didn't think I would ever want something with her, I was too cold"
Where is the middle point?
>>38632711 you got it
>Meet girl on an app
>She lived 10 hours away, is a perfect 10
>Think I have no chance with this girl (I'm a short, fat spic)
>Talk to each other for a bit, then add each other on snapchat
>Start talking each day on that app
>Later tells me how she's incapable loving anybody
>My heart drops because I really like her
>Start ghosting her and not seeming very interested
>A couple of weeks later she tells me she had a crush on me and likes me
>I say "I thought you only liked me as a friend"
>She says she doesn't know exactly how she likes me but she likes me
>Start acting interested again
>Start videochatting with her late at night for hours at a time
>She suddenly starts saying she loves me, I try not to say it so as not to seem so pushy and just laugh it off
>A week or so later she says she's in love with me, and I tell her the same thing
>Videochat A LOT more
>She says she loves me constantly and calls me cute, perfect, adorable, hot, etc
>Talk about meeting up soon and start going out
>Talks about wanting to hold me, kiss me, love me, and having sex
It would be great if I lived closer so we could meet up faster, but I love her and I hope we can get together soon. We're all gonna make it lads.
>tfw in the school gym benching 220 for reps with 8/10 babyface
>all the staceys literally staring
>they have no idea about my power level
>absolutely no regard for them b/c ruined at a young age
>>38631403
I fell for a girl in high school 4 years ago, though I felt she was way out of my league so I kept it to myself. Other guys were telling me she had a thing for me but I just assumed they were stitching me up.
Even though I'm over her now, I've never felt the same way for a girl since.
I had a bad habit of falling for girls I was friends with in school. If we were in the same class and she was willing to give me the time of day, I deluded myself into thinking she was into me. For months, I would agonize over when to make a move, waiting for some definite sign. Eventually, I would psych myself up enough to ask them out, only to be inevitably turned down.
I've convinced myself that it must have been because I waited too long. If I only acted sooner, things would have been different. The likely reality, though, is that I never stood a chance.
>>38632894
>Other guys were telling me she had a thing for me but I just assumed they were stitching me up.
This is scary to think about sometimes, where would we be in our lives today if only we had had a little confidence in ourselves and actually took the risk to ask out "that" girl.
Even today I struggle with this, I know confidence in oneself is key, but that doesn't stop me from feeling like a garbage tier human all the time. How the fuck do I become confident?!
She moved to my town in 7th grade and I never really talked to her. In high school I did have a few friends, and there was a rare day I was feeling good about myself and just talking to those friends in class while the teacher was away. One of them said something funny and I started laughing and smiling, which I rarely did. I was staring straight ahead, but wasn't paying attention to where I was looking at the time, but then I caught myself and saw that she was staring at me. I guess she never saw me smile or laugh before so it might have been odd to her. Anyway, I turned away and just looked at my desk because I was embarrassed to have been looking in her direction. After class that day, I was walking home in the halls. I never used a backpack, I always carried all my books in my hands so I had like six books. Someone called my name and I turned around to look, and it was her. She waved at me and was walking with some of her friends. That got me really nervous, so I decided to wave back. Then all my books fell in the floor and scattered everywhere because I forgot I was holding them. She walked off laughing with her friends about it.
I didn't see her much my last year of high school, but one day I was sitting at a table by myself far off from the crowd, and she sat down next to me for some reason and started talking to me. I didn't know how to talk to her. Everything was a missed opportunity. I mean, not really, because I know she didn't like me and never would. I was content to admire her without anyone knowing (people just called me gay since they thought I didn't like girls).
Years after I graduated college, I was back in my home town (where I ended up staying while everyone else moved away). I was at the grocery store, and I saw her walking the aisles with this good looking guy who wasn't from here. I quickly moved into another aisles so she wouldn't see me. Never saw her again.
>>38632835
You're in for a bad time senpai, she's going to lose interest soon if things escalated that quickly
My last crush was when I was 13, then she changed hairstyle one day and I never felt anything for her again. I have no idea what happened but it told me that crushes are totally meaningless.
I'm 19 now and I haven't felt anything for a girl since.
>>38631403
Once I took the redpill on women and roasties I have decided I am a free man. I have had crushes and all of them have failed. I will never succeed. I am lonely.
>>38633005
P-please don't say that anon, I want this to last, let me just have this one win
2010. I don't remember too much of it anymore, my memory generally doesn't last longer than five years. I know it was both the worst and best that I ever felt though.