Um so how do I deal woth this? My boyfriend is an asshole to everyone except me. He doesn't give a fuck about anyone except his family. He doesn't care about charity or anything and this bothers me... wat do? He's supposedly a Christian but lol
Call him out on it?
>>38504012
If only there were a board specifically designated for asking advice...
>>38504029
He doesn't care. He just laughs and tells me to help him be nicer and says I'm too nice and that'll bite my in the ass
Are you both boys?
>>38504186
No, im a girl (girl)
>>38504207
Ok so how exactly is he an asshole then? Like does he actively act like dick towards them or is he just not actively being nice and minding his own?
>>38504012
You're just over-sensitive, plus almost all charities are fraudulent, and you would be stupid to throw away money to them.
>>38504295
He just doesn't care. He's antisocial I guess but is pretty rude to people when he does talk to them, looks down on ppl and hates the idea of charity
>>38504012
>He doesn't give a fuck about anyone except his family
He is doing it right. That is what a man should be.
You are not supposed to change him, you are to be a balance to him, the other side of his coin.
>>38504012
If he was a beta that was nice to people you wouldn't be attracted to him anymore.
>>38504444
He's right to hate the idea of charity. All charity does is create people who are dependent on other people's free money, and gives them no reason to actually better themselves to improve their situation. If you actually want to help someone, you would give them a job, or the ability to get a job. Otherwise you're just making things worse for both of you. Charity is a sham for idealistic fools.
>>38504464
The last guy I liked was a "beta"
Emotional but still masculine
>>38504012
>He's supposedly a Christian but lol
Fuck off whore
>>38504589
And yet you've proved his point by him being the last guy you liked, as opposed to the current guy you like.
>>38504012
He's not gonna change unless he has some life changing experience. Some guys are assholes while some guys are nice.
You can't fix people. If you don't like it leave but I promise he will stay like that.
>>38504624
We had issues. I think he's a good guy.
>>38504654
That sucks :/
I don't think it's good to be so cold. He's only nice to me because he cares about me.
>>38504785
Shut the fuck up you dumb bitch, nothing you say matters. Guys just want to cum in your holes and run
>>38504012
>doesn't appreciate the place she has in her boyfriend's heart
this is why roasties cant be trusted, they will take leaps of logic to assume the worst and pretend they're right because "women's intuition xD" but then never realise what's already in front of them
>>38504813
I don't get why everyone is telling me to shut up. Not having empathy for others is a problem.
>>38504835
He barely has a heart.
>>38504895
>I don't get why everyone is telling me to shut up
Because no one cares what you have to say. We just want to use your body as a fleshlight
>>38504012
Fuck off bitch. Take this bait to >>>/adv/
>>38504012
>He doesn't give a fuck about anyone except his family
Seriously don't see how this is a bad thing. What do you want? Prince charming that volunteers at the soup kitchen every week?
...he's lurking in the shadows, waiting for his day...
post his facebook
>>38505211
Yeah basically
He needs to care about others
OP is definitely baiting but thats besides the point. Charity, caring about the wellness of other human beings and being friendly are all things you should be. Antisocial losers like the posters here never have friends or relationships because they dont possess these qualities
>>38504895
>I don't get why everyone is telling me to shut up. Not having empathy for others is a problem.
it's his problem, not yours.
trying to change him is a one way ticket to making him hate you.
>>38504012
gtfo and stop looking for attention roastie whore, some of us have real problems here. At least he cares for you.
I'm the same way. He will never care, it's part of his personality. He still likes you so who cares?
>>38506723
this
why do women have to try to change everything about their bf/husband until they are no longer the same person?
trying to change his personality is a much bigger problem.
fucking let him be himself
>>38506634
I'm not trying to change him. He grew up with this mindset so.
>>38506781
Uh you're supposed to improve/grow as a personin a relationship.
>>38504207
fuck off my board slag
I hope he beats you to death
>>38507884
Listen, you're talking to the wrong group of people for this issue. Everyone on this board has a cocktail of mental issues that prevent them from living normal lives, but you're also at fault for choosing here to vent your issues.
>>38505167
>>38507902
We will destroy normies.[email protected]
>>38507884
>I'm not trying to change him.
>Uh you're supposed to change as a person in a relationship
pick one
females have no self awareness i swear
Stupid fucking whore. Don't even pretend you don't love him BECAUSE he doesn't care. You belong to him you hole.