Hello gays, women and other things that are attracted to men.
In your opinion, what is the most attractive quality in a man?
>>38534656
gaybot here.
confidence and dominance are definitely what makes a man attractive. looks like big muscles and whatnot can increase attractiveness, but if you have an okay looking face and are confident in yourself/socially dominant you can go from a 6/10 to an 8/10
it's not about doing, it's about being
a guy that acts confident and assertive is easy to see through. it's like, oh he's trying to be a big strong dom guy, that's cute, maybe i'll humor him a little. a guy who is that way naturally is a million times better. almost no guys can pull this off so it's super super nice when one can. especially when he likes me too it's like i instantly fall for him day 1.
money is secondary, looks are secondary
both of them are important obviously but it's relative. between a guy with money or looks and one without anything obviously the first one wins. but for a guy with the right personality, both lose.
>>38534813
I will give your insides an okay dicking and I mean it, buster.
>>38534813
>confidence
Does anyone else not get this meme? Girls don't have an equivalnet where all guys are like non-physical trait x. It's such a Normie thing to say
>>38535329
>a guy that acts confident and assertive is easy to see through. it's like, oh he's trying to be a big strong dom guy
>a guy who is that way naturally is a million times better.
Tfw you realise that the only difference between someone who is naturally assertive and "acting" is simply a confirmation bias related to looks and social status
>>38534813
>>38535329
So what you're saying is that you're beyond screwed if you're passive and meek.
>>38536150
Yep
Welcome to the club
>>38536140
nope. and really you're only showing how little social experience you have by saying that.
>>38536172
So tell me, what's the difference between someone who acts confident, and someone who's "naturally" confident.Hard-mode: don't use subjective descriptions
>>38536239
to put it very simply
a try hard generally seems like hes trying to FORCE you to see him as masculine. it's clear as day.
a naturally dominant guy appears that way effortlessly.
>>38536140
i might be biased because i look for dom guys. for most of them it's just a fantasy. i've met doctors that were attractive and made tons of money but they were awkward and beta. i've also met bodubuilders that were very confident but not authentic. it was like a r9k putting on a muscle suit and playing as chad.
much more than either of those i was attracted to the kind-of ugly mid-30s part time martial arts instructor (cute) that was experienced, knew exactly what he wanted, and knew how to get it.
>>38536150
find a dom whos into passive meek guys and ur gold anon
>>38536329
You're just reiterating the last point, where's the line between authenticity and acting?
>>38536754
personally, and this is going to sound like bee yourself shit
but you can just feel it. it's obvious.
authenticity usually gives off a relaxed vibe. acting is usually tense as fuck.
>>38536239
Dunno, it comes off naturally? People tell me I'm confident because I don't fidget and overall don't retract from things, and have an intense gaze wtf that means.
>>38534656
Being one.